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anniezz338 -> Porn vs Male Dominance (9/16/2011 10:00:29 AM)

There is a profile in my area for gangbangs by a "male dominant" in his mid 20's. It just has me on a slow burn because I'm seeing it as just plain porn and the profiler is calling himself a dominant. The scary part is new women to this lifestyle is going to fall for this being some kind of actual dynamic of a D/s relationship.

Personally, I want to report this as abuse but am I missing the point? Does kink, porn and dominance have too many gray areas for this type of situation? To clarify, the profiler is saying c'mon women, you know you would love it that I have all my friends over to use you as they please.



littlewonder -> RE: Porn vs Male Dominance (9/16/2011 10:03:58 AM)

the people supposedly here are all adults. It's their choice to make, not yours. For some they may see this guy as a dom. You do not so you have the choice to ignore him and move on.

You are not their rescuer.




DesFIP -> RE: Porn vs Male Dominance (9/16/2011 10:04:54 AM)

Nobody's being grabbed off the street to be forced to do this.

It's not my kink, but there are men who love sharing their women, and women who love to be shared. As long as the woman consents to it, is old enough to consent and has sufficient mental capacity to understand what she's consenting to, it isn't abuse.

Why do you feel this is abusive but people wanting others to eat their shit isn't?

As far as women falling for it? I doubt it. Most high school girls I know would slap a boy into next week who tried this, I can't imagine women ten years older being dumber than a 16 year old.



LadyPact -> RE: Porn vs Male Dominance (9/16/2011 10:10:30 AM)

I don't see this as a question that is based on gender.

As a Dominant, if I own someone, or I'm looking to own someone, part of that is to use them sexually to satisfy My kinks.  Some of My tastes in particular are what some people would compare to porn.  I don't feel that it makes Me less of a Dominant because certain activities trip My trigger.  I would have to see the profile that you are referring to in the same way.



anniezz338 -> RE: Porn vs Male Dominance (9/16/2011 10:15:17 AM)

I can see everyone's point. I guess it's the wording "looking for women" that got to me. Not "a submissive", not a "poly situation", just plain looking for women to gangbang. Nothing about how he see's himself as a dominant, or how he perceives submission.



littlewonder -> RE: Porn vs Male Dominance (9/16/2011 10:18:10 AM)

not everyone on this site is into dominance and submission.

Most on here to be honest are not here for that but for kinky sex.

Why is that so surprising to so many? LOL




CeriseNin -> RE: Porn vs Male Dominance (9/16/2011 10:19:23 AM)


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ORIGINAL: anniezz338

I can see everyone's point. I guess it's the wording "looking for women" that got to me. Not "a submissive", not a "poly situation", just plain looking for women to gangbang. Nothing about how he see's himself as a dominant, or how he perceives submission.

So the hell what? If the women he's getting are consenting adults, mind your own business.



JanahX -> RE: Porn vs Male Dominance (9/16/2011 10:28:08 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: anniezz338

There is a profile in my area for gangbangs by a "male dominant" in his mid 20's. It just has me on a slow burn because I'm seeing it as just plain porn and the profiler is calling himself a dominant. The scary part is new women to this lifestyle is going to fall for this being some kind of actual dynamic of a D/s relationship.

Personally, I want to report this as abuse but am I missing the point? Does kink, porn and dominance have too many gray areas for this type of situation? To clarify, the profiler is saying c'mon women, you know you would love it that I have all my friends over to use you as they please.


What buisiness is it of yours what consenting adults do? And who made you the authority on what the dynamics are for people that participate in d/s?
Report for abuse? Who the fuck do you think you are anyways?

The real scary part is: busybody people like you who report everything that you disagree with that isnt illegal. MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS



anniezz338 -> RE: Porn vs Male Dominance (9/16/2011 10:35:00 AM)

I've never reported anything on the forum side or the other side. Who do i think i am? Nobody any different than anyone else on this forum. It was just a flippin question and i received opinions. Thanks for your input.



MistressDarkArt -> RE: Porn vs Male Dominance (9/16/2011 10:37:37 AM)

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ORIGINAL: anniezz338

I can see everyone's point. I guess it's the wording "looking for women" that got to me. Not "a submissive", not a "poly situation", just plain looking for women to gangbang. Nothing about how he see's himself as a dominant, or how he perceives submission.


At least he said 'women' and not 'girls' or 'bitches.' Doubt there'll be much more than dust in his inbox, don't waste another thought on it.



Kana -> RE: Porn vs Male Dominance (9/16/2011 10:39:39 AM)

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

I can't imagine women ten years older being dumber than a 16 year old.



Errrrrrrrrrr.....



Mr4sg -> RE: Porn vs Male Dominance (9/16/2011 10:45:19 AM)

mkay .. seriously .. use /sarcasm next time



LaTigresse -> RE: Porn vs Male Dominance (9/16/2011 11:00:08 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: JanahX


quote:

ORIGINAL: anniezz338

There is a profile in my area for gangbangs by a "male dominant" in his mid 20's. It just has me on a slow burn because I'm seeing it as just plain porn and the profiler is calling himself a dominant. The scary part is new women to this lifestyle is going to fall for this being some kind of actual dynamic of a D/s relationship.

Personally, I want to report this as abuse but am I missing the point? Does kink, porn and dominance have too many gray areas for this type of situation? To clarify, the profiler is saying c'mon women, you know you would love it that I have all my friends over to use you as they please.


What buisiness is it of yours what consenting adults do? And who made you the authority on what the dynamics are for people that participate in d/s?
Report for abuse? Who the fuck do you think you are anyways?

The real scary part is: busybody people like you who report everything that you disagree with that isn't illegal. MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS


I think this pretty much sums up how I feel about the OP.



anniezz338 -> RE: Porn vs Male Dominance (9/16/2011 11:06:48 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

quote:

ORIGINAL: JanahX


quote:

ORIGINAL: anniezz338

There is a profile in my area for gangbangs by a "male dominant" in his mid 20's. It just has me on a slow burn because I'm seeing it as just plain porn and the profiler is calling himself a dominant. The scary part is new women to this lifestyle is going to fall for this being some kind of actual dynamic of a D/s relationship.

Personally, I want to report this as abuse but am I missing the point? Does kink, porn and dominance have too many gray areas for this type of situation? To clarify, the profiler is saying c'mon women, you know you would love it that I have all my friends over to use you as they please.


What buisiness is it of yours what consenting adults do? And who made you the authority on what the dynamics are for people that participate in d/s?
Report for abuse? Who the fuck do you think you are anyways?

The real scary part is: busybody people like you who report everything that you disagree with that isn't illegal. MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS


I think this pretty much sums up how I feel about the OP.



I'm sorry you feel that way. I would have thought you would have been more objective. I'm wrong again it seems.



LaTigresse -> RE: Porn vs Male Dominance (9/16/2011 11:10:44 AM)

I am very objective, which is why I have the reaction I do.

What other reasonably sane adults do for their thrills is their business. If another reasonably sane adult falls for their bullshit lines, it is none of my business. I am not here to protect ANYone from stupidity, especially not their own.

Lastly, nothing I see on here, especially the other side, is going to get me to do any sort of burn, slow or otherwise.



anniezz338 -> RE: Porn vs Male Dominance (9/16/2011 11:18:50 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

I am very objective, which is why I have the reaction I do.

What other reasonably sane adults do for their thrills is their business. If another reasonably sane adult falls for their bullshit lines, it is none of my business. I am not here to protect ANYone from stupidity, especially not their own.

Lastly, nothing I see on here, especially the other side, is going to get me to do any sort of burn, slow or otherwise.


Thank you. This is something I would see as more constructive than the wording Janah used.



tj444 -> RE: Porn vs Male Dominance (9/16/2011 11:26:15 AM)


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ORIGINAL: DesFIP
As far as women falling for it? I doubt it. Most high school girls I know would slap a boy into next week who tried this, I can't imagine women ten years older being dumber than a 16 year old.

well, maybe some but i tell ya, they sure didnt have rainbow parties and those cool colored bracelets (indicating how far the girl would go) when i was in high school... [8|]



HeatherMcLeather -> RE: Porn vs Male Dominance (9/16/2011 12:13:49 PM)

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Most high school girls I know would slap a boy into next week who tried this
I can't be 100% certain, but my experience tells me they weren't being completely honest with you.



MasterSlaveLA -> RE: Porn vs Male Dominance (9/16/2011 12:20:11 PM)

 
Easy enough...

1.  Email him and tell him you're interested.

2.  Schedule a date and time.

3.  Show up, wait for all the "gangbangers" to show up and get nekkid.

4.  Call the Fire Dept. from his phone, report a fire... then leave.

5.  Laugh while imagining everyone's surprise when 10 Firemen show up to a room full of nekkid peoples.

[sm=rofl.gif]






ProlificNeeds -> RE: Porn vs Male Dominance (9/16/2011 12:58:07 PM)

Not all kinksters care about D/s some just like kinky sex, they don't have to be into every kink to qualify. Some people dig group scene's, some don't, maybe it's a serious profile, though I doubt many will bite, most girls don't need to go online to find random kinky sex, most are looking for something a bit more meaningful and it's why they use the internet to branch out.
(Sorry if I offended anyone who IS just here looking for random kinky sex!)



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