RE: Understanding Ballbusting

RE: Understanding Ballbusting (Full Version)

All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> General BDSM Discussion

Message

sunshinemiss -> RE: Understanding Ballbusting (8/18/2011 6:19:01 PM)
There are about half a dozen groups (possibly more - I didn't look across the Mississippi) within a couple hours drive to him. Hardy - I read your profile. You are all about the fetish (of course your name tells us that). You realize that most women (who often don't like to be called "girls," btw) want a relationship rather than to be your Fetish Delivery System. If all you want is this one thing, you may want to just hire a professional. good luck, sunshine

peppermint -> RE: Understanding Ballbusting (8/18/2011 6:54:21 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss You realize that most women (who often don't like to be called "girls," btw) want a relationship rather than to be your Fetish Delivery System. good luck, sunshine Not quite true. Many around here seem to want a Free Fetish Delivery System. The fact that they will allow you to do those things should, of course, be ample payment for the services (play space, toys, time, high heeled boots, leather outfit, make-up, catering to some stranger's fantasies, etc) provided.

sunshinemiss -> RE: Understanding Ballbusting (8/18/2011 7:04:55 PM)
Peppermint - I don't understand your post. You seem to be saying that Dommes want a free fetish delivery system and that allowing a man to have his fetish fulfilled will be ample payment to the dommes. Huh? sunshine

LadyConstanze -> RE: Understanding Ballbusting (8/18/2011 7:19:29 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss Peppermint - I don't understand your post. You seem to be saying that Dommes want a free fetish delivery system and that allowing a man to have his fetish fulfilled will be ample payment to the dommes. Huh? sunshine Nope, she seems to say that most guys THINK that dommes should be flattered that guys consider her as a life support for their fetish fulfillment system. How many threads do we see with fine regularity that complain "Why can't I find a mistress who...." or "Why are there so many fakes here?" or "Why do pros charge me, it should be for both of our enjoyment and never for financial gain..."

peppermint -> RE: Understanding Ballbusting (8/18/2011 7:29:06 PM)
I'm sorry. I didn't know it would be misunderstood. I was being sarcastic and apparently it did not come through properly. I was agreeing with your previous statement, but adding the free.

sunshinemiss -> RE: Understanding Ballbusting (8/18/2011 7:31:31 PM)
Thank you for clearing that up!

hardyballzee -> RE: Understanding Ballbusting (8/19/2011 5:14:31 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze quote: ORIGINAL: hardyballzee quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact Let's see. Hmmmmmm. How about..... Get the fuck off of the internet and go to a CBT demo? Out of curiosity do you know where any of these take place? The only one I've ever heard of was in Las Vegas. In NYC they have them with fine regularity, you may just want to find an active BDSM group in your area or a big city near you, or find a Domme near you who is doing C4S - they have trouble finding guys who can take ball kickings, you might even get your kicks for free. Thank you for that information.

Awareness -> RE: Understanding Ballbusting (8/19/2011 5:15:13 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze quote: ORIGINAL: Awareness quote: ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious quote: ORIGINAL: Awareness And frankly, if a woman confessed to me that she would like nothing more than to be punched in the cunt, I'd think she's fucked in the head too. I think we know different women. And for that, I am profoundly thankful. I'm sure so is VC, hers tend to have a pulse Yeah, I hear with you lot, that's all it takes.

hardyballzee -> RE: Understanding Ballbusting (8/19/2011 5:18:38 AM)
Also to the contrary I understand what you're saying, but thus far I HAVE met someone on this site and practiced my fetishes with her. So, I have had a positive experience. Secondly of all I joined this website because I don't want to share my fetish with a potential person in a relationship. I've done that before it has turned out very, very bad for me. I've found it much, much, much and I do need to say much again better to find a woman already into ballbusting rather than introduce it to her. Your expertise is much appreciated, but experience has taught me as well.

Page: << < prev 1 2 3 [4]

Collarchat.com © 2025

Terms of Service

0.03125