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moody - 9/15/2011 1:47:04 PM   
mastercesarsub


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Status: offline 		how woul one deal with a master thats always moody
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RE: moody - 9/15/2011 1:47:44 PM   
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RE: moody - 9/15/2011 1:47:55 PM   
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RE: moody - 9/15/2011 1:49:22 PM   
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RE: moody - 9/15/2011 1:50:54 PM   
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RE: moody - 9/15/2011 2:14:57 PM   
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Status: offline 		Talk to him.

if the moodiness is a recent thing, perhaps a trip to the doctor for a physical is in order.

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RE: moody - 9/15/2011 2:27:53 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Kana

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Hard to argue with advice like that.


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RE: moody - 9/15/2011 2:59:17 PM   
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Status: offline 		1. Don't post personal issues on a message board.
2. Talk to him to see if you can be of any help or if there's stuff going on in his life.
3. Swallow.
4. Swallow some more.
5. Be supportive of him without adding drama to his life and without making it all about you.
6. Swallow.

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RE: moody - 9/15/2011 3:00:58 PM   
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RE: moody - 9/15/2011 3:02:36 PM   
Killerangel


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Status: offline 		Well, if the moodiness is who he is most of the time and it's his personality, then either accept him as he is or move on. You can't be with someone thinking and hoping that they'll change. In that way lies madness...

If this is a more recent development I'd sit down and talk to him about it in a non-confrontational, caring way. See if he's noticed it. See if you can get to the bottom of why he's feeling that way or perhaps if he needs to see the dr. I know for myself, I noticed lately that I've been a bit 'off' in my mood for the last few weeks. I'm keeping track of things as to what might be causing it and if there is anything i need to do if it progresses into being there for a longer length of time.

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RE: moody - 9/15/2011 3:05:14 PM   
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ORIGINAL: HeatherMcLeather

Get a Mistress. Everybody knows women are never moody. 



Hahahaha. Shore can set his calendar by my non moodiness.

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RE: moody - 9/15/2011 7:08:56 PM   
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RE: moody - 9/15/2011 7:27:15 PM   
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Status: offline 		He's 49.  He ain't gonna change.

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RE: moody - 9/15/2011 7:53:39 PM   
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Status: offline 		we all get moody. We all have times when we're not at our best.

What do we do?

We talk to each other and we're there for each other through thick and thin.

You need to find out why he's moody and go from there.



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RE: moody - 9/15/2011 7:56:17 PM   
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RE: moody - 9/15/2011 8:35:11 PM   
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RE: moody - 9/16/2011 6:27:31 AM   
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Status: offline 		Doctor's appointment.
Don't assume if he's always been this way that there isn't a problem. It could be an ongoing imbalance.
He needs his thyroid checked, an assessment for depression, bipolar disorder, Seasonal Affectiveness Disorder, and so on.
Are his blood sugar and blood pressure within normal limits?

Tell him that he needs to take control of this issue and get some help as otherwise your respect and trust will continue to erode.

More importantly, why did you commit yourself to someone you weren't compatible with?

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RE: moody - 9/16/2011 8:50:28 AM   
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Status: offline 		I would think moodiness is something that is fairly evident when you are getting to know someone. How would I deal with it? I wouldn't.

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RE: moody - 9/16/2011 9:48:57 AM   
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Status: offline 		Well if he's 49 and the relationship is several years old, the moodiness could actually be non sad depression. Depression rates soar during times when the hormones in the body change, ie puberty and middle age. Which would explain why he wasn't like this when they met.

Most of us would probably recognize signs of classic depression, bouts of weepiness and despair lasting over two weeks. But the non sad form, seen more in men than women, tends to come across as irritability. In any case, you always start with a full physical.


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RE: moody - 9/16/2011 9:57:01 AM   
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Status: offline 		did his moodiness just recently start? If so, like others said, ask him to get a checkup, ask him why he feels moody....recent change in financial status, relationship problems?

Or has he always been moody since you met him? If that's the case I'd say you're screwed and you knew what you were getting into from the beginning...now you have a choice of staying or leaving.

Personally if they're moody to begin with I don't get involved. If the moodiness came along later I'd be talking to him and figuring out the where's and whys.



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