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Obedient and Uncollared - 8/31/2011 12:42:05 PM   
Rissykinz


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My name is Carissa, I am 18 years old. I grew up knowing that my mother is a slave, so the lifestyle isn't completely new to me.
I have never had an experienced Dom, Domme, or any training whatsoever.
I am bisexual.
I live in Maryland.
I don't want a one night stand or a fling, or even an online relationship. I am looking for a good balance of vanilla and kink in a relationship.
Of course the roles in the relationship would be set, but I am also looking for love. I am a sub and I enjoy pleasing.
I do not give out nude pictures nor will I post any on this site. I will only be a slut for the Dom that claims me and I accept.
I am currently not seeking a Domme, and I will not join in any polyamorous relationships or serve couples.
I do know that D/s and monogamy don't normally go hand in hand for most people, but I hope to find a relationship with a Dom that is.

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RE: Obedient and Uncollared - 8/31/2011 12:46:34 PM   
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Rissykinz. I see you message and know you are on line. Lets talk about this some. I am a Daddy type, now 63. First tell me if age is of no matter to it.

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RE: Obedient and Uncollared - 8/31/2011 1:34:43 PM   
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RE: Obedient and Uncollared - 8/31/2011 5:34:54 PM   
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Hi, and welcome, Carissa!
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ORIGINAL: Rissykinz

I do know that D/s and monogamy don't normally go hand in hand for most people, but I hope to find a relationship with a Dom that is.

They can, and do!, for a lot of people.

Monogamous D-types do exist.

Stick with your guns, lol, and good luck with your search!

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RE: Obedient and Uncollared - 8/31/2011 6:12:56 PM   
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So, Carissa, you're a young sub looking for a Dom anywhere in the US?  Expect to be flooded.

Welcome to collarme.

And I would estimate that about 50% of D/s couples I know of, are mono.


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RE: Obedient and Uncollared - 8/31/2011 6:28:04 PM   
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Welcome to CM. Expect a lot of dick pics and dissapointment. GL in your search.

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RE: Obedient and Uncollared - 8/31/2011 8:18:55 PM   
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RE: Obedient and Uncollared - 9/1/2011 4:45:53 AM   
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Hey Riss, nice touch, that sweet and inocent pose, i know you're secretly waiting to give some would-be master hell and dance all over their nightmares, of course i could be wrong?

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RE: Obedient and Uncollared - 9/1/2011 4:59:45 AM   
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I know you're probably inundated with messages, but you have mail. I'm curious as to what it was like growing up as part of a lifestyle home... Anyway, welcome to CM. Good luck with your search.

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RE: Obedient and Uncollared - 9/1/2011 7:45:02 AM   
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Welcome OP!! ----> You will do just fine on here. There are a ZILLION horny old perverted men on here that are just itching to tap an 18 yr old teenager wanting to be a slut "just for them." You will have ZERO problems with offers. Oh and as a bonus, they will tell you anything you want to hear to make it happen. Its a real special experience. Have a blast on CM :o)

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RE: Obedient and Uncollared - 9/1/2011 10:17:31 AM   
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Welcome to CM. I know many a d/s couple who are monogamous. Go to your local munches, look for TNG (the next generation) for a younger crowd.

Have fun fending off the wolves!!!!!

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RE: Obedient and Uncollared - 9/1/2011 10:19:43 AM   
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Welcome to CM, Carissa.

You will likely find that between the good and bad as depicted above... well, reality is kind of in the middle (and no offence to those who have been disappointed).

I have found through both observation and personal experience that the key to successful seeking is patience. A sense of humor helps too. :)



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RE: Obedient and Uncollared - 9/1/2011 10:21:59 AM   
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welcome....

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RE: Obedient and Uncollared - 9/2/2011 8:32:31 AM   
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Hi Rissy - welcome!!

Your wish list is very similar to my own, and I managed to find what I wanted just fine But it did take a long time to find the quality among the quantity. Being monogamous in a D/s or M/s relationship is a lot more common than you think.

You will get a lot of mail from guys - just be careful to maintain your standards while you're searching. Take it slow, get to know the man before you know the Master.

As someone already mentioned, you will be inundated with messages from guys old enough to be your (grand)father A LOT. If that's your kink, go for it! Otherwise - a simple "thanks but no thanks" is the only thing that's required of you.

Might be a good idea to go to your local munch or TNG munch (for younger people). Maybe head over to fetlife to find out what's going on in your area.

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RE: Obedient and Uncollared - 9/2/2011 3:41:24 PM   
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Welcome to CM and the boards Carissa.  You know what you want, stick to your guns.  You'll be receiving tons of mail.  Don't worry about answering it all, just those that attract your attention.  And do get to know the man as such before you delve into the D/s side of it.  You seem to have a good head on your shoulders, good luck in your search.

And monogamy isn't all that far out there.  It's what I'm looking for also.  May take awhile, but be patient, use your sense of humor, and don't let them get you down. 


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RE: Obedient and Uncollared - 9/2/2011 11:41:43 PM   
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