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Chastity...does everyone feel like this? - 9/1/2011 4:20:47 AM

art4YOU

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After only 3 days of being in chastity for Goddess i am finding myself becoming even more submissive and addicted to HER than i would have ever thought possible. Though it is agony for me i love it because i know it brings HER a bit of Pleasure knowing i gladly suffer for HER.
Any others who are in chastity or have been...does it do this to you also? What is the longest you have gone without release?
Thanks everyone, i am interested to see how others react.

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RE: Chastity...does everyone feel like this? - 9/1/2011 4:41:01 AM

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You should keep putting HER in all capitals. That's not annoying at all.

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RE: Chastity...does everyone feel like this? - 9/1/2011 5:44:18 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: art4YOU
After only 3 days of being in chastity for Goddess i am finding myself becoming even more submissive and addicted to HER than i would have ever thought possible. Though it is agony for me i love it because i know it brings HER a bit of Pleasure knowing i gladly suffer for HER.

I'm not trying to be mean, but your post makes you sound like you are completely controlled by your dick.

You say that you're in "agony" because you haven't been able to cum for 3 days. Really? That's only 72 hours. And something tells me that the "agony" probably began for you much earlier. My guess is that you were in "agony" before 24 hours had even elapsed.

I'd suggest that you focus on your Domme during this period, and stop thinking about your dick. Frankly, you're not going to die if you don't get to cum for a few days. Any "agony" that you think you feel is all in your head. Your body should be in no pain whatsoever.

Your Domme probably realized that you were far too focused on your dick, and she's putting you in chastity to realign your focus. So use this time to pour your energy into meeting her needs without focusing on your own. Based on what you've said so far, I think you'll learn a lot from the experience.

BTW, you asked how long others have gone without release. I've been kept in chastity for a few days over 4 months. I'd guess it was somewhere between 122-125 days. And believe it or not, I didn't die, and my penis didn't fall off.

Hopefully, your Domme will keep you locked up for at least 2 weeks. It sounds like you could really benefit from the experience.

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RE: Chastity...does everyone feel like this? - 9/1/2011 5:54:27 AM

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No. Though I could go 72 hours no problem, to be kept in chastity does not make me feel more submissive

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RE: Chastity...does everyone feel like this? - 9/1/2011 7:03:58 AM

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eehh...I've gone years without sex. Didn't really bother me and I wasn' t even kept in chastity. Sounds like the chastity may do you good if that's what you seem to be focused on.

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RE: Chastity...does everyone feel like this? - 9/1/2011 7:28:07 AM

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Going without sex is no biggie for me. He tells me I can't touch myself unless he's with me and has given permission - that's ok.

Doesn't make me feel any more submissive. I AM submissive. End of.

What it does is make me feel happy that I'm serving him in the way he wants, in exactly the same way as he insists I kneel to greet him, or wear the skirt he likes, or makes him a cup of coffee...or...or...

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RE: Chastity...does everyone feel like this? - 9/1/2011 10:02:21 AM

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i have nothing to add to this, i just want to repost this as it was said so perfectly:

quote:

ORIGINAL: Rochsub2009

I'm not trying to be mean, but your post makes you sound like you are completely controlled by your dick.

You say that you're in "agony" because you haven't been able to cum for 3 days. Really? That's only 72 hours. And something tells me that the "agony" probably began for you much earlier. My guess is that you were in "agony" before 24 hours had even elapsed.

I'd suggest that you focus on your Domme during this period, and stop thinking about your dick. Frankly, you're not going to die if you don't get to cum for a few days. Any "agony" that you think you feel is all in your head. Your body should be in no pain whatsoever.

Your Domme probably realized that you were far too focused on your dick, and she's putting you in chastity to realign your focus. So use this time to pour your energy into meeting her needs without focusing on your own. Based on what you've said so far, I think you'll learn a lot from the experience.

BTW, you asked how long others have gone without release. I've been kept in chastity for a few days over 4 months. I'd guess it was somewhere between 122-125 days. And believe it or not, I didn't die, and my penis didn't fall off.

Hopefully, your Domme will keep you locked up for at least 2 weeks. It sounds like you could really benefit from the experience.

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RE: Chastity...does everyone feel like this? - 9/1/2011 10:12:07 AM

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I agree with Rochsub. The only reason you're in "agony" is because you were a little too obsessed with sex in the first place.

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RE: Chastity...does everyone feel like this? - 9/1/2011 10:13:35 AM

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be glad i'm not your domme, i'd just cut the fucker off and be done with the problem for good.

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RE: Chastity...does everyone feel like this? - 9/1/2011 10:24:27 AM

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quote:

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be glad i'm not your domme, i'd just cut the fucker off and be done with the problem for good.

You know that you're just encouraging them? There'll be a fantasy castration post in the next few minutes now.

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RE: Chastity...does everyone feel like this? - 9/1/2011 10:26:54 AM

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~sad that SuperHappy might be right~

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RE: Chastity...does everyone feel like this? - 9/1/2011 2:46:18 PM

art4YOU

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quote:

I'd suggest that you focus on your Domme during this period, and stop thinking about your dick. Frankly, you're not going to die if you don't get to cum for a few days. Any "agony" that you think you feel is all in your head. Your body should be in no pain whatsoever.

Your Domme probably realized that you were far too focused on your dick, and she's putting you in chastity to realign your focus. So use this time to pour your energy into meeting her needs without focusing on your own. Based on what you've said so far, I think you'll learn a lot from the experience.

thanks and i am sure you are right. made some very good points and thanks again

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RE: Chastity...does everyone feel like this? - 9/1/2011 3:23:45 PM

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Wearing a CB2000? Good luck keeping it on for a week without it falling off unless you drop down the big bucks for a nice belt. In general most guys keep it on for a week before they start whining about a medical issue of some type.

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RE: Chastity...does everyone feel like this? - 9/2/2011 4:04:22 AM

art4YOU

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be glad i'm not your domme, i'd just cut the fucker off and be done with the problem for good.

Yes Ma'am, i guess i am pretty lucky. thank You.

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RE: Chastity...does everyone feel like this? - 9/2/2011 7:50:19 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: misspersialynn

Wearing a CB2000? Good luck keeping it on for a week without it falling off unless you drop down the big bucks for a nice belt. In general most guys keep it on for a week before they start whining about a medical issue of some type.

I think the CB6000 is a big improvement over the CB2000. The CB6000 and the Birdlocked devices are my favorites. Both are effective and reasonable comfortable.

As far as whining about medical issues, I think that most of that is B.S. The subs who are whining are probably like the OP. After 24 hours without orgasm, they think they're in "agony". Their dicks take control of their brains, and next thing you know, they're complaining of some type of (fictitious) medical condition. This is usually a thinly veiled excuse to be released from chastity so they can return to their normal daily masturbation routine.

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RE: Chastity...does everyone feel like this? - 9/3/2011 6:30:49 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Rochsub2009

I think the CB6000 is a big improvement over the CB2000. The CB6000 and the Birdlocked devices are my favorites. Both are effective and reasonable comfortable.

As far as whining about medical issues, I think that most of that is B.S. The subs who are whining are probably like the OP. After 24 hours without orgasm, they think they're in "agony". Their dicks take control of their brains, and next thing you know, they're complaining of some type of (fictitious) medical condition. This is usually a thinly veiled excuse to be released from chastity so they can return to their normal daily masturbation routine.

I've seen some cases where the dick gets all sliced up. Nothing major, but some cuts here and there. Most of the time, there are no major issues with chastity, however there are always the cases where certain devices do not work for certain people. In my case, I have yet to find a chastity device that is big enough for me. I fill the thing up and get massive belly cramps. I know it sounds odd, but it almost feels like I have incredibly bad diarrhea whenever I start to get turned on in most chastity devices, and that is almost certainly not healthy : ).

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RE: Chastity...does everyone feel like this? - 9/3/2011 8:27:24 AM

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You say that you're in "agony" because you haven't been able to cum for 3 days. Really? That's only 72 hours.

Allegedly, John F Kennedy to Harold MacMillian: "I don't know about you, Harold, but if I don't have a woman for three days I get headaches." Just sayin'

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RE: Chastity...does everyone feel like this? - 9/3/2011 8:57:57 AM

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"My libido's different than yours and therefore you are wrong and also lying." Good times.

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RE: Chastity...does everyone feel like this? - 9/3/2011 9:30:51 AM

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i couldn't give half a fuck what his libido is, if i decide somebody goes without i expect them to fucking well go without without whining about how much agony he or she is enduring for my pleasure. my point is not getting off is not fucking agony, and if you don't believe me just drop your pants and bend over while i glue some sand paper to my biggest strap on and plug in my curling iron.

[mode=ilsa]kommen ze heer. plis be allowink me to do zee deimonztrashun uf zee AGONY[/mode]

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RE: Chastity...does everyone feel like this? - 9/3/2011 9:42:20 AM

Epytropos

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Meh. Agony might be a bit hyperbolic, but I don't think anyone legitimately thinks he means agony in the same sense that passing a kidney stone is agony, do they?

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