RE: why do Woman hate redheaded men

Collarspace Discussion Forums

Home Login Search

RE: why do Woman hate redheaded men

View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest

All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> Ask a Mistress >> RE: why do Woman hate redheaded men

Page: << < prev 1 [2] 3 4 5 next > >>

Message

<< Older Topic Newer Topic >>

RE: why do Woman hate redheaded men - 8/12/2011 12:15:49 AM

BitaTruble

Posts: 9779
Joined: 1/12/2006
From: Texas
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: shaunthesheep

im just a white man with orange hair and freckles,

With a canvas like that, I'd bet you would mark really well. Consider hooking up with a sadist who would also enjoy your service. Not everyone 'hates' redheaded men. I sure don't.

_____________________________

"Oh, so it's just like
Rock, paper, scissors."

He laughed. "You are the wisest woman I know."

(in reply to shaunthesheep)

Profile

Post #: 21

RE: why do Woman hate redheaded men - 8/12/2011 12:15:53 AM

WinsomeDefiance

Posts: 6719
Joined: 8/7/2007
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: shaunthesheep

and none of you have a clue what my life is like, from my earliest memories ive had people telling me that im an ugly freak, i have constantly been made to feel like im not good enough,...

Umm, hello? Redheaded, fair skinned, freckle faced gal here. You aren't the only ginger in the cookie jar.

So you aren't everyone's flavor? Big deal. Not ALL women hate redheads. Which is good. You don't NEED all women to desire you. Just one. The rest who aren't into redheads. So what. You can't fuck em all, anyway.

I've had a hell of a lot more men call me ugly and homely than I've had compliments. That doesn't mean all men hate winsomely defiant redheads. Those who do. So what. I can't fuck em all anyway.

(in reply to shaunthesheep)

Profile

Post #: 22

RE: why do Woman hate redheaded men - 8/12/2011 1:45:43 AM

SuperHappyTime

Posts: 63
Joined: 8/11/2011
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: shaunthesheep
..blah blah etc etc..i was asking a clear question, which none of you answered...

There is no answer to your question because it's couched in the assumption that all women feel the same. I hate to break it to you, but I've a friend who's ginger and did 'better' with women than most of the rest of us (he's firmly attached now). Its a confidence issue..yep, its great that you're nice and polite and all that but if you're also unconfident and prone to reacting to issues like you have here, then women aren't exactly going to be lining up outside your door.

Inform yourself about how to dress and what you like, work on your confidence, laugh along with the tongue-in-cheek comments about your hair colour.

Edit: after seeing the multiple pity posts you've spammed across the forums..I'm regretting bumping this one up

< Message edited by SuperHappyTime -- 8/12/2011 1:57:14 AM >

(in reply to shaunthesheep)

Profile

Post #: 23

RE: why do Woman hate redheaded men - 8/12/2011 1:55:20 AM

Cherylmazana

Posts: 1152
Joined: 10/4/2007
Status: offline

So your ginger, so what.

My husband is ginger, his sisters are ginger, and I expect our grandkids will also be ginger (it seems to skip a generation in his family).

The only problem with being ginger is that most gingers have a chip on their shoulder the size of a house because they got bullied at school.

Well guess what you also got bullied if you wore glasses, were fat, too thin, too tall, too small, didn’t fit in with the right crowd, didn’t wear the right clothes, didn’t swear/smoke/fight, enjoyed learning, didn’t like learning, were considered thick, were thought of as too bright, were teachers pet, and probably a hundred other things.

In fact most kids were bullied in school unless you were the one in a hundred who was the one everyone wanted to hang out with.

So you think you are unattractive, guess what your attitude makes you unattractive good for you, you just fulfilled your own prophesy.

Cheryl

_____________________________

Sometimes just because it looks like a duck, and quacks like a duck, doesn’t mean it is a duck, it could instead be a plastic replica that leads ducks to their ruin.

(in reply to SuperHappyTime)

Profile

Post #: 24

RE: why do Woman hate redheaded men - 8/12/2011 2:08:02 AM

DeviantlyD

Posts: 4375
Joined: 5/26/2007
From: Hawai`i
Status: offline

Women don't hate red-haired men. I know I don't. If you dislike it so much, go to a hair salon and have them colour it for you.

_____________________________

ExiledTyrant's groupie. Catering to his ego since May 26, 2007. :D

(in reply to Cherylmazana)

Profile

Post #: 25

RE: why do Woman hate redheaded men - 8/12/2011 4:02:51 AM

shaunthesheep

Posts: 16
Joined: 8/7/2011
Status: offline

i am not going to colour my hair, i just have to accept that im physically disgusting, i will be posting photos in my profile on tuesday next week (i have to get my camera sorted out) so you can all judge for yourself. i AM sorry if i was emotional before, i get really depressed sometimes and it bothers me that im physically disgusting and 100% unloveable, thats all. I am sorry for overreacting

(in reply to DeviantlyD)

Profile

Post #: 26

RE: why do Woman hate redheaded men - 8/12/2011 4:51:35 AM

SadisticMs2

Posts: 203
Joined: 8/10/2011
Status: offline

You need a therapist.

(in reply to shaunthesheep)

Profile

Post #: 27

RE: why do Woman hate redheaded men - 8/12/2011 4:55:05 AM

LadyConstanze

Posts: 9722
Joined: 2/18/2005
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: shaunthesheep

well i am destined to always be alone, its my fate to never experience love, i am worthless, i am just an ugly redheaded loser

Oddly enough I'm a redhead too and I never had that problem...

_____________________________

There are 10 kinds of people who understand binary
Those who do and those who don't!

http://exdomme.blogspot.com/2012/07/public-service-announcement.html

(in reply to shaunthesheep)

Profile

Post #: 28

RE: why do Woman hate redheaded men - 8/12/2011 5:09:04 AM

domiguy

Posts: 12952
Joined: 5/2/2006
Status: offline

No, the OP is pretty much spot on, redheads are fairly vile people.

With their pasty white sickly transparent skin and huge purple veins, Eeeeeek! Round them up and kill them all.

Alabaster white skin is sooooo fucking grodie. I would rather have a serial killer living next to me than a red head.

_____________________________

(in reply to shaunthesheep)

Profile

Post #: 29

RE: why do Woman hate redheaded men - 8/12/2011 5:11:07 AM

SadisticMs2

Posts: 203
Joined: 8/10/2011
Status: offline

LOL Too funny!

Fear my alabaster skin!

(in reply to domiguy)

Profile

Post #: 30

RE: why do Woman hate redheaded men - 8/12/2011 5:13:48 AM

PeonForHer

Posts: 19612
Joined: 9/27/2008
Status: offline

In all seriousness, if you really believe that, then you really *do* need a therapist, Shaun.

_____________________________

http://www.domme-chronicles.com

(in reply to shaunthesheep)

Profile

Post #: 31

RE: why do Woman hate redheaded men - 8/12/2011 5:36:00 AM

LadyConstanze

Posts: 9722
Joined: 2/18/2005
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: shaunthesheep

i am not going to colour my hair, i just have to accept that im physically disgusting, i will be posting photos in my profile on tuesday next week (i have to get my camera sorted out) so you can all judge for yourself. i AM sorry if i was emotional before, i get really depressed sometimes and it bothers me that im physically disgusting and 100% unloveable, thats all. I am sorry for overreacting

Physically disgusting? Well, you don't seem to be morbidly obese, you can't be everybody's type, you can try and make the best out of your type and that's it.

Take it from somebody who's redheaded with a Latin skin, most of my childhood and teenage days I was hankering for freckles and pale alabaster skin, the time I wasted being miserable about a perceived flaw, can I have that time back please? For a while I coloured my hair black or brown, then about 3 or 4 years ago I just couldn't be bothered with wasting all that much time doing that anymore, can you imagine how surprised I was when people asked me which hair colour I use because they like that orange mop on top of my head?

Oh and I did have a boyfriend with red hair when I was a teenager, one hell of a sexy guy, despite his pale skin and freckles, the problem was too sexy and he couldn't resist temptation - so we split.

Repulsive is not how somebody looks, repulsive are certain attitudes, and what would repulse me a lot more than your skin and hair would be your whining and saying you are a loser who doesn't deserve anything - sod it, if you think like that about yourself, what kind of a partner would you make? Think about it in terms of a job interview. If you proclaim loudly that you can't do the job, why would anybody employ you? They want somebody who's up for the job, same with relationships. Work on your 'tude a bit and worry about your hair colour later.

_____________________________

There are 10 kinds of people who understand binary
Those who do and those who don't!

http://exdomme.blogspot.com/2012/07/public-service-announcement.html

(in reply to shaunthesheep)

Profile

Post #: 32

RE: why do Woman hate redheaded men - 8/12/2011 5:46:20 AM

LillyBoPeep

Posts: 6873
Joined: 12/29/2010
Status: offline

it's possible that it's your negative outlook that chases people away.
if i met someone who talked about himself like this, i'd probably wander away.

for the record, i like redheaded dudes. i also like blonde guys with blonde eyelashes. but i'm also not a FemDom.

i kinda get where you're coming from; i mean, i meet a lot of people who don't like me, or don't consider me "dating material" because i'm brown. i'm not some pale-skinned petite blonde. =p but what are you going to do? whine about it and let it irreparably harm your self-esteem? if you become bitter and self-loathing, no one will want to be around you, much less date you, because you become toxic to them, too. just be yourself, be happy for yourself and true to yourself, and you'll find someone who really wants to know who YOU are, and not just about your hair/skin/eye/whatever color.

_____________________________

Midwestern Girl

"Obey your Master." Metallica

(in reply to LadyConstanze)

Profile

Post #: 33

RE: why do Woman hate redheaded men - 8/12/2011 6:50:27 AM

Daddysredhead

Posts: 23574
Joined: 11/6/2005
From: Northern (yet still part of the South) Virginia
Status: offline

I'm very proudly a redhead, though I wasn't always. Once I got into college, I realized that lots of people were dying their hair to get it a shade of mine.

I know that Hibbie loves her ginger men. So, I would say it has less to do with your hair color and more to do with the attitude you are displaying.

I hope you get help.

~ Red

_____________________________

Founding Member, Clan of the Scarlet O'Hair-a's

Do not challenge me to a battle of wits & come to fight unarmed.

Are you really that stupid? ~ Bless your heart

13th doughnut

(in reply to LillyBoPeep)

Profile

Post #: 34

RE: why do Woman hate redheaded men - 8/12/2011 7:19:58 AM

OsideGirl

Posts: 14441
Joined: 7/1/2005
From: United States
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: shaunthesheep
Why do Woman hate redheaded men with pale white skin and freckles?

I'm madly in love with my handsome, redheaded man who has pale skin and freckles.

quote:

ORIGINAL: littlewonder

your problem isn't your red hair

it's your attitude

Get thee to a therapist

This, majorly.....

_____________________________

Give a girl the right shoes and she will conquer the world. ~ Marilyn Monroe

The Accelerated Velocity of Terminological Inexactitude

(in reply to shaunthesheep)

Profile

Post #: 35

RE: why do Woman hate redheaded men - 8/12/2011 7:31:38 AM

BonesFromAsh

Posts: 1362
Joined: 6/17/2010
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: MistrixMsE

Someone wants to invite us to his pity party... secretly hoping someone will play into your 'loser humilatrix fantasy' and tell you how awful you are so you can have more material to wank to? Sorry, not gonna happen.

Yeah...kinda obvious, ain't it.

(in reply to MistrixMsE)

Profile

Post #: 36

RE: why do Woman hate redheaded men - 8/12/2011 7:59:40 AM

HannahLynHeather

Posts: 2950
Joined: 4/4/2011
From: where it's at
Status: offline

quote:

I would rather have a serial killer living next to me

well of course you would. you'd have something in common. you could reminisce, compare notes, argue late into the night about the best way to dispose of the bodies. i imagine it would be great fucking fun for you, to share a hobby with your neighbour like that and not have to go down to the state penn on visiting day to find like minded people.

_____________________________

clique? i don't need no stinking clique!

fuck a duck ~w. disney

My Twitter: http://twitter.com/HannahFuck

i hope you enjoyed the post, and as always my friends....have a nice day

(in reply to domiguy)

Profile

Post #: 37

RE: why do Woman hate redheaded men - 8/12/2011 8:21:34 AM

LadyConstanze

Posts: 9722
Joined: 2/18/2005
Status: offline

Hannah, I think you are completely and utterly wrong there due to the criminal profiling:

http://www.criminalprofiling.ch/character.html

quote:

In general they are white males, aged 25 - 34, of at least average intelligence, and often with charming personalities.

See how that can't work?

_____________________________

There are 10 kinds of people who understand binary
Those who do and those who don't!

http://exdomme.blogspot.com/2012/07/public-service-announcement.html

(in reply to HannahLynHeather)

Profile

Post #: 38

RE: why do Woman hate redheaded men - 8/12/2011 8:50:40 AM

LaTigresse

Posts: 26123
Joined: 1/15/2006
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: shaunthesheep

well i am destined to always be alone, its my fate to never experience love, i am worthless, i am just an ugly redheaded loser

Quit your fucking pathetic whining.

After reading your first two posts on this thread I already know it ain't your fucking hair or freckles that is keeping you from getting laid.

_____________________________

My twisted, self deprecating, sense of humour, finds alot to laugh about, in your lack of one!

Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!

(in reply to shaunthesheep)

Profile

Post #: 39

RE: why do Woman hate redheaded men - 8/12/2011 8:56:13 AM

JWriter

Posts: 67
Joined: 7/27/2011
Status: offline

I'll have you know, the person I miss most from my past happens to have been a tall, thin, extremely pale redhead, with brown eyes, and rosy cheeks. He was considered terribly ugly by most of the girls in school, and, generally was chased by all the gay boys. I thought he was gorgeous.

The man I fell in love with is extremely tall, thin, and, has auburn hair.

So, not all women hate redheads, to be sure. I wouldn't go out of my way to date, befriend, or own anyone based on their hair color, but, red hair does tend to make me smile, more.

(in reply to MissToYouRedux)

Profile

Post #: 40