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forced cum eating techniques - 9/11/2011 6:38:17 AM   
garybrown300


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Status: offline 		I have a serious question...

For some reason I have had the fantasy of being forced to consume my own cum lately....but when it gets to that time I always chicken out because I think its disgusting.

I think that is part of the draw to it because I know its something I dont want to do, and would be a form of submission.

Does anyone have any creative techniques to get someone, or yourself to follow through?  Most of my play with dommes is online or on occasion on the phone.

Thanks.
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RE: forced cum eating techniques - 9/11/2011 6:51:51 AM   
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I have had the fantasy of being forced to consume my own cum lately
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I know its something I dont want to do
One of these statements must be false. What you mean is you know its something you really want to do but won't admit it to yourself.
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would be a form of submission.
No, exactly the opposite, it would be a form of domination on your part. Here's why.
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I have had the fantasy of being forced to consume my own cum lately
Being "forced" to do something you want to do isn't being "forced" nor is it submitting.


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RE: forced cum eating techniques - 9/11/2011 6:57:33 AM   
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Status: offline 		I know a fair few submissive males who eat their own cum. None of them would choose to do it, and more than one finds it 'disgusting'.

But they do it. Why? Because their bond with their Domme is so strong that they'll do anything they can to please her. They love that it pleases her, and they say it makes them feel much closer to her and much more in service to her.

Maybe the reason YOU can't do it is because what you're doing is playing with these ladies online. You aren't 'subbing', you're 'bottoming'. It's a game, not a relationship.

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RE: forced cum eating techniques - 9/11/2011 7:06:58 AM   
garybrown300


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Status: offline 		I posted something but I think I was being harsh.

Thanks for yoru responses


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RE: forced cum eating techniques - 9/11/2011 7:27:57 AM   
garybrown300


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Status: offline 		Thanks Myotherself.  That may be true. Im not in a position to serve in a relationship right now, which is why I guess i am "playing"

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RE: forced cum eating techniques - 9/11/2011 7:29:29 AM   
garybrown300


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Status: offline 		so...no, you dont have any techniques to help me with this fantasy?

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RE: forced cum eating techniques - 9/11/2011 7:32:23 AM   
Kaliko


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quote:

ORIGINAL: garybrown300

I have a serious question...

For some reason I have had the fantasy of being forced to consume my own cum lately....but when it gets to that time I always chicken out because I think its disgusting.

I think that is part of the draw to it because I know its something I dont want to do, and would be a form of submission.

Does anyone have any creative techniques to get someone, or yourself to follow through?  Most of my play with dommes is online or on occasion on the phone.

Thanks.



I don't understand why it's disgusting. Plenty of people swallow cum all the time. What better way to know where your food is coming from than making it yourself?

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RE: forced cum eating techniques - 9/11/2011 7:46:40 AM   
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Status: offline 		I have a regular caller who likes me to watch him on cam. He wants me to "force" him to eat his own cum (drink it, whatever) but every single time, as soon as he cums, he turns off the cam.
It's not the act of doing it, (which he never does, but talks to all kinds of psos about) but the idea of doing it that he loves.
So, maybe OP, this is just a kinky fantasy for you. : )

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RE: forced cum eating techniques - 9/11/2011 8:17:58 AM   
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RE: forced cum eating techniques - 9/11/2011 8:56:02 AM   
ProlificNeeds


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Status: offline 		Having a force fantasy is not submission. Wanting your fantasy fulfilled isn't an evil thing, but don't make it into something it's not.
Be honest about a selfish desire, I do, when I want chocolate I DAMN WELL WANT IT, and that's that. I don't run to my dom however and go "I want you to make me submit to eating chocolate." He knows I like chocolate and want it and eating it has nothing to do with him at all.

Everyone has fantasies, those fantasies are best discussed with a play partner or relationship partner who is in a position and inclined to help you fulfill your selfish desires. I could list some examples of how to make a person eat some cum, but they all pertain to physical real life interactions between a sexully active couple, which doesn't apply to you.

Fact of the matter is when you have the other person seperated by a phone or a PC, you can shut them off whenever you want, YOU are in control, not them, so no one can force you to do anything because you don't allow any real exchange of power in that sense. As for 'chickening out' I am unsure why, it's not going to poison you or leave a burning scarlet letter on you visibly, there's no negative context to sipping the cream except for the ones you invent.

It may also be as xxblushesxx says you like the idea of the -threat- of having to eat it, but the actual act isn't the appealing part. Sort of how like a lot of girls fantasize about being threatened at knife point in a forced fantasy.. that doesn't mean they want to get stabbed or cut, they just like that thrill of threat.

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RE: forced cum eating techniques - 9/11/2011 10:48:08 AM   
coookie


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Status: offline 		I can relate to this actually. Sometimes i want to do an act because of how deviant i think the act is not because i want to necessarily do the act in itself but i crave the debasement of if. For example feet gross me out. I don't like my feet, your feet, her feet or his feet but when i am in that frame of mind i want to literally act as his doormat. I want his toes inside of my mouth (augh) but it isn't because i have a foot fetish but more to show him (and myself) how deeply i have sunk in that moment if that makes any sense.

As to you OP ... try cumming on a cupcake. Chocolate makes everything more appealing.

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RE: forced cum eating techniques - 9/11/2011 10:58:33 AM   
Hisprettybaby


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quote:

ORIGINAL: garybrown300

I have a serious question...

For some reason I have had the fantasy of being forced to consume my own cum lately....but when it gets to that time I always chicken out because I think its disgusting.

I think that is part of the draw to it because I know its something I dont want to do, and would be a form of submission.

Does anyone have any creative techniques to get someone, or yourself to follow through?  Most of my play with dommes is online or on occasion on the phone.

Thanks.


Here's what I think. You fantasize about doing it when you're still horny because you're turned on and the idea turns you on even more. After you've shot your load, all of a sudden it doesn't sound so sexy and fun anymore.

I agree with others in that, since you fantasize about doing it, it's not "forced" and it's not "submission." It's you wanting someone to fulfill your fantasy. That's not a bad thing, but it's also not submission. Submission is when I tell my sub to lick up his cum and he DOES it, even though we both know he hates it.

I don't see what's so disgusting about it. It's just cum. Countless women are told to lick off their own toys after they've been used on them and they do it. We swallow guys' cum. We don't always LIKE it, but we DO it. It's like Nike says, JUST DO IT. Maybe you could use a "chaser" of some kind afterward that you like the taste of....

~Hisprettybaby~

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RE: forced cum eating techniques - 9/11/2011 11:30:30 AM   
crazyml


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Status: offline 		I have a feelIng that you might be the sort that responds to a challenge.

I bet if you were ordered to eat your cum using only chopsticks you'd feel honour-bound to rise to the challenge.



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RE: forced cum eating techniques - 9/11/2011 11:41:38 AM   
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so...no, you dont have any techniques to help me with this fantasy?
Of course I do. Jerk off, catch the cum in your hand. Suck and lick it all up while saying over and over "Thank you for forcing me against my will to fulfill my fantasies Mistress Heather."

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RE: forced cum eating techniques - 9/11/2011 2:27:46 PM   
urofss43


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RE: forced cum eating techniques - 9/11/2011 6:08:04 PM   
xxblushesxx


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I'm not here to advertise though, I'm here to have fun and to share insights. If you're really interested contact me on the other side and I'll give you the info.

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RE: forced cum eating techniques - 9/11/2011 6:19:07 PM   
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ORIGINAL: garybrown300

so...no, you dont have any techniques to help me with this fantasy?


Hey, you figured it out.  Good job. 

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RE: forced cum eating techniques - 9/12/2011 12:18:59 AM   
crazyml


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Status: offline 		OK, serious answer this time (now I'm on the laptop as opposed to the phone).

Although, I thought my "chopsticks" suggestion was awesome.

I don't think the answer for you is the discovery of some "creative technique" that will somehow compel you to chomp your own jiz. It could very well be that it's simply a fantasy, and that's perfectly ok. Or it could be the case that once you cum (somewhat of a requirement if you plan to scoff the ejaculate) you do the classic "man thing" and go right off the boil. It could simply be the case that you haven't encountered a D type who can inspire you to follow through.





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RE: forced cum eating techniques - 9/12/2011 1:06:35 AM   
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Status: offline 		Or perhaps he could "save" the cum from one time (in the fridge, I guess?) then "force" himself to drink it before he's allowed to cum again. It's a never-ending constantly replenishing supply! *lol*

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RE: forced cum eating techniques - 9/12/2011 1:09:33 AM   
crazyml


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ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx

Or perhaps he could "save" the cum from one time (in the fridge, I guess?) then "force" himself to drink it before he's allowed to cum again. It's a never-ending constantly replenishing supply! *lol*


Ha ha! That has the flavour of "win win" (and cum of course).

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