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RE: Why are you Dominant/submissive? - 7/30/2011 2:43:43 PM   
ChatteParfaitt


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Status: offline 		I just want to know about the pizza. I think all real twue subs want the veggie pizza, and all real twue doms want the meat.

Your tastes in pizza *determine* if you are dominant or submissive.

I am gathering evidence.





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RE: Why are you Dominant/submissive? - 7/30/2011 2:44:01 PM   
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I'm neither. Basically I'm just here for the free pizza


i don't like pizza though unless it has been worn on a bunny's head for at least a month

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RE: Why are you Dominant/submissive? - 7/30/2011 2:49:38 PM   
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Status: offline 		Scientists have tried to link ring-finger-longer-than-index and higher intrauterine testosterone levels in women to, among other things, higher risk-taking [e.g., adventure vacations/contact sports], and more traditionally masculine jobs [e.g., electrical engineer, head of financial consulting firm] with more subordinates. Conversely, women with index-longer-than-ring fingers tended to have more traditionally female jobs [e.g., childcare worker, bank teller] with fewer subordinates and less risk-taking [e.g., relaxing vacations/aerobics].
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RE: Why are you Dominant/submissive? - 7/30/2011 2:51:33 PM   
Tantriqu


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ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt
I just want to know about the pizza. I think all real twue subs want the veggie pizza, and all real twue doms want the meat.
Your tastes in pizza *determine* if you are dominant or submissive.
I am gathering evidence.



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RE: Why are you Dominant/submissive? - 7/30/2011 3:00:25 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Tantriqu

Scientists have tried to link ring-finger-longer-than-index and higher intrauterine testosterone levels in women to, among other things, higher risk-taking [e.g., adventure vacations/contact sports], and more traditionally masculine jobs [e.g., electrical engineer, head of financial consulting firm] with more subordinates. Conversely, women with index-longer-than-ring fingers tended to have more traditionally female jobs [e.g., childcare worker, bank teller] with fewer subordinates and less risk-taking [e.g., relaxing vacations/aerobics].
ymmv



Well, I'll be fucking damned!! My ring finger is the longer of the two & I fit the profile there. I've long loved adventures & I rode my own motorcycle years before I ever met another woman who rode. I rode with the guys in a club. I've always been into cars & my biggest childhood dreams were to be a race-car driver & a truck driver. I drove a semi for 8 years, thus fulfilling that dream. At the age of 65, I'm giving up the idea of being a race car driver, because I don't want to go to one of those camps & pretend to be a driver, I wanted to actually run in real races. And I'm most definitely submissive to the bone.

And I prefer meat & veggies on my pizza. WTF does that make me???

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RE: Why are you Dominant/submissive? - 7/30/2011 3:05:12 PM   
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Status: offline 		I had mild powerplay fantasies when I was growing up, because power always goes well with sex. I was also the oldest child, which adds a little bit of leadership abilties.

Later on, my father beat me down for a couple of years, and that experience resulted in: enjoying violence, having a high pain tolerance, sadistic (physical pain, emotional turmoil: degradation/humilation/etc), controlling behaviour.

P.S. I don't understand why people get annoyed at this question, as if it invalidates their identity. Moments of vulnerability or anxiety during childhood colour your sexuality later on.

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RE: Why are you Dominant/submissive? - 7/30/2011 3:05:45 PM   
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Status: offline 		Im not Dominant in any way, so by default im submissive.  thats it really.  my kinks and predisposition mean that vanilla and me dont get on.  ive often thought that sucks........ like not being bi............, that sucks too.

i think what makes people sub or Dom is as much to do with their kink and fantasies as theyre personality wiring - to tie or be tied - to spank or be spanked.   to control or be controlled.

i have no desire to control, tie up or spank anyone, but i do have the desire to have those things done to me.  submission to a guy is all about facilitiating those actions, making myself available to them and because he wants to do those things to me.

Dominance and submission of the will is for me all about trust, giving myself into anothers hands and trusting them implicitly, something else i need on a deep level.  i have no idea where my kink for trust comes from, im also sure its no great mystery, if i just applied myself to the question the answer is there somewhere.

in the end we are driven by kink and it largely depends which side of the kneel that kink springs from.  after that its down to each individual to decide how far they wish to take their Dominant or submissive leanings and/or who they end up exploring all of this with.  IMO



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RE: Why are you Dominant/submissive? - 7/30/2011 3:29:05 PM   
Twoshoes


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ORIGINAL: Tantriqu

Scientists have tried to link ring-finger-longer-than-index and higher intrauterine testosterone levels in women to, among other things, higher risk-taking [e.g., adventure vacations/contact sports], and more traditionally masculine jobs [e.g., electrical engineer, head of financial consulting firm] with more subordinates. Conversely, women with index-longer-than-ring fingers tended to have more traditionally female jobs [e.g., childcare worker, bank teller] with fewer subordinates and less risk-taking [e.g., relaxing vacations/aerobics].
ymmv



Well, my index finger is ever-so-slighty longer (or about the same). I do like less competitive jobs, relaxing activities and harmonious things.

You can have "traditonally feminine" feautures to your personality and still be plenty dominant, just in other aspects of life. So instead of bossing around a bunch of subordinates at work, you would be very specific and demanding about your home environment, the dishes being washed, people being respectful towards eachother, etc. :)

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RE: Why are you Dominant/submissive? - 7/30/2011 3:33:32 PM   
ChatteParfaitt


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Status: offline 		I need more pizza data. Help me out here folks.

Veggie or meat? Or a combo?

Contribute to science, please.


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RE: Why are you Dominant/submissive? - 7/30/2011 3:33:59 PM   
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Status: offline 		I used to spend countless hours and research trying to find the answer to why.  The I actually discovered the truth.  It doesn't matter.  All that matters is that I accept and love myself for whom and what I am.  

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RE: Why are you Dominant/submissive? - 7/30/2011 3:44:15 PM   
ChatteParfaitt


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Status: offline 		But what kind of pizza do you like?

Try to stick with me, folks.

This is *science.*


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RE: Why are you Dominant/submissive? - 7/30/2011 4:37:52 PM   
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Do your parents or star signs contribute to your Dominant/submissive nature?
Or are you simply born into a Dominant/submissive state of mind.

Neither.

The thrill for me is being forced to submit for various reasons.

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RE: Why are you Dominant/submissive? - 7/30/2011 5:41:14 PM   
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Status: offline 		I like meaty pizzas.... Does that make me a not twue sub?? 

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RE: Why are you Dominant/submissive? - 7/30/2011 5:42:19 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt

I just want to know about the pizza. I think all real twue subs want the veggie pizza, and all real twue doms want the meat.

Your tastes in pizza *determine* if you are dominant or submissive.

I am gathering evidence.







...aahh...now it all makes sense.

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RE: Why are you Dominant/submissive? - 7/30/2011 6:08:04 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MasterNeo1

Have you ever wondered why others, (or you) are Dominant or submissive?
'So, why are you Dominant/submissive?
Usual answers:
1. 'Oh, I did not choose this path. I was just born Dominant/submissive.'
2. It is my star sign. It possesses a Dominant/submissive trait, that enables me to Dominate others/be submissive to others.
3. I had Dominant/submissive parent(s). Therefore, they passed down their genes to me.
4. I don't know. I just figured i'd give it a try..

What is your view?

Do your parents or star signs contribute to your Dominant/submissive nature?
Or are you simply born into a Dominant/submissive state of mind.

Maybe all this is just nonsense, and you choose the path you want; merely due to your likes, dislikes, curiosity and experiences.



I have no idea as to the "correct" answer nor do I care to waste any more of my time trying to find it.

I was a masochist and loved submitting to powerful women before puberty.   I have fond memories of spankings and doing things to provoke punishment before I ever masturbated.

I grew up in a very vanilla and VERY conservative home.   Spankings were seldom given and they finally gave up on them as punishment for me as a result of my laughter during punishment.

I am strong and I am a combat veteran.....I am also a submissive.   I enjoy submitting to my Miss as it pleases Her and it pleases me.   It is a special part of our relationship and that is all there is to it.

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RE: Why are you Dominant/submissive? - 7/30/2011 6:10:51 PM   
ChatteParfaitt


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ORIGINAL: littlekitten1

I like meaty pizzas.... Does that make me a not twue sub?? 


Yes.

Try to think....vegan.


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RE: Why are you Dominant/submissive? - 7/30/2011 6:12:21 PM   
ChatteParfaitt


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ORIGINAL: Muttling

quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterNeo1

Have you ever wondered why others, (or you) are Dominant or submissive?
'So, why are you Dominant/submissive?
Usual answers:
1. 'Oh, I did not choose this path. I was just born Dominant/submissive.'
2. It is my star sign. It possesses a Dominant/submissive trait, that enables me to Dominate others/be submissive to others.
3. I had Dominant/submissive parent(s). Therefore, they passed down their genes to me.
4. I don't know. I just figured i'd give it a try..

What is your view?

Do your parents or star signs contribute to your Dominant/submissive nature?
Or are you simply born into a Dominant/submissive state of mind.

Maybe all this is just nonsense, and you choose the path you want; merely due to your likes, dislikes, curiosity and experiences.



I have no idea as to the "correct" answer nor do I care to waste any more of my time trying to find it.

I was a masochist and loved submitting to powerful women before puberty.   I have fond memories of spankings and doing things to provoke punishment before I ever masturbated.

I grew up in a very vanilla and VERY conservative home.   Spankings were seldom given and they finally gave up on them as punishment for me as a result of my laughter during punishment.

I am strong and I am a combat veteran.....I am also a submissive.   I enjoy submitting to my Miss as it pleases Her and it pleases me.   It is a special part of our relationship and that is all there is to it.



But Mutt, my babe. What kinda pizza do you like?

Inquiring minds want to know.

This is for *science.*


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RE: Why are you Dominant/submissive? - 7/30/2011 6:16:08 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt

I just want to know about the pizza. I think all real twue subs want the veggie pizza, and all real twue doms want the meat.

Your tastes in pizza *determine* if you are dominant or submissive.

I am gathering evidence.







Oh! I prefer veggie. :) I don't eat (dead) meat though.

Glad to contribute to the cause! :D

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RE: Why are you Dominant/submissive? - 7/30/2011 6:22:38 PM   
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Status: offline 		how in the name of sweet mother mary's unploughed cunt would i know? i'm a fucking switch. i'm dominant and submissive. i'm also a sadist and a masochist, a top and a bottom. oh yeah, i'm also bi. i swing both ways no matter which ways you're talking about. i'm a fucking slut for all seasons, the proverbial renaissance whore.

what? where? why? how? fuck! your guess is as good as mine. for all i fucking know it's dependent on the relative positions of the sun and the moon in relation to the planets.


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RE: Why are you Dominant/submissive? - 7/30/2011 7:08:57 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt

Yes.

Try to think....vegan.



Are you really vegan?

Well i totally respect that... I tried to go vegetarian twice... But I simply cant ._. I get too depressed, because the taste of meat is too good for me to resist, and whenever I smell a bbq or something, I get longing x_x

I've considered trying it again recently, mostly because of health reasons. I just wish I had a stronger power of wil X( I don't come with those.

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