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Sashareign -> RE: forced cum eating techniques (11/10/2011 12:20:39 PM)
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Here are some of my collective thoughts on this one.
This is not an easy road for a male to go down. From childhood, we are not programmed or accustomed to the idea of taking cum into our own bodies. Imho there is nothing wrong with it. However, there is a lifetime of taboos to be crossed here. That of course can be part of the allure.
Make no mistake, you are definitely crossing lines that many, many people, even in the bdsm world would consider off limits for themselves. So one could say you are not really chickening out, you are just coming up against a boundary and threshold of resistance that is stronger than you are when you are not in a state of lust.
I would keep in mind though all of your previous girlfriends (I hope you have had them) who were only too happy to oblige. Even if they really weren't, they did it. It can be a great sign of love. So I ask you, should you not love yourself as much? Especially if you feel the strong desire to have this experience?
Next, ask yourself if you feel that those souls who have gotten down on their knees to receive what you have to offer are in any way to be deemed "less" than you? Similarly, if you met them today, would you think any "less" of them because they once showed you such love?
No? Good. The be sure to not think any less of yourself.
Of course it is hard. That is part of the challenge. This is an opportunity for you to expand. To become something greater. If not because you swallowed your own cum, then because you broke through a previously impervious limitation. When you are hot and excited, it can be a little like being inebriated with alcohol, your inhibitions go out the window. At this point in time it makes sense to you. You crave it. The instant you orgasm, you are then stone cold sober. Your everyday mortal consciousness comes slamming home and you no longer want it. Hey, let's face it, if offered a heaping helping of cum, in the middle of their work day, most people would probably pass. So yes, set and setting are important. This is not because it is wrong. But because there is a time and a place for all things.
Keep in mind, you are not less of a man if you do this thing, you are not less of a man if you don't.
Lastly, I really liked xxblushesxx's idea. Refrigerate some, and wait till you are hot and bothered again. Work yourself into a state of frenzy, all the while imagining your ideal Mistress. Trust me, she is out there. Then if you are inclined, go to the fridge, get down on your knees and say, "This is for you Mistress!"
Then swallow. Don't hesitate. Man up. The girls do.
Sincerely,
-Sashareign
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