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Killerangel -> RE: Talk to a Mistress (8/20/2011 5:05:29 PM)
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ORIGINAL: qqqq7077
Hello Im a novice , would like to talk to dominate lady via email to ask questions, do you get as much pleasure as the sub does for instance, have an open conversation would be great, you might enjoy it also (: if you want a pic of who your talking to just ask
Tom
[email removed] or here at collar me
To me the thing is that you want to ask personal type questions in a one on one email. I wouldn't spend that type of effort on people I don't know. Coming here to the boards and asking a question is one thing...asking to have a one on one with a stranger, asking them something intimate, implies a connection. Your question example was quite personal, and I'd not choose to share that information with a stranger if he wrote me and asked. It seems icky and rather like a sly way to gather information for himself to get artificially close to me or get off on it somehow. I'm not here for predators, do-me's, or anyone's entitlement fantasy. In other words, what's in your private question scenario for a strange woman? She's obviously feeding your fantasy and giving you something. What's she getting? Your undying gratitude? What good is that from a stranger?
So some people took offense to your OP, I can see why. Would you ask your grocery checker what she got out of her private time with her partner and if her enjoyment was equal to her partner's? Why do you think that someone here would want to privately share that information with you, a stranger? People tried to explain why this is a serious breech of manners and you don't seem to get it. You want women to be nice to you, well, be respectful to them and also stop criticizing them for not wanting to play with your fantasies. Who honestly gives a rip if you have questions? Do the work of getting close to someone and share a closer relationship with them, and you'll get all the explanations you want. The women here don't owe you anything simply by virtue of being a Dominant female.
Plus in the two threads you've been writing in you make creepy comments on various profiles you've read or to women that respond to you. You are obviously looking to use the 'question' approach in order to find yourself a relationship with a Domme and it really is a disingenuous tactic. If you sincerely, openly, honestly, wanted to ask questions you'd have done that already through the boards without trying anything shady to get someone's one on one attention. You're getting pissy at the women who aren't what you envision as polite....well, what the hell did you expect when you just waltz in and expect things from them and then criticize the manner in which it is delivered? You seem to think you're being polite, you're not. If you asked me your questions in person you'd get a knee in the balls and a court date and eventually a fine or jail time, because I'm legally protected against your brand of questions.
Look buddy, ask your questions on the message board, and be a gentleman to the people who take time out of their day to answer you even if they aren't the type of answers you were looking for. Perhaps even take the time to learn why things aren't going in the direction you intended. Even with the politer answers here, everyone told you the exact same thing. You're expecting too much from a group of strangers, you're going about it the wrong way, you seem to want fantasy fulfillment, and you're rather creepy. Not one person has embraced the chance to 'answer your questions' except for Hannah, and I'm not sure that's what you were looking for, lol.
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