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Right. Hi. - 9/13/2011 2:32:48 PM

ColeYote

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So yeah, just joined up on this website. I'm completely inexperienced with this. Coming here seemed like a good second step after having a Fetlife account for a couple of months. I've been interested in BDSM longer than I've had any clue I was gay, so if that's not a sign it's something worth pursuing in real life I don't know what is. I feel like I have basically every reason to consider myself submissive other than any actual experience. I'm getting really easily sexually frustrated lately*, and I think I'm getting to a point where I'm ready for there experimentation phase, so... yeah. Hi.

*SIde note: there's a good chance I'm hypersexual, but I'm 18 so I just think I have to wait a few years to see if it cools off before I can say for certain. Just... thought I'd mention that.

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RE: Right. Hi. - 9/13/2011 3:46:52 PM

SirLangsdorff

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Welcome to CM.. this is not a race, just have fun and be careful.

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RE: Right. Hi. - 9/13/2011 5:30:06 PM

ashjor911

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Welcome To CM

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RE: Right. Hi. - 9/13/2011 6:51:24 PM

Endivius

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Welcome to CM. Here is some generic advice that may be of some value to you :

Read the forums, all of them. http://www.collarchat.com/m_1726118/tm.htm this is a list of reading material to get you started. Keep in mind anything you read is not a "one true way" and many of the authors will differ in thier views, but reading is no substitute for real life.

Get to some munches. Munches are just vanilla meetings in the ordinary world with like minded people to get to know the people in your area, and learn from thier experience. There is no kinky games, special protocol, or playing done at munches (generally). To find a munch, start by looking http://www.collarchat.com/forumid_17/tt.htm. If you cannot find anything there, google your city, state/province, and the word MUNCH. If you still cannot find anything, head over to fetlife.com and make an account, there are lots of events listed there as well.

Good Luck.

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RE: Right. Hi. - 9/13/2011 10:47:20 PM

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RE: Right. Hi. - 9/13/2011 11:49:10 PM

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Welcome to CM!

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RE: Right. Hi. - 9/14/2011 12:32:56 AM

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welcome to the boards

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