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Masters - 8/18/2011 3:40:59 PM   
curiousinmd


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what 2 do when u believe ou have found the right Master, then u have another seeking u out?
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RE: Masters - 8/18/2011 3:42:56 PM   
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RE: Masters - 8/18/2011 3:54:30 PM   
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Firstly, you speak using real words, not netspeak.

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RE: Masters - 8/18/2011 4:03:43 PM   
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why are you even bothered by another if you found the right Master?




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RE: Masters - 8/18/2011 4:15:09 PM   
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What do you do when you are at a restaurant and you are looking at the menu and you have made your mind up and then you see the server carrying a different dish by. These are people for Pete's sake. Use complete sentences and tell one of them that you are not interested.

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RE: Masters - 8/18/2011 4:50:42 PM   
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Good grief - you aren't 17 and a virgin! Use the sense you may have and tell the other to back off. It isn't rocket science!, and your penis isn't the leader of you.

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RE: Masters - 8/18/2011 4:55:34 PM   
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To make it super easy, you have the option of selecting an auto-response as one of your collarme email options.

You could just check off the appropriate box, and hit send 

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RE: Masters - 8/18/2011 5:05:32 PM   
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Do whatever you want to do, cause you will anyways.

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RE: Masters - 8/18/2011 5:08:46 PM   
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How is this even a question? I don't get it. If you've found the right Master, you say "No, thank you" to whoever is seeking you out. I hope this isn't a case of feeling that, just because you are a submissive, you must be submissive to anyone who demands it of you.

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RE: Masters - 8/18/2011 5:10:06 PM   
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isn't it fucking obvious?
you do them both. you string them both along, i mean what's life without a little deception and a few thousand lies?

look buckwheat, it really is simple. what would you do if it was just a boyfriend? you pick the one you want and tell the other to fuck off. and if you really can't decide and you want them both, then tell them both that. it worked out just perfect for heather doing that, so you never know.

it's not complicated man, this shit is simple, it really is. it's just like everyday fucking, only with cooler accessories.


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RE: Masters - 8/18/2011 5:20:53 PM   
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Lance, once again, copies a tag line from his sig block:

"Advice is what we ask for when we already know the answer, but wish we didn't." Erica Jong


< Message edited by LanceHughes -- 8/18/2011 5:21:21 PM >


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RE: Masters - 8/18/2011 6:42:39 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: curiousinmd

what 2 do when u believe ou have found the right Master, then u have another seeking u out?

Geez man. First of all, what's with all the textspeak? It's ridiculous. Secondly, you're 39 already and you still have to ask? Stay with the one you believe is right & tell the other one something like "Thank you for your interest, but I've already found the right Master for me. Bye bye." There you go. It's that easy.

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RE: Masters - 8/18/2011 9:26:28 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: littlewonder

why are you even bothered by another if you found the right Master?



Exactly.


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RE: Masters - 8/19/2011 2:11:21 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: curiousinmd

what 2 do when u believe ou have found the right Master, then u have another seeking u out?



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RE: Masters - 8/19/2011 4:41:42 AM   
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if you found the right one, i dunno why you're even entertaining the other guy. tell him that you are currently focusing your attentions elsewhere, and you'd rather he stopped contacting you.
if he's badgering you to meet him in spite of the fact that you're with someone else, just ignore him and/or block him. he doesn't have your number does he? does he know where you live?
if it moves into the realm of harassment, then you have legal routes you can take.

but just ignoring the guy ought to be enough.


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RE: Masters - 8/19/2011 5:34:22 AM   
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u f t s t a f o n h f.

Only the OP will understand.

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RE: Masters - 8/19/2011 7:27:48 AM   
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quote:

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why are you even bothered by another if you found the right Master?



Exactly. It's not the proposition that matters, it's the answer.

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RE: Masters - 8/19/2011 9:29:22 AM   
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  Just tell them thanks but i am not interested i am with somone.  It seems like you want to keep this guy in reserve in case things don't work out with your master.  If that is the case cut him loose no one deserves to be a backup plan.

Matt's littleone

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RE: Masters - 8/19/2011 11:28:01 AM   
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I think y'all got it backwards.  I think the OP wants to dump current Master in favor of the newer one, sniffin' around.  That's why I posted:

"Advice is what we ask for when we already know the answer, but wish we didn't." Erica Jong



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RE: Masters - 8/19/2011 1:29:44 PM   
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then obviously the one she's with isn't the right Master if she's sniffing around for a new one.

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