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Evlgryn -> RE: Etiquette & Protocol (5/22/2006 6:33:43 PM)
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I have from time to time assigned tasks and protocals. But it is a bone of contention for a slave to keep up with an evening ritual lets say, months after the owner has stopped asking about it.
I don't require my slave to do silly rituals just to show off for other doms at DS events, at least not often.
But rituals can be an important cue that something exciting is coming. I like to gag a sub early in a scene to let her know the time has come. Or nearly come, sometimes I will make them cook dinner gagged. There is something beautiful about the eyes of a submissive woman, when she is gagged and silent looks are her main route of communication.
At one time I required my subs to use a fleet enema the hours before a meeting, not just because it makes ass play neater, but because hours before she even saw my face, she was contemplating being used, and preparing for her use. Anticipation heightens arousal, and also few things drive home to someone their submissive position more than putting a nozzle up their own bottom just because their dominant "said so". Of course there are some doms who are in favor of driving the nozzle home themselves and then squeezing the bag: but that is another discussion.
My slave and I have been together years, and we have developed a few rituals. My favourites and the longest lasting ones are ones that have developed organicly to both our pleasures.
One is I have her stand naked and cuffed in front of me, and I oil her from top to bottom. It has connotations of preparing a slave for auction, and as a power exchange somehow also brings up memories of being little and cared for by the adults in your life. My slave is african american, a lot of kinky photos of black women involve oiled flesh. For us it started as a practical answer to ashy elbows, but it still gives a kinky charge.
The second arrived unbidden when my slave accepted my brand. From almost the moment that I put the hot branding iron on her brown bottom, I have felt an overwhelming urge to fondle and kiss that particular part of her. In the last year we have developed a ritual of starting an evening together by having her naked and placing her branded behind for me to look at feel and usually, kiss. Even a kinky couple often has intrusions the world puts in our way that has to be beaten back before you can get on to the important business of enjoying each other. In nine months it has healed to look like embossed lettering, raised proud of the other soft surfaces on that smooth part of her and it always pleases me. I hope I never loose the joy I feel in just owning my young slave whenever I see her brand as she kneels before me. So far I can not hold on to any depressions or intruding worries, when that moment occurs. Then the pleasure I feel in owning this obediant and warm young woman, flows naturally into the great pleasures I feel in using her, on both a physical and emotional level.
This might not be what you had in mind as a ritual, but I think it has elements of all important rituals. , Besides, Wildfleurs posts here also. Maybe reading this will moisten her in the middle of a dry day. Every once in a while I like to write something to make her gush with pleasure to pay her back for pleasures I have received. Or maybe it is just my dominant nature reaching across the internet to prove I can reach inside her with words as easily as a warm strong finger.
Evlgryn
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