NuevaVida
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You mean you don't send them upwards of 10 photos of your body in an effort to convince them otherwise?
What's wrong with you?
Yeah, empathizing with wimmin is the best way to get laid. Wimmin find men who act as emotional tampons sexy. That must explain why Charlie Sheen does so well. Guess he knows how to empathize. Submissive BDSM girls, in particular, are looking for guys who have tons of empathy. That's why they write things like "hit me, abuse me, use me" in their profiles. It's so simple. I can't believe I never thought of it.
I have no idea where you got "empathizing with wimmin" out of my post. My post to Rochsub was a joke, based on the idea that women do not appreciate risque shots of men. It was a rude joke, mind you, and I almost didn't post it, but as you can see, I did.
However, writing "hit me, abuse me, use me" is, in my opinion, their way of trying to entice a sadistic type who will feed their masochistic desires. Nothing to do with emotional empathy, and nothing to do with a desire (or lack of desire) to see risque photos.
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Heh - congrats on giving the worst advice ever on how to get laid. On a bdsm site, of all places. I didn't check your profile but I sure hope you consider yourself a sub. If not, I highly recommend you switch.
I didn't give you advice. And the orientation I consider myself doesn't have anything to do with what I posted or with your OP. Not really sure why you brought it up.
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I'll make this quick:
I don't have an "issue" with my profile, since broads practically never even view it. About 95% of the views I get are from gay men. Same story with PM's. I don't have an "issue" with my profile photo, because I had a picture of me in a classy, conservative business suit for my first month here. Did it increase female viewers? Absolutely not. On the contrary. That's why I switched to the current photo. I don't think wimmin under 30 are attracted to men in suits.
I don't have an "issue" with the messages I send, because I've tried absolutely every type of message under the sun with the same results. Long messages, short messages, personal messages, impersonal messages. Lots of photos, a few photos, no photos. Lewd photos, classy photos, and everything in between. Headshots, bodyshots, clothed shots, dick shots, home shots, toy shots, etc... I've tried it all. Simply nothing works for getting a response or even so much as a view.
You people don't get it. There's nothing wrong with me. There's something wrong with the site. I'll tell you exactly what's wrong with it: At least 98% of the <30 females on here are either outright fakes or time wasters. That is the only possible explanation. I have an extremely descriptive, non-rude, well-written profile and I convey myself the same way in every message I send. I am polite and articulate. I have tons of photos on my profile, I'm obviously a real person and I'm obviously capable of offering what I claim. In theory, a profile such as mine should be getting tons of messages. The only reason why it isn't, and it's a very simple reason, is that young, attractive females do not go to this site.
Now, that's enough about me. I came here to get a simple question answered, not looking for "advice". I'm doing just fine in general, thanks. This isn't the only site I use.
Not all sexual preferences are equivalent. Excluding an entire race of men when it's your own race is a more extreme preference than saying, liking blondes with big tits. Such extreme preferences demand an explanation .These white girls presumably grew up around white men, so how can they now claim to not be attracted to their own men at all? I can explain my own preferences.
That was "quick?" That was pretty lengthy, if you ask me.
In any case, ok, so you've decided there's something wrong with this site (despite that many men have success with it but ok).
You say you started this thread to get a simple answer but instead got a whole lot of what you didn't want. You send messages to women and get a whole lot of what you don't want. And yet, a LOT of people are disagreeing with you, and are getting the success you aren't getting. But if you want to blame the site, don't let us stop you. It's obviously not working for you, and you are not open to considering changing your approach. So, I guess go elsewhere...?
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