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shaun1986 -> is love possible? (8/22/2011 7:53:31 PM)
i am looking for a relationship in which i can play second fiddle to a smart, lovely, dominant Woman. i am still trying to sort out of my profile, but i can send photos if anybody requests them. i am asking "is love possible" i have searched through quite a few profiles of Female Dominants and the vast majority just was Human Atm's (pay pigs) i am more than happy to send a Woman cash, but without the prospect of perhaps a future meeting in person, it is truly just a pointless excersice, are there any Dominant Women actually seeking a relationship? Im sure that there are. If there are any in Australia then even better! i am new to this but eager to learn I am living in southwest western australia and i am eager to find Dominant Women to have fun, and to get some experience and perhaps even fall head over heels in love with :-)

MistressDarkArt -> RE: is love possible? (8/22/2011 7:59:10 PM)
Yes, love is possible. There are many folks who post here who are in truly loving Ds relationships. Some even met their partners through this site. That said, as you're looking through profiles here: DO...NOT...SEND...MONEY...TO...ANYONE!!

shaun1986 -> RE: is love possible? (8/22/2011 8:01:01 PM)
yes i've learned that a little bit too late but oh well, live and learn, i have ALOT to learn before im ready for a relationship PS nice boat MistressDarkArt

LadyHibiscus -> RE: is love possible? (8/22/2011 8:18:27 PM)
There are many geographically specific groups on Fetlife, you might want to check them out also. There's not all that many Australians on the forums.

peppermint -> RE: is love possible? (8/22/2011 8:25:00 PM)
Yes, love is possible. That is why many female dominants and their male submissives get married, buy a home, take vacations together, and have a family. Why would they marry someone they didn't love?

HannahLynHeather -> RE: is love possible? (8/22/2011 8:28:23 PM)
love is not only possible, as far as i'm concerned it is fucking well required. i don't want to do this shit unless i'm in love with the person i'm with.

Arpig -> RE: is love possible? (8/22/2011 8:36:37 PM)
Way back in March I made a remark on another thread that seems appropriate here: quote: Brutalizing some random person just isn't the same as brutalizing someone you love.

Epytropos -> RE: is love possible? (8/22/2011 8:36:45 PM)
This thread gave me cancer.

kelleyskinky -> RE: is love possible? (8/22/2011 8:39:16 PM)
Don't give up; if I can find an amazing love...so can you!!

shaun1986 -> RE: is love possible? (8/22/2011 8:39:20 PM)
thankyou for the replies, i am just finding my feet here, i am going to keep my eyes and ears out for any Dominant Women in western australia, and in the meantime ill also try and resist the temptation to send beautiful Women money :-) it seems that i will have to find myself a hobby in the meantime... ...drinking beer is a hobby isn't it ;-)

shaun1986 -> RE: is love possible? (8/22/2011 8:41:26 PM)
Epytropos what do you mean this thread gave you cancer? if your trying to be funny, my grandmothers i dying of lung cancer at the moment, what did you mean? was that a joke? not funny

hausboy -> RE: is love possible? (8/22/2011 8:41:41 PM)
Don't give up Shaun! Just be yourself, be confident and be patient. I still hold on to hope that we all have someone out there destined just for us...

shaun1986 -> RE: is love possible? (8/22/2011 8:43:49 PM)
thankyou for that, i hope much the same, otherwise life would just be a weird cruel joke

orchid77 -> RE: is love possible? (8/22/2011 8:46:10 PM)
There is no love...only the Borg. Resistance is futile. :) Love is a word. So it really depends on what exactly loves means to you.

Tantriqu -> RE: is love possible? (8/22/2011 9:01:28 PM)
I'm in Canada, and had a lovely long distance then real relationship with a Waussie, and I was the second Domme he msg'd; and now I can speak passable 'Strine. you never know! Even better, put down the beer, go to a comedy club or volunteer or play on a mixed sport team, and ask out the next woman who laughs at the same thing you do and holds your gaze. Good luck with your search!

DarkSteven -> RE: is love possible? (8/22/2011 9:23:16 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus There are many geographically specific groups on Fetlife, you might want to check them out also. There's not all that many Australians on the forums. I believe that Hibbie is speaking about the cm forums. There are more Aussies on Fetlife than here.

stoni23 -> RE: is love possible? (8/23/2011 5:27:33 AM)
Shaun, a good way to filter out the bad profiles is by hiding them. I simply hide any profile that says things like: there will be absolutely no sexual contact, monthly tributes, im not looking for a relationship, call me for sessions/im a pro, or only looking for a female. Once you spend about an hour hiding profiles you will greatly narrow down your results to some pretty decent people. Once you hide them once, you will not see them again.

Lockit -> RE: is love possible? (8/23/2011 6:42:19 AM)
For me... love is the reason. I don't care if some guys eyes go all big when a surprising element of play is brought in. I do care about my guys eyes going big when surprised. I want it all... if I don't care... then go to love of some form... I want no part of it.

Ninebelowzero -> RE: is love possible? (8/23/2011 8:14:06 AM)
BDSM as part of a loving relationship is the best buzz going IMO. Good luck Shaun.

hangemhigh1953 -> RE: is love possible? (8/23/2011 9:33:21 AM)
Of course! The thing about CM though is that lots of "real" women get scared away by all the horny guys and their fantasies they come on way too strong with. There's lots of threads around here about those, when you see what some of them put up with you'll see it's a wonder any of them stay around at all!

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