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RE: White Sub Girls for Black Men Only? - 8/17/2011 5:00:35 PM   
LadyConstanze


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Status: offline 		Most possibly don't like a faceless picture of wannabe beefcake with an obviously far to too large black censor bar, just a guess since I'm not submissive...

Oh and btw this is NOT a site for finding sex partners, you wish it was but that doesn't make it so - it's a lot less depressing than to think it is and you are failing, innit?

As to them not responding, could have something to do with what you write?

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RE: White Sub Girls for Black Men Only? - 8/17/2011 5:03:18 PM   
HeatherMcLeather


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Failing to provide an explanation in their profile is simply asking to get flooded by PM's from white guys looking for an explanation, such as myself.
Why?
Why do you care?
Why is it any of your business?
Do you cmail subs who are looking for a Daddy-Dom and ask them why?


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RE: White Sub Girls for Black Men Only? - 8/17/2011 5:04:08 PM   
OsideGirl


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ORIGINAL: Aderious

Why is it that seemingly every non-overweight, non-ugly, under 25, not obviously fake, sub white female on this site is looking for black men only?
Not only is this generalization, but you're also wrong.

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And why is it that none of them bother to explain this preference in their profiles?
Because they don't have to and shouldn't have to.

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At [their age], how much experience could they possibly have?
You're 25, how much experience could YOU possibly have?

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White men from liberal, SWPL states tend to be pussies.
Again, with the generalizations.

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That doesn't mean that white men everywhere are pussies.
Only the ones from liberal states?

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Why write all white men off? There are plenty of gay blacks, effeminate blacks, blacks with small or average dicks too.
So, you think this about your concept manliness and dick size, rather than what they're attracted to.

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Do these girls reason that they can get enough white men in real life, so they're only going to look for Blacks online? Is that how it works? Do they really think they've met enough white men in their lives to be able to say that none of them will be able to catch their interest?
So, because they're under 25 and haven't met all of the white guys in their area....they shouldn't be attracted to African American guys.

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It's really an amazing phenomenon. When you come across practically any semi-attractive sub female on this site, click on the profile and, if it's not an obvious fake, bam, there it is - black men only. Is this real life?
Yes, it's real life. Now put on your big girl panties and deal with it.


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RE: White Sub Girls for Black Men Only? - 8/17/2011 5:04:30 PM   
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Regardless of how polite, nice, well-written, interesting, unique, personal, or how many photos you attach (I've done up to 10)


You've attached TEN pics to an initial email?!?

There's your answer. You're perceived as narcissistic and shallow.

Do send a sample first email (scrub the recipient's name), either here or PM, and I will be happy to critique it. I'll even send it to some of my 20 something friends.

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RE: White Sub Girls for Black Men Only? - 8/17/2011 5:04:45 PM   
ThatsMissBitch


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Status: offline 		Maybe just maybe THEY ARE JUST NOT INTERESTED IN YOU?

You sounds like a little boy with a broken ego. A little boy stomping his feet because the kids want to play with the cool guys instead of him...LOL

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RE: White Sub Girls for Black Men Only? - 8/17/2011 5:05:48 PM   
LadyPact


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ORIGINAL: Aderious
1) Give me a break. This is a site for finding sex partners. If you have the goods, you show them off. Especially in a profile photo, where the whole point is to draw attention to yourself and make someone click through to your profile. There are thousands of female profiles on this site with profile photos just like mine (a body shot). Do you think they're being vain as well?

If the highlighted were true, you wouldn't be here complaining about the lack of finding any or the reason that you believe you aren't finding any.

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2) Choosing to see it that way? I could link multiple profiles here to prove you wrong, but I don't think I'm allowed.

You're not. 

So far today, there have been twenty-five female submissives who have joined this site (join date 8/17/11) who fit the 18-25 year old criteria in the United States.  I didn't see any that had "black only" on their profile.

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3) You think I haven't tried that? They don't respond. Girls <30 on this site do not respond to PM's about 98% of the time. Regardless of how polite, nice, well-written, interesting, unique, personal, or how many photos you attach (I've done up to 10).

So after everything that women on this site have repeatedly said about how they don't respond to messages from men with naked pics/cock shots/looking for easy hook-ups, you're really wondering about this one?


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RE: White Sub Girls for Black Men Only? - 8/17/2011 5:06:01 PM   
LadyConstanze


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On the outside: Well-spoken, mannered and dressed (compared to the average American male)


At least the average American male wears clothes - you don't

As for the rest of your profile, you are on about how great and wonderful you are and you come across as a bit mentally challenged

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My attitude is that of a classic male chauvinist.


Yeah and most of them died out or got sued to high heaven, so good luck with that...

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I'm an aspiring adult photographer & film director who is looking for subs to produce this type of content with.


Oh wow, free porn and nobody wants to deliver, of course you should have a paddy - make it a dominant melt down...

Here's your coffee, good morning...

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RE: White Sub Girls for Black Men Only? - 8/17/2011 5:06:10 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze

Most possibly don't like a faceless picture of wannabe beefcake with an obviously far to too large black censor bar, just a guess since I'm not submissive...


And the profile reads about as deep as a parking lot puddle......

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RE: White Sub Girls for Black Men Only? - 8/17/2011 5:07:12 PM   
HeatherMcLeather


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There is simply far too much diversity out there for me to believe that a young girl could be turned off by "all white men".
Maybe they aren't turned off by white men so much as turned on by black men. 

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RE: White Sub Girls for Black Men Only? - 8/17/2011 5:10:04 PM   
BitaTruble


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ORIGINAL: Aderious
Why is it that seemingly every non-overweight, non-ugly, under 25, not obviously fake, sub white female on this site is looking for black men only? And why is it that none of them bother to explain this preference in their profiles?


Hmm.. if it's not on their profiles how do you know they are only looking for black guys? Is that something they tell you after you write to them?

Ponder that, dude.

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RE: White Sub Girls for Black Men Only? - 8/17/2011 5:11:47 PM   
LadyConstanze


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ORIGINAL: Aderious

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ORIGINAL: stoni23

Your profile pic screams vanity to me. for one. Try a blurred face pic instead. Showing off how hot you think your body is isn't going to help anything. Your only saving grace is that you blurred the penis.

two: you're racist. I browse profiles all the time, I don't see any more black only then anything else. You're simply choosing to see it that way.

three: why don't you try talking to them? I prefer blonds, but will I turn down a brunette? no. You may have much better luck actually communicating with people.


1) Give me a break. This is a site for finding sex partners. If you have the goods, you show them off. Especially in a profile photo, where the whole point is to draw attention to yourself and make someone click through to your profile. There are thousands of female profiles on this site with profile photos just like mine (a body shot). Do you think they're being vain as well?

2) Choosing to see it that way? I could link multiple profiles here to prove you wrong, but I don't think I'm allowed.

3) You think I haven't tried that? They don't respond. Girls <30 on this site do not respond to PM's about 98% of the time. Regardless of how polite, nice, well-written, interesting, unique, personal, or how many photos you attach (I've done up to 10).



Oh have a fucking pity party and well, don't attach that many shots, especially not cock shots! If your mails are remotely as pathetic as your profile, do you REALLY wonder?

Face it, your profile pic says trying to be beefcake and failing, trying to convince he has a big cock and your profile reads "Young, clueless but arrogant" - now take a guess why women don't go for it? What do you draw? A big black bar?

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RE: White Sub Girls for Black Men Only? - 8/17/2011 5:13:34 PM   
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RE: White Sub Girls for Black Men Only? - 8/17/2011 5:16:08 PM   
LadyConstanze


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ORIGINAL: hardcybermaster

obviously it should be a small white bar



Obviously he didn't have a white pencil

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RE: White Sub Girls for Black Men Only? - 8/17/2011 5:16:59 PM   
BlkDaddysGirl70


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Status: offline 		First, the level of expectation of privilege and entitlement in your posts are enough to explain why you're not gettin' any play. There's a vast difference between being dominant and being domineering.

Second, as a woman who is not taking it personally that you're not into older big girls, I think you should take a hint and not make it about you that these women have a preference that doesn't happen to include you. We all like what we like...and it don't have a damn thing to do with what anyone else thinks about it. You are mistaking your own needs for that of others, and that's just not gonna get you anywhere (nor is it a sign of a good Dominant).

I realize you've been raked over the coals here, but you really did it to yourself. When you can take responsibility for your choices, your actions, and your needs, then you will find exactly what you desire.


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RE: White Sub Girls for Black Men Only? - 8/17/2011 5:19:39 PM   
kalikshama


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I bet you make a better impression in person than you do here but your profile is a real turn off, especially the part about wanting her to make money via porn.

I think you should lose the close up cock shot and some of the more vain pics.

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RE: White Sub Girls for Black Men Only? - 8/17/2011 5:20:03 PM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		BlkDaddysGirl... great first post! Welcome!

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RE: White Sub Girls for Black Men Only? - 8/17/2011 5:21:42 PM   
kalikshama


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Hmm.. if it's not on their profiles how do you know they are only looking for black guys? Is that something they tell you after you write to them?


It's the explanation of their preference that is missing from their profiles, as if he is entitled to a reason.

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RE: White Sub Girls for Black Men Only? - 8/17/2011 5:22:07 PM   
fragilepieces


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ORIGINAL: Aderious

I just sent the following PM to someone. Since I'm highly unlikely to get a response, I figure I'll post the question here:

Why is it that seemingly every non-overweight, non-ugly, under 25, not obviously fake, sub white female on this site is looking for black men only?  How do you know they are not really overweight, over 25 or a woman for that matter.   A picture does say a 1000 words but pics can be stolen and anyone can be what they want someone to believe they are.     And why is it that none of them bother to explain this preference in their profiles?  When I am seeking I normally put that I am seeking black men only BUT it's either not seen even though I tend to put it first in bold black letters OR I get some jerk that tells me he hopes I wind up with OJ.  

At [their age], how much experience could they possibly have? You are 25 so are you doubting your own experience? White men from liberal, SWPL states tend to be pussies. That doesn't mean that white men everywhere are pussies.   Why write all white men off? There are plenty of gay blacks, effeminate blacks, blacks with small or average dicks too.   OMG so it's all about the penis size

Do these girls reason that they can get enough white men in real life, so they're only going to look for Blacks online? Is that how it works? Do they really think they've met enough white men in their lives to be able to say that none of them will be able to catch their interest?   Maybe they have ran into too many arrogant white egotistical men

It's really an amazing phenomenon. When you come across practically any semi-attractive sub female on this site, click on the profile and, if it's not an obvious fake, bam, there it is - black men only. Is this real life?   All I can say is LOL.  


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RE: White Sub Girls for Black Men Only? - 8/17/2011 5:22:51 PM   
LadyConstanze


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ORIGINAL: kalikshama


I think you should lose the close up cock shot and some of the more vain pics.


Missed those (guess I am lucky) but if they'd be that great he'd be making money in porn himself and wouldn't need a girl to make that money for him, pimping is so not hot!

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RE: White Sub Girls for Black Men Only? - 8/17/2011 5:22:56 PM   
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