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Arpig -> I fucking hate life!! (8/14/2011 2:09:06 PM)
OK, so my buddy P calls me and asks that I help him out cleaning up after a renovation. No problem, right? No problem! He's promising beer and a bar-b-q for whoever shows up. COUNT ME IN!!! So I get there around 10 AM and we have a beer, just him and me. We get to talking about the "Good old days" before we had kids (Yeah, known him that long). It was fun, we were laughing. We were remembering the craziest things we did. Then the phone rings >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>His mother became paralyzed and then lost consciousness and is now in the hospital. Fuck you life!!

NuevaVida -> RE: I fucking hate life!! (8/14/2011 3:03:22 PM)
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Arpig -> RE: I fucking hate life!! (8/14/2011 3:34:55 PM)
Good idea.

LaTigresse -> RE: I fucking hate life!! (8/14/2011 3:50:28 PM)
You're born and then ya die. Can't change it. It's guaranteed. Life is all the shit you do inbetween the two. Some of the shit is good shit, some of the shit is bad shit. If you don't like the shit......sucks to be you.

LadyConstanze -> RE: I fucking hate life!! (8/14/2011 3:52:07 PM)
Roughly 10 years ago I spent a night out with a friend, about a week before he had his wedding when his phone rang, pregnant bride was hit by a car with a drunk driver, she and kid died before they reached the hospital, fucking gutting, a year on and I was abroad, moonlighting as a journo while doing my thesis, came back, answering machine blinked, I ignored it as I thought it was my moronic ex, next morning checked it, said friend begged me to call him, did so straight away, got told he blew his brains out on the anniversary when his bride died. Pulled the floor out from underneath me, I felt guilty for ages and couldn't cope (my brother and my grandpa had died shortly before while I survived a cancerous tumor), it took me a year of therapy to realize that life often sucks and is often unfair, but it's nothing I can do. I still have phases where I think I might have changed something if I would have checked my answering machine before, the fact that I was in another country and possibly couldn't have done a thing is something my rational mind comprehends, but it doesn't help with the feeling of guilt and being utterly helpless. One day I might get rid of it, I won't hold my breath. Not sure if I can give you any advice apart from, fucking life is not fair, nobody gains if you're beating yourself up!

Arpig -> RE: I fucking hate life!! (8/14/2011 4:00:35 PM)
I know where you're coming from C Fuck you life!

MasterG2kTR -> RE: I fucking hate life!! (8/14/2011 4:01:05 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Arpig Then the phone rings I know a guy by the name of Murphy.....I'll be glad to introduce you sometime.....[;)]

LadyConstanze -> RE: I fucking hate life!! (8/14/2011 4:10:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Arpig I know where you're coming from C Fuck you life! Maybe that's why I don't grudge people the belief in a deity, if it makes it easier for them, go for it, wish my friend would have had that. Let's deal with the fact that life is just not fair and we can do our bit in small measures, I can't help everybody but I can help the old lady or the blackbird with a broken wing, tons of things I can't change, but what I can I will. And nope, I don't think I will be rewarded in the afterlife, fuck that, I am human today and what is being human if we don't have compassion?

Arpig -> RE: I fucking hate life!! (8/14/2011 4:34:38 PM)
I do. I started out doubting and really wanting to believe. Now, i still doubt, but I really hope there isn't. because if there is a God(s) then he(they) are the coldest, cruelest bastards that ever existed. Fuck life Fuck god Fuck it all. Nothing is worth shit except the love of my children, and that is secure. The rest? I just don't give a flying fuck anymore, I tried to care for 40 odd years, but I just don't. Fuck life and fuck you and fuck me. Fuck it all!

LadyConstanze -> RE: I fucking hate life!! (8/14/2011 4:42:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Arpig I do. I started out doubting and really wanting to believe. Now, i still doubt, but I really hope there isn't. because if there is a God(s) then he(they) are the coldest, cruelest bastards that ever existed. I'm agnostic for the very reason you stated, there might not be hope but if somebody finds hope in a belief and it helps him or her from going to pieces, I really don't grudge it to them, sometimes I wish I would have that belief, it would make it so much easier. Doesn't mean that you and I can't do anything, as I said, we might not be able to change the world, we can do our bit, if enough people do their bit, there might be a change.

LillyBoPeep -> RE: I fucking hate life!! (8/14/2011 4:47:37 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Arpig because if there is a God(s) then he(they) are the coldest, cruelest bastards that ever existed. yeah, that's the conclusion i kinda came to after all the crap that happened over the last several years. if there is someone up there calling the shots, s/he's got a pretty horrible, twisted, fucked up sense of humor, and i don't remember agreeing to play this idiotic game by such idiotic rules. very sorry for your friend's mom =( i hope that she can have some kind of recovery...

pahunkboy -> RE: I fucking hate life!! (8/14/2011 4:56:53 PM)
I am sorry.

Arpig -> RE: I fucking hate life!! (8/14/2011 5:07:59 PM)
The world is as it always has been. It sucks. If you have hopes...they will be dashed. If you have dreams...they will end up empty. If you have beliefs...they will be proved baseless. If you have ideals...they are false. That's how it is, that's how it always has been, and...sorry Hannah, that's how it always will be.

LadyConstanze -> RE: I fucking hate life!! (8/14/2011 5:24:46 PM)
Shut the fuck up, have you managed to make a difference with just ONE person? Random acts of kindness, I experienced them when I was about to look for the next bridge to jump down when I was at my lowest and thought I couldn't cope with it anymore. That's what propped me up, I'll be fucking damned if I don't give that back, even if I won't make a difference, I will have tired. What are you? A quitter? Go out and do something, anything, be nice to a person who seems to be lonely, help somebody across the street, carry a bag, it doesn't have to be something heroic, a small thing can make the difference for somebody. We all die in the end, I don't think I'll leave enough of a mark to be remembered 10 years from now, so fucking what? If I just make a single person feel better, mission done. Think you can match that or are you a quitter?

DrStrangelove83 -> RE: I fucking hate life!! (8/14/2011 6:02:28 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze Shut the fuck up, have you managed to make a difference with just ONE person? Random acts of kindness, I experienced them when I was about to look for the next bridge to jump down when I was at my lowest and thought I couldn't cope with it anymore. That's what propped me up, I'll be fucking damned if I don't give that back, even if I won't make a difference, I will have tired. What are you? A quitter? Go out and do something, anything, be nice to a person who seems to be lonely, help somebody across the street, carry a bag, it doesn't have to be something heroic, a small thing can make the difference for somebody. We all die in the end, I don't think I'll leave enough of a mark to be remembered 10 years from now, so fucking what? If I just make a single person feel better, mission done. Think you can match that or are you a quitter? Thank you!!! I was just about to go on a similar rant; you've saved me the trouble. You have left your mark on me, and I don't forget much of anything. You're sig gave me a bit of a chuckle as well. :p At the TS Sorry to hear about your friend's mom... my condolences. quote: Goth Kid: I guess you can join up with us if you want. Goth Kid 2: Yeah. We're gonna go to the graveyard and write poems about death and how pointless life is. Butters: Uh, uhm no thanks. I love life. Stan: Huh? But you just got dumped. Butters: Well yeah, and I'm sad, but at the same time I'm really happy that something could make me feel that sad. It's like, it makes me feel alive, you know? It makes me feel human. And the only way I could feel this sad now is if I felt somethin' really good before. So I have to take the bad with the good, so I guess what I'm feelin' is like a, beautiful sadness. I guess that sounds stupid. Goth Kid 2: Yeah. Stan: No. No, Butters, that doesn't sound stupid at all. Butters: Well, thanks for offering to let me in your clique, guys, but, to be honest, I'd rather be a crying little pussy than a faggy Goth kid. From "South Park" 2003

DeviantlyD -> RE: I fucking hate life!! (8/14/2011 6:12:45 PM)
Wow. A lot of bitterness about life here. Yes, things in life can beat you down, I'm certainly aware of that. But I refuse to give up hope. Even in my darkest time, I always had this little bit of hope. Sometimes I see that is how I differ from others, I have hope and I think I may always have it until the day I day. Like the name of the book says, no one here gets out alive, and none of us knows what happens on the other side. Maybe we do all turn to dust and nothing more, but something deep inside me says it isn't so. But to say that if there is a god, that god is cruel...I think is just too simplified of a response because we just don't know why. There is pain and heartache and cruelty in life and yes it is unfair. I feel for the friend of the OP's. If there is any small thing he can hold on to, perhaps it is that it is unlikely his mother is aware of what is happening to her. As opposed to a good friend of my parents who was just diagnosed with stage 4 liver cancer. I'm not sure I want to know when my time is up. So for the OP's friend, the likelihood his mother is unaware might be of a bit of comfort...you look for it where you can, true?

DominantSeeking -> RE: I fucking hate life!! (8/14/2011 6:22:08 PM)
Sorry for your loss. Hope this helps. I read of a man who stood to speak at the funeral of a friend He referred to the dates on her tombstone from the beginning to the end. He noted that first came the date of her birth and spoke of the following date with tears, But he said what mattered most of all was the dash between those years. For that dash represents all the time that she spent alive on earth... And now only those who loved her know what that little line is worth. For it matters not, how much we own; the cars .... the house... the cash. What matters is how we live and love and how we spend our dash. So think about this long and hard ... are there things you'd like to change? For you never know how much time is left. (You could be at "dash mid-range") If we could just slow down enough to consider what's true and real, And always try to understand the way other people feel. And be less quick to anger, and show appreciation more, And love the people in our lives like we've never loved before. If we treat each other with respect and more often wear a smile... Remembering that this special dash might only last a little while. So, when your eulogy's being read with your life's actions to rehash... Would you be proud of the things they say about how you spend your dash??

pahunkboy -> RE: I fucking hate life!! (8/14/2011 6:26:58 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Arpig The world is as it always has been. It sucks. If you have hopes...they will be dashed. If you have dreams...they will end up empty. If you have beliefs...they will be proved baseless. If you have ideals...they are false. That's how it is, that's how it always has been, and...sorry Hannah, that's how it always will be. Pull yourself together. Someone is ALWAYS worse off.

LillyBoPeep -> RE: I fucking hate life!! (8/14/2011 6:49:57 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: pahunkboy Someone is ALWAYS worse off. while that is undoubtedly true, i find that response doesn't have a stellar rate of success when aimed at someone who is feeling something really intense. it doesn't change anything that they are feeling in their personal bubble. yeah, it's always nice to think beyond the bubble, think about other people's lives and be grateful for what you have, but when something very serious has just happened in a person's life, that's actually a really obnoxious thing to insist that a person do. that's my problem with the bulk of humanity -- this silly idea that you have no right to ever feel bad about anything. you have no right to feel depressed, or frustrated, or flat out pissed off; it's always "well someone's got it worse" -- okay, maybe -- but that does nothing for what i feel TODAY right now, here in my own world. whatever happened to empathy? when the Dude died, this is almost all i heard from people. "it could be worse." nobody listens, they just throw half-assed "solutions" and then rag on you later for not taking them. pfft. people suck.

0ldhen -> RE: I fucking hate life!! (8/14/2011 6:54:08 PM)
So sorry to hear that hon......it sucks...I know it does. But another day may bring good things to you as well as bad. Feel free to cmail if you need to talk.

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