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RE: Quantity of play - 5/22/2006 3:13:58 PM   
aurora31


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Status: offline 		I would not hide the basic dynamics of a D/s M/s relationship from my little one. How ever I live in a small house...I do not feel that she should be exposed to hearing mommy scream out in pain or hear the sounds of the paddle/flogger/crop making contact with me. So for me that limits my play...My little one has no father she visits or grandparents who are willing to take her for a weekend. Babysitters are expensive and my income limited. My responsiblities as a parent have to come first so I do not get to scene as often as I would like. That is life and is part of the responsiblity I took on when I decided to become a parent...sacrifices have to be made. Someday she will be grown and I will get to live my life again.

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RE: Quantity of play - 5/22/2006 5:13:29 PM   
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Status: offline 		I work from home, and live with My mousetrapp who is currently in between jobs.  I also have a 5 year old daughter that's not yet in school.  We live D/s all the time, she calls Me Mistress always, and My kiddo has never questioned it.  As far as "playtime" or "sessions" we have to wait to do that after the kiddo is in bed.  Sometimes there just isn't the energy or enough hours in the day for a whole scene...but because we are always who we are, we are always playing in some manner...even when it's just pinching or tickling her or swatting her butt as she walks by.

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RE: Quantity of play - 5/22/2006 8:06:05 PM   
feastie


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Status: offline 		I think it is much more important for my children to see a loving, nuturing relationship between adults than it is to involve them in the intimacies of that relationship.  People touch (or should) all the time.  Vanilla husbands slaps their vanilla wives bottoms as they pass...or they sneak up and pinch them. Mine was fond of snapping me with a towel.  All things, that in a BDSM light, could pass for "play" and it is indeed, play.  It is playful and fun, and just because there might be a slightly different motivation behind it than just a playful slap or pinch, the little ones don't need to know.  I don't feel Thing One and Thing Two should be privy to all aspects of my relationships, it's none of their business.  It's my business and that of my partner.  I'm selfish and I don't want to share that with anyone but him.  I think they need to see Mom happy and see that Mom is loved.

One of the many reasons I divorced my ex is because I didn't want Thing One and Thing Two to think that is how marriage should be.  You know things have crossed a line when a little lisping voice tells Daddy to kiss Mommy goodbye as he leaves for work and Mommy gets an air kiss worthy of Hollywood fame.

I know this seems like a ramble, but I'm getting there!  There are so many things that can be communicated by that playful slap, something whispered in an ear, the tightening of a hand about a wrist until such time as play can be enjoyed that truly, play is the culmination of the all the rest.  It all counts, in my book.


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RE: Quantity of play - 5/22/2006 10:19:49 PM   
BitaTruble


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quote:

There are so many things that can be communicated by that playful slap, something whispered in an ear, the tightening of a hand about a wrist until such time as play can be enjoyed that truly, play is the culmination of the all the rest.  It all counts, in my book.


Perfectly stated and I agree completely! I love doing dishes and having him sneak up behind me just for a hug n squeeze.. some body parts are more often squeezed than others.. but it's the squeeze that counts! ::laughs:: Himself and I touch a lot... and I wouldn't trade that for the world.

Celeste

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