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training as a Domme - 8/31/2011 9:05:32 PM

nightqueen76

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I am a natural submissive, sexually and in my regular life too for the most part. What I want to know is if it is all possible for someone who is a natural sub but wants to explore her Domme side can train to be a Domme?

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RE: training as a Domme - 8/31/2011 9:50:47 PM

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Yes you can explore it. You should try most if not all of the things you have interest in.Though I do have to say that if you feel you are submisive in your soul you should be aware that you may not enjoy it. But of course that is a gamble we all take when trying something new. I hope you find all the things that make you really happy no matter what side they are on. Good luck.

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RE: training as a Domme - 9/1/2011 2:44:28 AM

Adorah

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Anyone can want to explore. That's just the natural condition of human beings.
So explore, and see if you like it.
If you don't, then you know where you stand and no harm no foul.

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RE: training as a Domme - 9/1/2011 4:24:31 AM

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You don't need any training (I read your profile, well done). Just have fun by verbally expressing your desires and listening to your sub. Especially don't be embarrassed expressing yourself as I wasted 20 years of my life worrying people would think I was a freak and abandon me.

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RE: training as a Domme - 9/1/2011 10:26:09 AM

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Hello,
I am also looking for some help from a dominant woman. I am currently looking for a submissive woman to dominate as I am submissive with my husband. He will not allow me to dominate him. That is our relationship so as I believe that I am a switch because I have a strong urge to dominate I am looking for a subbie but as I look around on this site many of them are looking for the hardcore dommes and I am not very experienced and so I am concerned that I may disappoint. Looking for some intro advice on dominating my first subbie....

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RE: training as a Domme - 9/1/2011 4:01:19 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: KeresByNight

Hello,
I am also looking for some help from a dominant woman. I am currently looking for a submissive woman to dominate as I am submissive with my husband. He will not allow me to dominate him. That is our relationship so as I believe that I am a switch because I have a strong urge to dominate I am looking for a subbie but as I look around on this site many of them are looking for the hardcore dommes and I am not very experienced and so I am concerned that I may disappoint. Looking for some intro advice on dominating my first subbie....

I recommend you going to a fetish friendly party in Dallas. At play/play friendly parties you will find people with more of an open mind with less expectations.

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RE: training as a Domme - 9/1/2011 10:13:07 PM

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quote:

What I want to know is if it is all possible for someone who is a natural sub but wants to explore her Domme side can train to be a Domme?

i don't know, do you have a fucking domme side? if you do then why the fuck would you think it might not be possible for you to explore it?

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RE: training as a Domme - 9/3/2011 3:21:16 PM

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Absolutely. It is the will and desire that helps you to achieve. Therefore, if you WANT to try dominating someone then it is possible to do so and to train for it. Many of the women who come to us and ask to be trained as a Mistress state that they have first tried submission and now want to try being a Domme. To understand the sub's viewpoint can actually be helpful to the Domme. Some Dommes are even switches. You can choose to do whatever you want. Like I said, it is the WILL that makes it all possible.

Hope this helps.

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RE: training as a Domme - 9/3/2011 4:24:58 PM

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I'd say: learn how to be selfish first.

Seriously. That's what I'd look for in a Domme, first and foremost. I *have* to feel that she's using me for her desires, not my own. Whatever those desires are. (To do her shopping, clean her flat, get kicked by her, or kiss and lick her all night.) Then, everything submissive in me switches on, and I'm on my way to a world of horniness. Simples, if you can only tap that selfishness!

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