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Epytropos -> RE: Sending meals back. (8/31/2011 2:48:36 AM)

It depends on the restaurant and whether my complaints are of a 'this is obviously fucked up in a concrete manner' or 'this isn't to my preference.' For instance, if I order a steak rare and you bring me medium well, I will likely send it back. If you bring it medium rare, I'll probably let it go. There's some gray area there and I know how hard it is to get precisely within someone's definition of rare, especially since many many people order rare when they want medium rare, medium rare when the want medium, and so forth. That works fine if you know the system, but if you actually want something rare it can be maddening.

If something is seasoned in a way I find distasteful I won't send it back because I figure it's the chef's creation and who am I to say his seasoning balance is incorrect? I do tend to tell waiters the truth when they ask how things are though, which has ended with things being taken away and replaced or comped a couple times even when I didn't intend to.

So basically I send things back when there is something objectively wrong with them, but not simply because it isn't the way I would do it.

ETA: I *always* order eggs hard scrambled. Not scrambled, not soft scrambled, HARD scrambled. If you bring me eggs that are runny in any way I will send them back or at very least leave them on the plate. The first bite will make me gag, it is not a negotiable issue, and yet in the South I'm going to say 8 times of 10 they'll bring them out soft scrambled running all over the plate. "Southern style" they'll tell me with a saucy little 'look at the Yankee' grin, to which I'll respond "I was born in the South, hon, and my momma made eggs hard scrambled" with my best Southern accent. In my defense, it is true, but the reason she didn't make them "Southern style" is cuz she was a Yankee lol.

The only situation runny eggs work for me is poached on eggs Benedict or one of those kinds of dishes where the runny yolk serves as a sauce for the rest of the dish. It's come to the point where I just quit ordering things that come with eggs because I don't especially care to pay for something I can't eat and explaining to the waitress for a third time what I mean by *hard* scrambled is more than enough to ruin my Saturday morning.




Phoenixpower -> RE: Sending meals back. (8/31/2011 7:00:41 AM)

Sadly not often enough...there were at least 2 cases where I should have done so...but didn't and instead just did not eat it...[&o]

Once I was 19...and we were out for a birthday meal with 2 colleagues who had their birthdays closely together...I ordered a tomato salad...and instead got a tomato salad with squid...me...who does not eat anything out of the ocean [8|] During that time I was still too shy to be assertive enough in that matter...

On another occassion I also left the meal, that time it was at a restaurant in the UK, where the meat part of it was just plain awful....I just took it as a lesson not to return back to them ever...

So whilst I should have sent them back, I missed out on at least those two occasions to do so...[:o]




ummmmNo -> RE: Sending meals back. (9/6/2011 10:17:59 PM)

I have only done it once in my life. I was at a great restaurant in New Orleans, Commander's Palace. (IT'S AMAZING. Expensive, but magical. If I had the money, I would travel eight hours there and back a week to eat there. So goooood.) I ordered my meal and it had turtle soup was one of sides. In the soup's description, sherry was listed as an ingredient. I don't drink, at all, but since I assumed that the alcohol would be mostly cooked out, I wasn't worried about it. Well, they bring the soup out, and I am the first to get it. Before I can say anything, the waiter poured a shot of sherry into it.

I just sat there and stared at it. I was going to eat it, but my roomie just shook her head and asked the nice man to get me a new bowl, explaining that I don't drink alcohol. I apologized to him for the mix up, since it really wasn't his fault.




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