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Endivius -> RE: New here, not sure where to start (9/7/2011 4:11:58 PM)
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Welcome to CM. If you would like advice on how to solve this riddle, let me offer the following:
1. Stop watching Porn, reality is nothing like the videos.
2. Stop watching porn, reality is nothing like the videos.
3. Get a job.
4. Move out of your parents house.
5. Start excersizing.
6. Once you have completed the above, come back to CM and read the forums, all of them.
http://www.collarchat.com/m_1726118/tm.htm this is a list of reading material to get you started. Keep in mind anything you read is not a "one true way" and many of the authors will differ in thier views, but reading is no substitute for real life.
7. Get to some munches. Munches are just vanilla meetings in the ordinary world with like minded people to get to know the people in your area, and learn from thier experience. There is no kinky games, special protocol, or playing done at munches (generally). To find a munch, start by looking http://www.collarchat.com/forumid_17/tt.htm. If you cannot find anything there, google your city, state/province, and the word MUNCH. If you still cannot find anything, head over to fetlife.com and make an account, there are lots of events listed there as well.
Good Luck.
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