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DeviantlyD -> RE: Submissive-Bottom-Slave (8/29/2011 12:42:00 AM)


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ORIGINAL: soul2share

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ORIGINAL: HannahLynHeather
shhhhhhh don't let greedy hear you say that about the cat, she'll get all fucking flying monkey style kung-fu master on your ass.


While I don't have all of her neato moves, you'd better be nice to your kitteh and listen to her, or I'll simply run you over with my car.....capice?  Or maybe I should say Caprice?  [:)] 

Sometimes I just crack myself up!!!!!!  *snort*



I'm having a serious déjà vu moment here. Did you say something almost identical in another thread a couple months or so ago? Seriously?




MasterSlaveLA -> RE: Submissive-Bottom-Slave (8/29/2011 1:50:38 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Zoe61

I asked a polite question..get laid..you're all too angry!



Yeah, and you got POLITE answers... but since you now want to act like a fucking super-douche, go hang upside down and piss on yourself till you friggin' drown. [8|]





crazyml -> RE: Submissive-Bottom-Slave (8/29/2011 3:01:24 AM)


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ORIGINAL: SoulAlloy

Maybe ask an admin for a sticky? Would save scaring people, the search link isn't very prominent at a glance

I understand the terms the same as HannahLynHeather, though I know some who don't consider themselves to be a slave until they're collared.


Eeep - A sticky to which definition though? I shudder to think about the torrid debate that would ensue in trying to determine which definition should be canonical.

Personally, HannahLynHeather's definition for "bottom" really doesn't work for me, I think her definition of "sub" is as close as anyone can get, and while I instinctively agree with her definition of slavery, it's a definition that is ferociously challenged by other people on the board. - But that's perfectly ok, I don't think there are truly fixed definitions for any of those terms so the best advice to the OP really is to take a look at some of the debates, and come to her own conclusion.




SoulAlloy -> RE: Submissive-Bottom-Slave (8/29/2011 3:36:44 AM)

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ORIGINAL: crazyml
Eeep - A sticky to which definition though? I shudder to think about the torrid debate that would ensue in trying to determine which definition should be canonical.


Fair enough, I've never seen one of the huge debates - will have a go at that search button meself I thinks...




OsideGirl -> RE: Submissive-Bottom-Slave (8/29/2011 7:14:30 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Zoe61

[:@] I asked a polite question..get laid..you're all too angry!
It was answered politely. You're the one that has decided we're angry, when we're not.


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ORIGINAL: crazyml



Eeep - A sticky to which definition though? I shudder to think about the torrid debate that would ensue in trying to determine which definition should be canonical.
Perhaps a sticky that says how to use the search system if you're looking for sub, slave or bottom?




Cuffkinks -> RE: Submissive-Bottom-Slave (8/29/2011 7:23:16 AM)


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ORIGINAL: JanahX

[b]Everybody was kung-fu fighting
Those cats were fast as lightning


[image]local://upfiles/1059980/926166ED90784F9986A6AE8AE6AC2E9E.jpg[/image]



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DommeKeliDallas -> RE: Submissive-Bottom-Slave (8/29/2011 7:56:47 AM)

Very well put!♥
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ORIGINAL: HannahLynHeather

fucking hell. oh alright.
- bottom is the person that the shit gets done to.
- a submissive is a person who submits in a power dynamic
- a slave is a submissive who calls them self a slave. some people think it implies a deeper submission, or less choice, or no limits, but that's basically just bullshit because it means something different to everybody. the term "slave" is basically just fucking fantasy. the way heather and i use it it means she has no "right" to say no to me. of course she can, but that would be breaking the fucking rules of the dynamic.






GreedyTop -> RE: Submissive-Bottom-Slave (8/29/2011 7:58:16 AM)

CUFF!! *tacklehugs and smooches to you both*

I MISS YOU TWO!!!

and OMFG, LOVE the pic!!!




HannahLynHeather -> RE: Submissive-Bottom-Slave (8/29/2011 8:10:58 AM)

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and OMFG, LOVE the pic!!!
fuck yea! so much better than the last one. he's pretty fucking dreamy isn't he? kinda reminds me of a cross between bob weir and brad pitt. i'd say a 7 or 8 on the UFS* at least.

* Universal Fuckability Scale




0ldhen -> RE: Submissive-Bottom-Slave (8/29/2011 8:12:53 AM)


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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

CUFF!! *tacklehugs and smooches to you both*

I MISS YOU TWO!!!

and OMFG, LOVE the pic!!!



AHEM!

Theres another one. Cute and he rides...I'm guessing those leathers were fromgetting off a bike.

We was in Florida and did not stop to ogle that?

Greedy, wassa madder wit yew?




GreedyTop -> RE: Submissive-Bottom-Slave (8/29/2011 8:14:00 AM)

They were busy that weekend, Chickie.. AND he has a bike :)

HAnnah.. in person he's even better :)




0ldhen -> RE: Submissive-Bottom-Slave (8/29/2011 8:16:56 AM)



Geezzz....I wish I enjoyed self entertainment...between the pics of him and the UK guy.........



[image]local://upfiles/1132733/EA82F245CD2943FBB6265F26215810A5.jpg[/image]




HannahLynHeather -> RE: Submissive-Bottom-Slave (8/29/2011 8:19:04 AM)

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HAnnah.. in person he's even better :)
well if that's the case then i'll just not bother packing any fucking panties if i ever go visit - it's not like i'd have much call for them.




GreedyTop -> RE: Submissive-Bottom-Slave (8/29/2011 8:19:51 AM)

*giggle*

(love that pic too!)




0ldhen -> RE: Submissive-Bottom-Slave (8/29/2011 8:20:31 AM)



LMMFAO......Hanners....go check out his ol lady, you probably should just not pack any clothes at all......




GreedyTop -> RE: Submissive-Bottom-Slave (8/29/2011 8:21:25 AM)

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ORIGINAL: HannahLynHeather

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HAnnah.. in person he's even better :)
well if that's the case then i'll just not bother packing any fucking panties if i ever go visit - it's not like i'd have much call for them.



smart girl ;)


And check out his girl, Hejira... she is totally yummy as well!

(psssst.. Cuff.. I know ya'll are busy and all.. but it would be lovely to see her here again, once in a while... )

ETA:: DAMMIT , Chickie!! get outta my head!! lol




0ldhen -> RE: Submissive-Bottom-Slave (8/29/2011 8:22:13 AM)


Ok...perfect perverts party, Cuff, the Uk guy and Da Troll.......You'd probably die but short of going out on a Harley...welll....death ain't soo bad if thats the way you go......




Rochsub2009 -> RE: Submissive-Bottom-Slave (8/29/2011 8:51:08 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Zoe61
I asked a polite question..get laid..you're all too angry!


Sorry that you feel that way.  But your question was probably viewed as either "stupid", "lazy", or both.

I've observed that people don't get a very good reception when they ask questions that could easily be answered by doing a quick Google search, or by going to Wikipedia.  Coming on here and asking for definitions of words makes it seem as though you're not willing to do even the smallest amount of research on your own.

Similarly, those types of basic questions have been asked 7 billion times here on CM.  So if you did a search here on the forums as well, you'd likely find 50 threads about the exact same question.  Or better yet, you might find your answer in a FAQ section.

This may be the first time that you've asked such a question on here, but questions like yours are posted almost daily here on CollarMe.  People routinely post questions like "What's a 'Domme'?", or "What does 'BDSM' stand for", or "Can someone tell me the difference between a whip and a flogger?"  It would be just as easy to type your question on Google and get the answer yourself rather than to post it here and wait for us to spoon feed you the information.  Frankly, that stinks of laziness.

I think you would have found that people would have given you a very different response if you had shown that you had done a little research on your own.  People generally give very good responses to questions that require insight from those with experience, rather than questions that can be answered by simply opening a dictionary.

Just my $0.02.




GreedyTop -> RE: Submissive-Bottom-Slave (8/29/2011 9:33:36 AM)

*adores Roch*




coookie -> RE: Submissive-Bottom-Slave (8/29/2011 12:14:57 PM)

well said!




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