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RE: Not a fake, phony or jackass? - 5/22/2006 4:46:15 PM   
fastlane


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Fastlane scratches Bandit from HIS list....LOL

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RE: Not a fake, phony or jackass? - 5/22/2006 7:37:13 PM   
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less than intriguing.  Thank you to those who mentioned me on their lists, I appreciate the kind thoughts.  But I'm not naming names on either side of the issue in a public forum.  I'd rather ride the fence on this one.

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RE: Not a fake, phony or jackass? - 5/22/2006 8:16:33 PM   
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Status: offline 		I have been thinking a lot about this whole 'list' topic.  At first I was feeling pretty crappy about having put a list out there myself, mostly for being paranoid that I had left someone out, which I now realize that I did, and every post I have read since I have come upon people that I found their thoughts to be quite interesting to me and made a little mental note, so any list would be forever evolving.  So now after thinking about it, I really do not feel crappy about it, because I mean, the whole list thing is pretty silly anyway.  Why do I really care what list I am on or not on?  Personally, I don't.  It reminds me of a few munches I attended where someone had put together a play party afterwards, a private play party at their private home.  Everyone at the munch was certainly not invited, the invitations were very low key as not to offend someone that was not invited, however, it is not a perfect world, and a few days later, word got out about the play party, and some of the non-invites were extremely upset and offended.  It all got really blown out of proportion, and became a silly flame war that ultimately divided many members of this particular group. 
Some people seem to want so badly to fit in, to be a part of the club, to be part of the 'in crowd', and that's okay too.  I used to feel that way, but then I realized I am who I am, I do not want to be one of those people that change depending on the company they are in.  Why should I cheat myself out of being myself, when I think I am a pretty okay girl.  If other people don't see that, oh well.  If someone does not like me, well thats okay, because I do not claim to like everyone either.
I have to take the good with the bad.  No reason to sweat the small stuff.
There is some saying about - You can please some of the people some of the time but you can never please all of the people all of the time....or something like that.

Wow....and I am the quiet one.

(this wasn't edited or checked for spelling or grammar.....gotta have something for angelface to do....heh)

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RE: Not a fake, phony or jackass? - 5/22/2006 9:11:05 PM   
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Ok being newer around here I have come across quite a few people that I admire so far. Ones that I do read their posts from start to finish.... some would be....
 
BlkTallFullfig, CreativeDominant, CrappyDom, FirmHandKy, tali, angelface, LaTigresse, MistressSassy, Fergus, Lorelei, erin, RavenMuse, benji,tiger, LadyHugs, Trix, Kevin (Fastlane), SirKenin and a whole bunch of others as well.


*pulls his head briefly out of self-imposed hiatus*

awww .... gawrsh .... thanks :)

I'd like to say that even the NO SHOWS have been real people to me.  I reckon they are just people who either had last minute fear (perfectly natural) or just weren't aware that this person on the other end was real ;)

fergus

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RE: Not a fake, phony or jackass? - 5/22/2006 9:15:48 PM   
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Status: offline 		I know I haven't been here that long yet (obviously, I'm still ranked as a Newbie!), but I've seen a LOT of differing opinions handled with a boatload of maturity.  I really like reading the boards here.
 
Now, I'm pretty sure I won't make anyone's Faker list, because I've always admitted freely that I'm new and inexperienced.  My purpose here is to learn, and perhaps make a few friends in the process.
 
I just thought I'd take this thread as an opportunity to let y'all know that I appreciate the thoughts and advise that you toss out here for everyone to see.  Even those of us who don't have as much to say most of the time. 
 
zuma

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RE: Not a fake, phony or jackass? - 5/22/2006 10:11:03 PM   
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ORIGINAL: fergus

quote:

ORIGINAL: Reflectivesoul

Ok being newer around here I have come across quite a few people that I admire so far. Ones that I do read their posts from start to finish.... some would be....
 
BlkTallFullfig, CreativeDominant, CrappyDom, FirmHandKy, tali, angelface, LaTigresse, MistressSassy, Fergus, Lorelei, erin, RavenMuse, benji,tiger, LadyHugs, Trix, Kevin (Fastlane), SirKenin and a whole bunch of others as well.


*pulls his head briefly out of self-imposed hiatus*

awww .... gawrsh .... thanks :)

I'd like to say that even the NO SHOWS have been real people to me.  I reckon they are just people who either had last minute fear (perfectly natural) or just weren't aware that this person on the other end was real ;)

fergus

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* hops off to Fergus's shadow n whispers* Hiyas n yer welcome *grins*

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RE: Not a fake, phony or jackass? - 5/23/2006 4:37:53 AM   
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  (this wasn't edited or checked for spelling or grammar.....gotta have something for angelface to do....heh) 


love ya ohbe! 

Thank you everyone for making this girl feel like she belongs.  "I look at you and I am home".  That is how I feel here....thank you.

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RE: Not a fake, phony or jackass? - 5/23/2006 4:51:47 AM   
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Status: offline 		Go to sleep and look what happens!  I'm off Fastlane's list.  Hmmmmm, now how much groveling do I have to do to get back on? 

Seriously, everyone is on my list (I couldn't have left anyone off now).  But, I guess I shouldn't have posted one either.  And fergus...I simply haven't seen you around for awhile....adding fergus AFTER Fastlane who is quickly moved to the top of the list.


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RE: Not a fake, phony or jackass? - 5/23/2006 10:18:43 AM   
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Status: offline 		Though i have met my share of all of those listed.. i will have to say.. that even from them i have taken something away..even if it is just a lesson.. or a tune-up to the bullshit meter. 
 
So, on my list.. i put. EVERYONE...but the following:
1.The one that wanted me to be a prostitute for him and his buddy .
2. The one that wanted to meet for sex last Sat.
 
i could add t.v. guy.. but heck.. i got a good rant out of that one.. so, it's all good.
 
All in all.... most of Y/you are pretty cool people.. *kisses*
 
p.s. i don't want to leave a soul out.. but.. i did have to add my slave sis "texasbutterfly" to the list.. as an actual name.. we have been thru so much.. cried..laughed..and maybe some naughty talks mixed in.   
 
 

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RE: Not a fake, phony or jackass? - 5/23/2006 10:34:04 AM   
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Thank you everyone for making this girl feel like she belongs.  "I look at you and I am home".  That is how I feel here....thank you.


Does thinking you have very pretty hair count?
 
Honestly, I don't want to make a list, because like many have said, I would surely miss some people, and don't want to offend anyone. I generally enjoy most posters here. 

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RE: Not a fake, phony or jackass? - 5/23/2006 11:22:08 AM   
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When you start to talk back and shout at some of the commentary and commercials on TV and the computer you should realize it's time to take a vacation. It's like when you are watching a horror movie and you say out loud; "don't split up!" or "don't leave to see what's taking Jill so long to come back from the campsite bathroom!" Seeing the recent trend of handing out accolades and assigning legitimacy has made me start shouting at the computer screen - THIS IS NOT REAL!! Not only that, but assigning validity and deciding who is or isn't a fake, phony or fraud based upon an internet message board is dangerous. The personalities you see here are not validated by reality until/unless you meet. You'll be surprised how in reality some people aren't the honest, helpful, lifestyle friendly, open people you think they are based upon their CM "reputation".

We appreciate those that included our names. The "dangerous" part isn't pertinent to us because we aren't searching for anyone. But if you are, please don't rely on internet reputation for your physical or emotional safety. That goes for positive as well as negative 'word of mouth'. Get to know the person for yourself, draw your own conclusions. Don't belief it's safe because he/she can turn a phase, or agrees with your political and/or lifestyle philosophy.

Regardless of what we post; beth can be a 5'5" male weighing 260 pounds, balding 60 year old; and I his cross-dressing pre-op transsexual Dom (or would that make me a domme?) For all our words and descriptions we could be living in a boarding house in El Segundo sitting in our underwear, creating profiles, and posting BS to see if anyone would take it seriously. Live 24/7 as M/s? Ha - we have them all convinced!

Of course if you want to take a chance, we maintained an open door policy. Anyone in the neighborhood is always welcome to meet us. Have you ever been with a pre-op transsexual Dom and his big fat balding baby boy? You may enjoy it!

Okay - I got it off my chest - I'll try not to shout at the computer screen any more...today.

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RE: Not a fake, phony or jackass? - 5/23/2006 11:34:38 AM   
Reflectivesoul


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Status: offline 		Merc,
 
Would you feel better if for maybe some of us its not so much who isnt this or isnt that, but instead ARE people we like? I know thats why I worded my post like I did, I also have a few people on here that I have intentions on meeting, hopefully. Not right away or not this exact second but I hope that one day our paths would be allowed to cross!
 
If you are a Tranny and beth is a balding baby boy... I'm there lmao bring it on daddies lol lol
 
I've actually had pretty good luck so far with the people I have met online then met offline..... I'm just also hella picky and pretty careful about who I will go meet and who I will allow to come into my hometown to meet.
 
I'm sorry that you had so many issues about this thread, I didnt really look at it like validating who someone is.... untill you mentioned it, I had just kinda looked at it like ok this person is friends with that one.... I am beginning friends with this one... that kind of thing. Honestly I would have put you and beth on mine too cept now I'm like not gonna do that lol, but I would love to get to know you two honestly, cause from what I have read of you both, you seem pretty cool.
 
Anywho-
 
I hope your day gets better and you dont yell at your poor monitor anymore, you'll give the poor thing a complex *winks n laughs*
 
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RE: Not a fake, phony or jackass? - 5/23/2006 12:02:58 PM   
Mercnbeth


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I hope your day gets better and you dont yell at your poor monitor anymore, you'll give the poor thing a complex *winks n laughs*


RS-
Thanks - I needed that! And yes, it's been a stressful couple of days both at work and home. beth, all 260 pounds of her - I mean him, and I are seriously considering cashing in the chips and living somewhere on the beaches of Costa Rico.

This wasn't a poke at anyone in particular. People such as yourself who are "hella picky and pretty careful" or have life experience aren't the people the post was addressed. Concern is for the least common denominator of experience seeking any port in the storm who can be taken in by someone saying; "Just go to CM, everyone there knows I'm safe and 'real'. Just look what RS says about me." Doesn't happen? Won't Happen? There are people who still post with 60% of the words spelled incorrectly even after the site installed a spell checker! I find that harder to believe than a person using CM as a bullet point on their lifestyle 'resume'.

I think I'm going to take a 1/2 day off and go see DaVinci Code with beth. I need to ponder a good conspiracy theory to distract me. I don't think it's so bay talking to the monitor, it's when it talks back and you are the only one to hear it that you have to worry!

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RE: Not a fake, phony or jackass? - 5/23/2006 12:03:48 PM   
caitlyn


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You are real to me Merc, because you have said things that have struck a cord with me. That is all the reality I need. You don't have to validate yourself to me ... because the many people that I have met that have shown that they were full of shit, were not you.
 
Please don't take offense, but this post of yours comes across as too cynical, to be rational.

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RE: Not a fake, phony or jackass? - 5/23/2006 12:19:47 PM   
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I guess you have never been lied to offline.
 
Caitlyn,
All the time, and I don't have personal relationships with those people either. I don't see rational thought to exclude cynicism. I'd suggest it requires it.
 
I'm not discounting anything you may have positively gleaned from us. I espouse cynicism and recommend it to people as a protective device. That's all I'm trying to convey here.
 
beth is NOT on the same page with me in this regard. she protects me from being cynical to the point of closing people out of my life; and I provide her the protection of appreciating the 'hidden agenda' that people bring to requests of her. If we were keeping score, I'd bet my cynicism has been a more accurate predictor of behavior than her belief in good intentions of people.
 
Beth....?

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RE: Not a fake, phony or jackass? - 5/23/2006 12:42:56 PM   
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Status: offline 		I think these threads that have popped up in the last few days are actually a welcome relief from all of the complaining, whiny threads due to the winter blahs.  Whine whine whine...no one answers my email.  Whine whine whine...they answer me rudely.  I certainly don't think the op's meant them as anything to be taken seriously, but rather just in fun.    For me, there's only two people on this site that I know are real and have been able to back up who and what they say they are.  One of them is me.  Beyond that, I take everything I read with a grain of salt because until I actually meet them then it remains fiction to me.

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RE: Not a fake, phony or jackass? - 5/23/2006 12:52:14 PM   
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Pretty much everyone on my crush list.
Level
Gauge
caitlyn
owned
bita
LA
Iron
Blktallfullfig
Crappy
Noah
Katy
Quivver

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RE: Not a fake, phony or jackass? - 5/23/2006 12:54:31 PM   
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Even LROD made my list

Random stupidity...page two...don't be shy thread.
I'm not techy and never bothered to learn how to do links.  Oh well

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RE: Not a fake, phony or jackass? - 5/23/2006 1:05:52 PM   
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http://www.collarchat.com/m_383519/mpage_1/tm.htm#383533

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RE: Not a fake, phony or jackass? - 5/23/2006 4:11:17 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth

quote:

I hope your day gets better and you dont yell at your poor monitor anymore, you'll give the poor thing a complex *winks n laughs*


RS-
Thanks - I needed that! And yes, it's been a stressful couple of days both at work and home. beth, all 260 pounds of her - I mean him, and I are seriously considering cashing in the chips and living somewhere on the beaches of Costa Rico.

This wasn't a poke at anyone in particular. People such as yourself who are "hella picky and pretty careful" or have life experience aren't the people the post was addressed. Concern is for the least common denominator of experience seeking any port in the storm who can be taken in by someone saying; "Just go to CM, everyone there knows I'm safe and 'real'. Just look what RS says about me." Doesn't happen? Won't Happen? There are people who still post with 60% of the words spelled incorrectly even after the site installed a spell checker! I find that harder to believe than a person using CM as a bullet point on their lifestyle 'resume'.

I think I'm going to take a 1/2 day off and go see DaVinci Code with beth. I need to ponder a good conspiracy theory to distract me. I don't think it's so bay talking to the monitor, it's when it talks back and you are the only one to hear it that you have to worry!


Merc,
 
I kinda figured that was the point you were getting at, its all too often that someone new gets hooked into the wrong crowd or with the wrong person and gets hurt. I didnt take offence to it cause I also knew you were venting... I do that enough that I can pretty much call it when I see it.
 
So how is the baby boy big daddy ovah there? *giggles* hiyas beth *grins* omg you know Merc, thats gonna stick.... poor beth *huggles*
 
and here I thought this was a friendship ring, not the rumor board * whistles innocently as I drag the post ovah there *grin* *
 
I hope that you two enjoy the movie, I have yet to see it but I'm hearing mixed reviews on it. The break will prolly make ya feel better too *grins* ( or just feel beth and thats bound ta help!)
 
Oh oh beth.... I'd keep a tape recorder by the monitor, the poor abused thing might start talkin back and no one would hear it.... that'd be a shame *winks*
 
Theres a spell checker? where? lol I typo really bad sometimes and sometimes I spell for shit too so yeah I need one of those bad lol.
 
A couple good movies ( if you havent seen em yet, I have seen and though were really good ) War of the Worlds ( cheesy yes but it was cool ) Lord of War ( damn good I thought ) Saw 1 & 2 ( highly gross but excellent mind fucks...)
 
~RS~

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