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What jumps out at you? - 8/17/2011 8:37:17 PM   
PandoraHearts


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Status: offline 		Hi there I am brand new to the lifestyle and I am guessing this question has already been asked, but I was wondering when viewing profiles of what you think of as a possible submissive, what do you especially look for in their profile?

Thanks a lot,
Maria
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RE: What jumps out at you? - 8/17/2011 11:19:25 PM   
SuzeCheri


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Status: offline 		Based on the mail we get, I'd say boobs.

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RE: What jumps out at you? - 8/18/2011 6:47:11 AM   
stoni23


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Hi there I am brand new to the lifestyle and I am guessing this question has already been asked, but I was wondering when viewing profiles of what you think of as a possible submissive, what do you especially look for in their profile?


Looking over your profile, it looks pretty good to me. I don't think you should change anything : )

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RE: What jumps out at you? - 8/18/2011 9:18:38 AM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		A cute face of course. However, if the words next to it are meh......then the cute face just disappears.

I see cute faces, tits, asses alllllllllllllllllllllllllllll the time. Fuckall, I work in a college town! Summer is grand in a college town.

Even in my small town, last night's yoga class.....at least 4 really great looking women. Looks are...minimal........when it comes to the bigger picture. Truth be told, even given the 4 really good looking women in that yoga class there is only one that would really interest me. Not really great looking, not the best body, but her personality just shines. Unfortunately she is very straight, very uptight and religious and, just, not available.


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RE: What jumps out at you? - 8/18/2011 10:06:28 AM   
SylvereApLeanan


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Status: offline 		I look for signs of intelligent life.  There are a lot of barren rocks out there.

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RE: What jumps out at you? - 8/18/2011 10:18:27 AM   
Hillwilliam


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Status: offline 		Intelligence and a pretty smile.

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RE: What jumps out at you? - 8/18/2011 10:44:29 AM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		Hopefully what doesn't jump out at me is a cock shot, many pictures of cock shots and a long list of... I like/want this, this and that.

I look for intelligence, humor, reality based interests that I might have in common, friends on their profile... too many and a certain type... you have a collector and maybe an issue with, the fantasy is bigger than what I can actually provide and no friends on an older account... I am hiding what I am doing from all the others. lol

Some profiles provide a good laugh... some a gross factor and some actually have a person serious and realistic, whether they want a play partner or relationship. Either is fine by me... I just want him firmly planted in reality.


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RE: What jumps out at you? - 8/18/2011 1:28:05 PM   
MzWhipplash


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As a Dominant Woman I look for intelligence, honesty and how much time a submale can give me. I enjoy going to FemDom events and enjoy a submale attending to serve me.

He needs to be able to communicate clearly and be secure in himself as a person as I am Polyamorous and have more than one submale. I prefer a submale who can drive and has focused goals in life.

I look for a profile where the submale is near enough to drive to me to serve me. I like poetry so a poet submale would peak my interest. Ultimately I want a profile to read that gives two or 3 paragraphs. The first about his personality. The second about his experience or lack of it and what he can offer in service, I.e good at cooking, good at Foot Worship, manicure, pedicure, hair washing, body massage. But not a list of what he wants. And the third paragraph which tempts me to message him ...I want to know his mind.

Mistress Whipplash

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RE: What jumps out at you? - 8/18/2011 3:58:16 PM   
MissImmortalPain


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ORIGINAL: Hillwilliam

Intelligence and a pretty smile.


This

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RE: What jumps out at you? - 8/19/2011 8:23:04 PM   
AcademyForSlaves


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Status: offline 		I want a slave who is obedient and likes to serve and please Me. Therefore if he has a long list of things he insists I must do to him then he is not the slave for Me. I love it when a slave emails Me at My own personal email address (to show he is serious) and he lists out his abilities only so I can see he is a capable slave who is willing to comply in anyway I want. Complete submission and obedience. That makes Me want to own him.

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RE: What jumps out at you? - 8/19/2011 8:30:22 PM   
LadyAngelika


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Status: offline 		Kind eyes, nice smile, equally matched with wit and intelligence in his writing.

< Message edited by LadyAngelika -- 8/19/2011 8:31:15 PM >

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RE: What jumps out at you? - 8/19/2011 10:31:56 PM   
MistressDarkArt


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ORIGINAL: MzWhipplash

quote:


As a Dominant Woman I look for intelligence, honesty and how much time a submale can give me.

He needs to be able to communicate clearly and be secure in himself as a person. I prefer a submale who can drive and has focused goals in life.

Mistress Whipplash


I agree, especially the part in red. Without adequate interaction, there's no need to bother.

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