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Sub Ms - 8/26/2011 8:52:29 PM

cloudboy

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Found this choice quote from a woman while signing on recently:

HAVE FOUND MOST SINGLE SUB GUYS BORING and there are two under every rock.

Do any of your experiences comport with this observation? Is this her frustration, or is she "seeing it as it is?"

Must say I love the image of "every rock" here. It gives her comment more bite. What do you think she means by "boring?"

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RE: Sub Ms - 8/26/2011 9:16:06 PM

Endivius

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quote:

ORIGINAL: cloudboy

Found this choice quote from a woman while signing on recently:

HAVE FOUND MOST SINGLE SUB GUYS BORING and there are two under every rock.

Do any of your experiences comport with this observation? Is this her frustration, or is she "seeing it as it is?"

Must say I love the image of "every rock" here. It gives her comment more bite. What do you think she means by "boring?"

It's really quite subjective and open to misinterpretation. Her experience and opinions on those experiences are what drive her frustration. As for why she feels that her subs are not stimulating in the way that she wants is unknown and speculative. We would have to speak with her and find out what her desires and interests are in order to have an actual discussion about it.

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RE: Sub Ms - 8/26/2011 10:14:39 PM

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Usually when I'm boring to the center of the earth in my Robbins Main Beam TBM (tunnel boring machine)
at some point in the fantastic journey I find myself under a rock. Sometimes there's another submissive
there and sometimes there's just some foot tapping lip pursed Dominant demanding a diamond in the rough.

So, all things considered, I suppose she has a point.

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RE: Sub Ms - 8/26/2011 10:28:18 PM

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What she means is that the average sub male on the profile side is a one dimensional porn-fed, fetish-fixated do-me, with whom you cannot discuss anything for more than 5 or 6 minutes without the sub dragging their fetish into the discussion in some way.

All they want to do is talk about is their kink, they offer nothing whatsoever other than the opportunity to indulge in their particular brand of perversion in the manner they specify.

That and there are a bazillion of these annoying lifeforms on this site, more than any other category I would say.

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RE: Sub Ms - 8/26/2011 10:48:15 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Arpig

What she means is that the average sub male on the profile side is a one dimensional porn-fed, fetish-fixated do-me, with whom you cannot discuss anything for more than 5 or 6 minutes without the sub dragging their fetish into the discussion in some way.

All they want to do is talk about is their kink, they offer nothing whatsoever other than the opportunity to indulge in their particular brand of perversion in the manner they specify.

That and there are a bazillion of these annoying lifeforms on this site, more than any other category I would say.

^^^^ This. Though if I could take the liberty to edit a teensy little bit, it would be:

quote:

The average sub male on the profile side is a one dimensional porn-fed, fetish-fixated do-me, with whom you cannot discuss anything for more than 5 or 6 seconds without the sub dragging their fetish into the discussion in some way.

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RE: Sub Ms - 8/27/2011 12:09:22 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: cloudboy

Found this choice quote from a woman while signing on recently:

HAVE FOUND MOST SINGLE SUB GUYS BORING and there are two under every rock.

What do you think she means by "boring?"

Do any of your experiences comport with this observation?

Reordering your questions: I have no clue and mine don't.

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RE: Sub Ms - 8/27/2011 12:33:17 AM

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I get two types of messages from submissive men.
First is some sort of reference to my posts or something in my profile. <always welcome>

The other starts "It has always been my dream to be the slave of a lesbian slave" Puleeeeze! Can it get any more pathetic than that?

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RE: Sub Ms - 8/27/2011 2:54:05 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: HeatherMcLeather

I get two types of messages from submissive men.
First is some sort of reference to my posts or something in my profile. <always welcome>

The other starts "It has always been my dream to be the slave of a lesbian slave" Puleeeeze! Can it get any more pathetic than that?

Sadly, the answer to this riddle is yes. Though, hopefully those moments are few and far between.

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RE: Sub Ms - 8/27/2011 7:12:11 AM

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Sounds to me like the writer of the quote doesn't know what she is looking for and therefore, of course, has not been able to find it.

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RE: Sub Ms - 8/27/2011 8:33:19 AM

OsideGirl

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Arpig

What she means is that the average sub male on the profile side is a one dimensional porn-fed, fetish-fixated do-me, with whom you cannot discuss anything for more than 5 or 6 minutes without the sub dragging their fetish into the discussion in some way.

Even in real life. Keeping mind that I have no interest in sub males. The majority of sub males I've met were groveling, whiny and one dimensional. I will say that I do know a few that I have massive respect for. They serve with strength and dignity which is truly a beautiful thing to see.

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RE: Sub Ms - 8/27/2011 8:36:25 AM

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I take her comments to be indicative of her deciding that being negative in her profile will somehow achieve her goals of meeting a worthy sub male.

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RE: Sub Ms - 8/27/2011 9:15:32 AM

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I can't comment on what single sub males are like but the fact that she chose to add that to her profile says a lot about her.

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RE: Sub Ms - 8/27/2011 9:29:07 AM

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quote:

HAVE FOUND MOST SINGLE SUB GUYS BORING and there are two under every rock.

-She has an overblown ego and no one is good enough?
-Her rates are too high and business is slow?
-She is "high-maintenance" and considers the men to be boring when they do not indulge her desire for 5-star dining and Fifth Ave shopping?

Irregardless of her reasoning, she demonstrates a total lack of class with that statement.

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RE: Sub Ms - 8/27/2011 9:36:08 AM

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HOLLYKINS!!!!!!!!!!

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RE: Sub Ms - 8/27/2011 9:36:23 AM

LadyHibiscus

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Mostly it says she's a negative jerk.

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RE: Sub Ms - 8/27/2011 10:13:16 AM

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Or possibly just a bit of a minger.

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RE: Sub Ms - 8/27/2011 11:06:41 AM

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I am typing this reply from under a rock. Its tricky because its dark and my fingers are cramped by its weight. Its also crowded because there are two of us.

At least all can know we are dexterous.

I confess, that I've always dreamed of serving a hot lesbian mistress -- not in a grovelling, whiny way, but in a true slave-like manner.

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RE: Sub Ms - 8/27/2011 12:43:47 PM

MissImmortalPain

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Reading the quote I have to believe that the person who said it is not a great deal different than the many "Dom" men that come on and bitch about fake sub girls because they can not find one that will put up with their bull.

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RE: Sub Ms - 8/27/2011 2:22:54 PM

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FR

The percentage of boring people among the submissive men I know in real life isn't noticeably different from the population at large. Some of them are awesome. Some of them are deathly dull. Plenty of them are meh.

I wouldn't know about rocks, though. Why is the woman you've quoted picking up rocks? What on earth is she expecting to find under them?

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RE: Sub Ms - 8/27/2011 2:42:00 PM

GreedyTop

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gold? rainbows? diamonds?

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