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Yep, another FNG... - 8/25/2011 4:07:37 PM   
DaddysSoFirm


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I am still new to the site and wonder just how many are in my position? Are you married and playing behind your spouses back? After 17 years of marriage my only real complaint would be the vanilla sex.

Trust me here, I have tried to introduce some new "things" into the sex dept for Years to no avail. I'll never leave her, yet I have turned down some offers in the past, not wanting to cheat on her. So, I have made the decision to play behind her back, Without her knowledge.

Anyone else, male or female in my shoes?

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RE: Yep, another FNG... - 8/25/2011 4:26:00 PM   
Killerangel


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Status: offline 		Heh, wrong place to come for validation. The activities pursued by most of the people here take a lot of trust, trust isn't usually given to a cheater.

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RE: Yep, another FNG... - 8/25/2011 4:34:03 PM   
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ORIGINAL: DaddysSoFirm
not wanting to cheat on her. So, I have made the decision to play behind her back, Without her knowledge.




How is Earth is that not cheating???

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RE: Yep, another FNG... - 8/25/2011 4:39:55 PM   
Killerangel


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DaddysSoFirm
not wanting to cheat on her. So, I have made the decision to play behind her back, Without her knowledge.




How is Earth is that not cheating???

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Oh my, good point Ashjor. So OP, how is playing around behind her back not cheating? Can you explain please?

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RE: Yep, another FNG... - 8/25/2011 4:46:05 PM   
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RE: Yep, another FNG... - 8/25/2011 4:47:57 PM   
zephyroftheNorth


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quote:

ORIGINAL: ashjor911


quote:

ORIGINAL: DaddysSoFirm
not wanting to cheat on her. So, I have made the decision to play behind her back, Without her knowledge.




How is Earth is that not cheating???

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Easy! It's only cheating if his wife finds out and kicks his cheating ass out.

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RE: Yep, another FNG... - 8/25/2011 4:48:49 PM   
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Heh, wrong place to come for validation. The activities pursued by most of the people here take a lot of trust, trust isn't usually given to a cheater.


ditto

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RE: Yep, another FNG... - 8/25/2011 5:04:30 PM   
Endivius


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Status: offline 		This guy is probably a sub with a wife dom and just thinks hes a dom looking for a sub. Kinda funny, mostly just sad though. If you arent satisfied with your sex life maybe your wife isnt the one who is boring, ever thought of that cupcake?

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RE: Yep, another FNG... - 8/25/2011 5:04:46 PM   
lizi


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Status: offline 		No, not in your shoes. I regarded my ex-husband too highly to play behind his back before we eventually divorced. We have a great relationship today since we parted on good terms. I find it interesting that so many want to be players come here thinking kinky women will give them what they want, because obviously they have no morals. That's not the case as I'm sure you'll find out.

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RE: Yep, another FNG... - 8/25/2011 5:06:09 PM   
zephyroftheNorth


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ORIGINAL: Endivius

This guy is probably a sub with a wife dom and just thinks hes a dom looking for a sub. Kinda funny, mostly just sad though. If you arent satisfied with your sex life maybe your wife isnt the one who is boring, ever thought of that cupcake?


Naw he's just a horny dude who thinks having sex with someone kinky doesn't count as cheating.


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RE: Yep, another FNG... - 8/25/2011 5:12:40 PM   
Endivius


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Status: offline 		On morals and integrity, Well said Lizi.

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RE: Yep, another FNG... - 8/25/2011 5:12:44 PM   
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Status: offline 		As a former wife that was the one that had a husband that played behind her back, piss off, you're a cheater if you do.....

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RE: Yep, another FNG... - 8/25/2011 5:13:40 PM   
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What is an FNG?


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RE: Yep, another FNG... - 8/25/2011 5:23:20 PM   
zephyroftheNorth


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As a former wife that was the one that had a husband that played behind her back, piss off, you're a cheater if you do.....


What? Was that directed to me?


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RE: Yep, another FNG... - 8/25/2011 5:26:13 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		I'm pretty sure that was to the OP, zeph.

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RE: Yep, another FNG... - 8/25/2011 5:26:29 PM   
tj444


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Status: offline 		Nope. I left him rather than cheat, I didnt want to live a double life and lie all the time. I would rather be alone that live in a bad relationship so I ended it... I dont regret it one bit.

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RE: Yep, another FNG... - 8/25/2011 5:34:34 PM   
zephyroftheNorth


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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

I'm pretty sure that was to the OP, zeph.


Oh. I think I have too strong a guilt trigger, I was feeling guilty for something I've never done. I was with a married dom for a while but I dumped his ass when I found out his wife had no clue what he was doing.

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RE: Yep, another FNG... - 8/25/2011 5:38:11 PM   
Iamsemisweet


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Status: offline 		This is a tough audience, and I almost hate to say this, but I did cheat on my ex.
My advice?  Don't do it, don't do it, don't do it.  I rationalized my behavior, I told myself I could make it up to him, I thought the rules that apply to other people didn't apply to me.  I finally ended the marriage, at least in part because I felt unworthy of him, and felt he deserved to find someone better, who would make him happy.
I can't say I regret it that the marriage ended, but I definitely regretted cheating.  I will live with that guilt for the rest of my life, and I would never, ever, do it again.  If your marriage isn't working, divorce her before you become a liar and a cheat.  I got divorced 4 years ago, I have a very happy life, but tears are rolling down my cheeks as I am writing this.  I try really hard not to think about my duplicity, it is, and will remain, the biggest mistake of my life.
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RE: Yep, another FNG... - 8/25/2011 9:09:40 PM   
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Anyone else, male or female in my shoes?

DSF
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Nyoooooop. Your tale is neither unique or compelling, and it's been done to death here. You, sir, are a douche. Have at him, gang. I'm too disgusted to tear him a new one.

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RE: Yep, another FNG... - 8/25/2011 9:13:11 PM   
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