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candystripper -> RE: For the het male tops in the room (5/23/2006 6:56:09 AM)
<pokes her nose in.> i would not accept "play" with a 3rd party as part of my relationship with my One; and "play" with a male would upset me....i fear std's in this day and age. candystripper

Level -> RE: For the het male tops in the room (5/23/2006 5:01:35 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: candystripper <pokes her nose in.> i would not accept "play" with a 3rd party as part of my relationship with my One; and "play" with a male would upset me....i fear std's in this day and age. candystripper But females have STDs just like males, candy, and play doesn't have to have anything to do with the swapping of body fluids. Don't misunderstand, if you don't want a third in your relationship, that's okay, I'm not trying to "convert" you lol.

Massokissme -> RE: For the het male tops in the room (5/23/2006 10:52:05 PM)
That is SO not what this is about, Candy. I could care less about sex in the context of this thread (in fact, it's not something I'd do). To steal Archer's line, I'm an equal opportunity masochist! I get the feeling that a lot of the people who have responded to this post have boundaries with who they would play with based on sexual reasons. I have deep respect for that, and wouldn't ever push myself on someone like that. But the fact of the matter is it's not like that for me, pain play is pain play, and it doesn't have to include sex in any way. I think the moral for me from this post is as long as things are carefully negotiated ahead of time, everyone can get what they want. Endorphins are a magical thing. It's better than morphine. And I mean it. :)

Wolfie648 -> RE: For the het male tops in the room (5/23/2006 10:58:05 PM)
"Would you consider playing with a het. male bottom (no sex involved)? Why, or why not?" Tried the male thing once. Did nothing for me. If it works for you knock yourself out and have fun. D (owner of j)

HarryVanWinkle -> RE: For the het male tops in the room (5/23/2006 11:38:39 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Massokissme Would you consider playing with a het. male bottom (no sex involved)? Why, or why not? I don't know if "playing" is quite the right word. It's more like target practice to me. I consider myself heterosexual and mostly a bottom. While I am not attracted to men sexually speaking, I've found when bottoming that it really doesn't matter what the person on the other end of the whip has between his legs. I frequently bottom to a local Master/slavewithawidesadisticstreak couple. I do, however, enjoy topping and have been doing more of it of late. When topping a woman, I must say there is a connection there for me, a joy in her subspace, that's simply not there with a man. Topping a man is, as I said, more like target, or technique practice. There are very few subs locally who enjoy being whipped with a singletail. In fact, I can only name two and one of them is me. But, to become good with one requires lots of practice. Practice on inanimate objects is good and I believe a great deal of it is necessary before one is competent enough to try one on human flesh. But eventually, a live target becomes a necessity. And the only live target I have available locally is another guy.

HarryVanWinkle -> RE: For the het male tops in the room (5/23/2006 11:49:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Massokissme That is SO not what this is about, Candy. I could care less about sex in the context of this thread (in fact, it's not something I'd do). To steal Archer's line, I'm an equal opportunity masochist! I get the feeling that a lot of the people who have responded to this post have boundaries with who they would play with based on sexual reasons. I have deep respect for that, and wouldn't ever push myself on someone like that. But the fact of the matter is it's not like that for me, pain play is pain play, and it doesn't have to include sex in any way. I think the moral for me from this post is as long as things are carefully negotiated ahead of time, everyone can get what they want. Endorphins are a magical thing. It's better than morphine. And I mean it. :) Massokissme, I made my last post before reading this one from you. For the large part of me that is a pure, unadulterated pain pig, you took the words right out of my mouth. When it comes to pain play the sex of the Inflictor is irrelevant. Although if the pain play DOES involve sex, then I greatly prefer a woman on top.

Petruchio -> RE: For the het male tops in the room (5/23/2006 11:54:24 PM)
I have zero interest in males in general. They are mere shadows in my world.

MstrTiger -> RE: For the het male tops in the room (5/24/2006 6:15:36 PM)
At what point does play stop being play and become sex, would you consider CBT a sexual act? I look on all forms of BDSM play as being about sex, I see me engaging in BDSM play as me expressing my sexuality so I would only ever engage in BDSM play with people I am sexually interested in. I would consider using someone I am not sexually interested in though only in a totally none sexual way, by using them as a general servant or something like that though I am not sure how comfortable I would be thinking about how sexually stimulated they are by being used in such a way.

Manawyddan -> RE: For the het male tops in the room (5/27/2006 6:44:58 AM)
I would enjoy the painplay aspect of it, although would be uninterested sexually. It would have to be a guy I 'clicked' with in just the right way though, and so far that hasn't happened (not that I am remotely looking).

RavenMuse -> RE: For the het male tops in the room (5/27/2006 6:55:36 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Massokissme Would you consider playing with a het. male bottom (no sex involved)? Why, or why not? I'm more into the D/s side of things and just BDSM play doesn't interest me enough to arrange such privatly, but if out at a club, in the mood to play, then it doesn't much matter what gender the backside on the reciving end of a dragon.

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