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kenandstacey -> my philosophy on what it means to be Dominant (8/16/2011 4:10:48 PM)
I realize that for me to be Dominant and before I am worthy of being given control over another I must first learn control over myself. My chosen career has granted me the opportunity to control my baser instinct. Fear and the instinct for preservation of species has no hold over me. They are under my will. I spend my days 300 feet up suspended from a rope. Every time I crawl over the roof of a skyscraper it is an opportunity to exercise Dominance over myself. How can one be worthy of the gift of submission if they are not dominant over themselves first? Everything in my life I put under control of my will. I am victim to none and no person has control or authority over me. True dominance is not just a sexual game, it is how you live your life. Am I worthy? You be the judge.

DarkSteven -> RE: my philosophy on what it means to be Dominant (8/16/2011 5:12:37 PM)
Well, welcome to collarme.

ladynlord -> RE: my philosophy on what it means to be Dominant (8/16/2011 5:32:59 PM)
FIRST, let me join Steven in the welcome to Collarme. Glad to see new posters jumping in. quote: ORIGINAL: kenandstacey I realize that for me to be Dominant and before I am worthy of being given control over another I must first learn control over myself. I am glad that is what works for you. BUT, you asked others to be the judge, so you may find some opinions and philosophies that differ from yours. So do keep in mind that other opinions and even judgments, are not necessarily an attack! I will add that I do like your philosophy and believe that SELF control is essential, not only in the lifestyle, but in every other setting.

TheShrew -> RE: my philosophy on what it means to be Dominant (8/16/2011 5:36:57 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: kenandstacey Am I worthy? You be the judge. I'd suspect this is best left to your girl. Welcome to CM, and best of luck.

domiguy -> RE: my philosophy on what it means to be Dominant (8/16/2011 5:37:54 PM)
I deem you unworthy. Enjoy CM.

Buzzzz -> RE: my philosophy on what it means to be Dominant (8/16/2011 6:08:44 PM)
I don't believe being suspended from a rope way up in the air makes you in control of yourself. But that is just me.

ashjor911 -> RE: my philosophy on what it means to be Dominant (8/16/2011 6:47:54 PM)
Welcome To CM Enjoy........ Cheez dont you ever get scared up there.....

0ldhen -> RE: my philosophy on what it means to be Dominant (8/16/2011 7:36:38 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: kenandstacey no person has control or authority over me. Welcome to the boards...While your philosophy is fairly sound........I will caution you that 'One True Wayism" will not do you any favors in the forums. re the quote; IRS, State Gov, Fed Gov, Police Depts in your locale, Police depts wherever you travel, Your boss, the company you work for.........etc.....

catize -> RE: my philosophy on what it means to be Dominant (8/16/2011 7:48:49 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: 0ldhen quote: ORIGINAL: kenandstacey no person has control or authority over me. Welcome to the boards...While your philosophy is fairly sound........I will caution you that 'One True Wayism" will not do you any favors in the forums. re the quote; IRS, State Gov, Fed Gov, Police Depts in your locale, Police depts wherever you travel, Your boss, the company you work for.........etc..... .......not to mention the guy on the ground who took that photo! [:D]

OohAahMrs -> RE: my philosophy on what it means to be Dominant (8/17/2011 4:04:01 AM)
Yes, well done! It's dangerous up there by yourself, getting those strange ideas, any time you want to come down, use the ladder!

OsideGirl -> RE: my philosophy on what it means to be Dominant (8/17/2011 10:51:59 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: kenandstacey Fear and the instinct for preservation of species has no hold over me. They are under my will. I spend my days 300 feet up suspended from a rope. Every time I crawl over the roof of a skyscraper it is an opportunity to exercise Dominance over myself. While I can admire overcoming the fear of heights (terrified of heights myself), it doesn't prove your dominance. It's one facet of your life. It's the whole of your life that gives evidence of whether you're dominant or alpha. quote: How can one be worthy of the gift of submission if they are not dominant over themselves first? Submission is not a gift. A gift is given with no expectation of anything except a thank you in return. D/s is an exchange of power. It flows both ways. quote: Everything in my life I put under control of my will. I am victim to none and no person has control or authority over me. Feel free to tell that to the policeman the next time you get stopped for speeding. See how it goes over. I bet your employer would enjoy that conversation as well. quote: True dominance is not just a sexual game, it is how you live your life. There is no "true" in WIITWD. What each of us consider true is based on our individual needs, desires and perceptions. quote: Am I worthy? You be the judge. In my eyes, probably not. I dislike chest thumping. However, what really matters is whether your submissive thinks you're worthy. Ultimately, it all comes down to whether our relationships work for us as individuals. Welcome to the forums.

LadyConstanze -> RE: my philosophy on what it means to be Dominant (8/17/2011 11:07:06 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: kenandstacey I realize that for me to be Dominant and before I am worthy of being given control over another I must first learn control over myself. My chosen career has granted me the opportunity to control my baser instinct. Fear and the instinct for preservation of species has no hold over me. They are under my will. I spend my days 300 feet up suspended from a rope. Every time I crawl over the roof of a skyscraper it is an opportunity to exercise Dominance over myself. I couldn't make out from your picture if you are a builder or a window cleaner, but how does absence of vertigo make you dominant? I met a few pilots who happened to be submissive, so there goes that theory... quote: ORIGINAL: kenandstacey How can one be worthy of the gift of submission if they are not dominant over themselves first? Everything in my life I put under control of my will. I am victim to none and no person has control or authority over me. True dominance is not just a sexual game, it is how you live your life. Am I worthy? You be the judge. Dunno if you're worthy or not, maybe you should ask your submissive that? As for no control or authority over you, a couple of people have pointed out that it's not quite so, or does being on top of skyscrapers make you completely independent of laws, tax exempt, etc? And if you travel and you try to cross borders, you will find that every country has the right to refuse you entrance, I'd say that is a fair bit of control and authority, I wouldn't recommend giving anybody at an airport or a customs officer that little speech, they don't happen to have a good sense of humor.

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