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new and wanting to learn - 9/13/2011 3:27:24 AM   
Trinitystar


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Status: offline 		I have done a bit of online gorean rp which has opened a lot of doors for me as far as the D/s world, which i am now looking to explore. I would love to hear whatever tips, advice, or information you have to offer.
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RE: new and wanting to learn - 9/13/2011 3:32:06 AM   
Endivius


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Status: offline 		Welcome to CM. Here is some generic advice that may be of some value to you :

Read the forums, all of them. http://www.collarchat.com/m_1726118/tm.htm this is a list of reading material to get you started. Keep in mind anything you read is not a "one true way" and many of the authors will differ in thier views, but reading is no substitute for real life.

Get to some munches. Munches are just vanilla meetings in the ordinary world with like minded people to get to know the people in your area, and learn from thier experience. There is no kinky games, special protocol, or playing done at munches (generally). To find a munch, start by looking http://www.collarchat.com/forumid_17/tt.htm. If you cannot find anything there, google your city, state/province, and the word MUNCH. If you still cannot find anything, head over to fetlife.com and make an account, there are lots of events listed there as well.

Good Luck.



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RE: new and wanting to learn - 9/13/2011 3:38:35 AM   
ChatteParfaitt


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Status: offline 		Welcome to the discussion side of CM. And, what Endivius said. 

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RE: new and wanting to learn - 9/13/2011 4:12:48 AM   
Trinitystar


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Status: offline 		Thank you for the tips. I am exploring the chat rooms at the moment. I will definitely look into the vanilla meetings, and see if there are any in the surrounding areas. I appreciate it :)

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RE: new and wanting to learn - 9/13/2011 6:35:50 AM   
OohAahMrs


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Status: offline 		Welcome, do they still call you Trinity?

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RE: new and wanting to learn - 9/13/2011 8:59:13 AM   
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RE: new and wanting to learn - 9/13/2011 9:11:55 AM   
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RE: new and wanting to learn - 9/13/2011 2:02:21 PM   
Trinitystar


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Status: offline 		well, trinity is a rather new name i have picked up from joining this site.. a new alias i guess you can say ;)

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RE: new and wanting to learn - 9/13/2011 11:03:57 PM   
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Status: offline 		Hello, and welcome!

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RE: new and wanting to learn - 9/14/2011 12:34:40 AM   
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RE: new and wanting to learn - 9/14/2011 5:03:17 AM   
BurntKitty


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Status: offline 		Welcome to CM, Trinity.

The only thing I can add is to complete your profile. Letting a prospective dominant know what you bring to the relationship other than the kink interests is helpful.

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