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LiveByYourNature -> RE: What is the true meaning in BDSM of "switches" when speaking of a person male ore female (9/3/2011 9:05:31 PM)
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A switch is someone who can be dominant or submissive, in the relationship. It does not mean they will be very dominant with you for a week, then, surprise, you wake up to find them groveling at your feet, like they have a split personality, though. It means they are more interested in the whole bdsm dynamic than which side of it they are on, and, more interested in the person than the activity.
Most people are capable of switching, to some extent, but, most are not quite so open-minded, unselfish and people oriented to really just be able to serve or be served that easily, full time.
They are beautiful people, those sort of switches. However, like most things, there is an ugly side to the people who claim to be switches in that some people say they are "switch" but what they really mean is "desperately horny and willing to do anything that will get their cock stroked or a pussy on their face".
If he is a real switch, he may be well worth your time. If he is the other sort, he may be well worth your time, if you just want to play.
(edited because I forgot a paragraph, having gotten used to the weird spacial dynamics of the journal entries)
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