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defiantbadgirl -> wedding vows for d/s couples (8/1/2011 7:54:21 AM)
Any ideas?

RapierFugue -> RE: wedding vows for d/s couples (8/1/2011 7:56:08 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl Any ideas? In a Christian context? The original/traditional form of words with "obey" in them possibly too subtle?

littlewonder -> RE: wedding vows for d/s couples (8/1/2011 7:57:31 AM)
the original vows? Love, honor and obey? Those always worked for me.

RapierFugue -> RE: wedding vows for d/s couples (8/1/2011 7:58:20 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: littlewonder the original vows? Love, honor and obey? Those always worked for me. The very form of words I was thinking of, yes :)

DarkSteven -> RE: wedding vows for d/s couples (8/1/2011 8:24:08 AM)
Why? To me, weddings are vanilla. Why not have a vanilla wedding for family and vanillas, and a collaring ceremony after specifically for your kinkster friends?

GreedyTop -> RE: wedding vows for d/s couples (8/1/2011 9:02:07 AM)
write your own?

siamsa24 -> RE: wedding vows for d/s couples (8/1/2011 9:34:26 AM)
Husband and I used traditional vows, we even had a Christian blessing over the wedding. We are republican, gun-toting, Christian, conservatives who spend Saturday night beating each other and Sunday morning in "our" pew at church [:D]

Anaxagoras -> RE: wedding vows for d/s couples (8/1/2011 9:43:29 AM)
Presumably a different arrangement to yourself but someone told me cybelian marriage vows were like traditional marriage vows but the power differential relating to obedience was intensified for the male submissive partner so maybe you could consider a sort of similar approach for yourself but from a male-dom perspective.

Moonhead -> RE: wedding vows for d/s couples (8/1/2011 1:21:36 PM)
Or he could just publicly brand her arse and pierce her while somebody reads excerpts from The Story Of O and Slavegirl Of Gor... [;)] (Not serious: good luck, dbg.)

popularDemand -> RE: wedding vows for d/s couples (8/1/2011 1:26:31 PM)
"Do you sollumly swear to: Promise nothin' Take everything act like a cunt fuck off when you want? I pronounce you..." etc etc pD

RapierFugue -> RE: wedding vows for d/s couples (8/1/2011 1:35:15 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: popularDemand "Do you sollumly swear to: Promise nothin' Take everything act like a cunt fuck off when you want? I pronounce you..." etc etc heh. Shades of "awful wedded wife" there :)

Anaxagoras -> RE: wedding vows for d/s couples (8/1/2011 2:01:29 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Moonhead Or he could just publicly brand her arse and pierce her while somebody reads excerpts from The Story Of O and Slavegirl Of Gor... [;)] (Not serious: good luck, dbg.) Inserting the command chip... sowing up the... [also just kidding Defiant!] [:)]

HeatherMcLeather -> RE: wedding vows for d/s couples (8/1/2011 2:15:50 PM)
Do you claim this slut as you're personal property to do with as you wish? And you, slut, do you recognise this woman's <or man's> claim to ownership? How's that? It would seem to cover all the bases to me.

Moonhead -> RE: wedding vows for d/s couples (8/1/2011 2:25:05 PM)
It might be worth a look on youtube: there's bound to be a set of S&M vows or two on there. I remember them filming one for Eurotrash...

littlewonder -> RE: wedding vows for d/s couples (8/1/2011 3:17:23 PM)
I thought you couldn't get married right now because of your school benefits? Just a thought that came to me after coming back here to read updates.... If you are getting married..yeah, write your own vows. Reading what someone else wrote for you won't really mean anything to you. They'll just be words. Write what comes from your heart...but appropriate for all to hear unless only bdsm people are going to be present.

defiantbadgirl -> RE: wedding vows for d/s couples (8/1/2011 4:40:42 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: littlewonder I thought you couldn't get married right now because of your school benefits? That was before we found out my health insurance will be cancelled less than a month after major surgery. Unfortunately, our financial aid will decrease but he has employee health insurance and I don't. As long as there's no lapse in coverage, they can't refuse to cover a pre-existing condition. We've been engaged a long time. We just decided to marry sooner rather than later due to health insurance issues.

Anaxagoras -> RE: wedding vows for d/s couples (8/1/2011 5:51:07 PM)
I saw this online a while back http://master-purity.xanga.com/624423555/oour-bdsm-wedding/ which goes into a lot of detail as to who one couple did it. Something symbolic of the dominance/submission dynamic in the relationship may be key to a ceremony although it doesn't have to be very overt, perhaps something especially meaningful to yourselves.

Aswad -> RE: wedding vows for d/s couples (8/1/2011 8:04:55 PM)
~fr~ I'm rather partial to the old "adore and obey" thing, but I agree that it's best to write one's own. Health, al-Aswad.

Egillandpet -> RE: wedding vows for d/s couples (8/1/2011 8:41:17 PM)
I am unsure of this as W/we had a Pagan handfasting then wedding. My pet was collared in a private ceremoney at home later that night.

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