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HarryVanWinkle -> RE: And what's wrong with that? (5/18/2006 10:31:15 PM)
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ORIGINAL: urantiam
My Mistress who is known as (collarworthy) on this site, as been treated like dirt. You see my Mistress was new to this lifestyle, just like me. When I saw her profile for the first time, she was listed as a submissive female. But I was really attracted by her looks, so I sent her a message.
After this first message, we seemed to get along so fine that one message just followed another. There was just no end to our communication. Then we started to talk on the phone. The more we talked to more I realized that Cynthia was not submissive at all, in fact she was extremely controling. Very dominant also. But she did not realized this herself, since she loved to be dominated in the bedroom.
A couple of days ago, she decided to list herself as a domme. She did this because after talking about owning slaves for hours and hours, she realized that the idea of owning slaves was growing on her.
But since she did this, many members have started to say that she belongs in a mental institution. Now is that a way to treat a Queen. Why don't you get to know this woman. You will see that she has a heart of gold. She is also sexy and very wise. Why do you judge the book by the cover. You members are really hurting my feelings.
Please! Just take your time before you pass jugdement on someone.
URANTIAM
Urantium,
I recall the thread. What I remember seeing was a few people flaming you and a lot of people giving you very intelligent advice, which you chose to interpret as also flaming you because it wasn't what you wanted to hear. Most of this advice came from people who, while some of them are a lot younger than you and your Mistress, are a LOT more experienced, both online and in the BDSM lifestyle. And as I recall, just about all of that advice said pretty much the same thing. I recall the words, "Trainwreck waiting to happen" being repeated early and often.
Son, if a few flames on an internet message board are capable of "really hurting your feelings," then I'd recommend that you avoid such boards, because flames are inevitable. And if you're going to ignore all advice which goes against your fantasy, then what's the point of asking for advice in the first place.
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