I wasn't being at all flippant in my answer. And I wasn't trying to avoid "kink" either. I actually find playing video games with folks that say they are sub very amusing. Most of my subs are gamers(yeah I love me some nerds) and they really don't like to lose. So it is funny watching some of the ones that think I should never have to lose try and decide if they should try hard or give up. It's fun to see their minds work. It also lets me see a bigger part of their personality.
*oh* and for the record I do hate, hate, hate, anyone that throws a game. Beat me at a game and I'll beat you later ...in the fun way. Throw a game because you are worried about my ego and later I will make you worry about your safety.
and for the record I do hate, hate, hate, anyone that throws a game. Beat me at a game and I'll beat you later ...in the fun way. Throw a game because you are worried about my ego and later I will make you worry about your safety.
I threw a game once. It was a strategic decision for the long term.
I had a friend who would play backgammon with me She would "get" my little players just for the joy of getting them. She did it even when it was BAD strategy. She just wanted to "get" my people - even if it means she would eventually lose. Pissed me right off. Sooooooooooo..... I decided that on every roll I would set it up so that my lil players were vulnerable. Every time. I never protected them. It got to the point where she had no choice but to capture them. She lost the thrill right quick of taking my lil pieces.