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LadyHibiscus -> RE: The Financial Domination Thing (9/19/2011 8:02:45 AM)
Just wondering... HOW MANY money dominants have we got on the forum side, that post regularly? Chrissy has some folks who give her monies, as part of her phone job, but that is PART of her job. The JOB where men call her and pay some service money for the privilege of talking to a fabuous hottie. Otherwise, I don't think there have been any regular findom posters in the time I have been here. Which is since 2005.

myotherself -> RE: The Financial Domination Thing (9/19/2011 8:09:16 AM)
Maybe they're too busy counting their cash [:D]

LadyHibiscus -> RE: The Financial Domination Thing (9/19/2011 8:09:52 AM)
~spanks the bunny~[8D]

myotherself -> RE: The Financial Domination Thing (9/19/2011 8:13:23 AM)
Do I haz to pay you now? [8\|]

ProlificNeeds -> RE: The Financial Domination Thing (9/19/2011 8:37:01 AM)
Exchanging money for sexual-anything is a risky passtime and can be misconstrued, so it's probably something few will speak of directly. I've never taken money from anyone and never will unless I get married one day.. then I'll gladly take his credit cards shopping. However I'll take a stab at the 'why is it thrilling' part. If you get tied up and beaten with a cane, does it pump you full of adrenaline, pain, even fear? Do you like that scintilating sensation that for a brief time you feel like you are in genuine danger? That the person wielding that cane could ruiny ou if they wanted to? beat you into a pulp, land you in a hospital? It's not that you want to be hospitalized, but the risk of it being a possibility creates a great many chemical reactions in your body that give you an endorphine high. Some people really dig that. Now imagine that instead of physical ruin, we're talking financial ruin. You don't want to be ruined but the risk of it gives you the same high, people engage in that risk with gambling frequently enough, but the payoff for risk is a profit. So what's the payoff when it comes to a financial dominantion game? Sexual favor/power exchange, for handing over your purse strings, or a tribute. If money is so dearly valuable then of course she'll punch you in the pocketbook, just like sadists will torture your tenderist bits, and emotional sadists will hack at your pride. It's a kink, and one that is hard to understand unless it's 'your thing'. It's one more form of control, and while some women use it as a way to pay their bills, some do it because it's a thrill and a pleasurable way for two consenting adults to exchange power.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: The Financial Domination Thing (9/19/2011 8:41:08 AM)
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ProlificNeeds -> RE: The Financial Domination Thing (9/19/2011 9:49:33 AM)
[:D] Do I get a cookie?!

lobodomslavery -> RE: The Financial Domination Thing (9/19/2011 9:51:16 AM)
Does anyone want some ice cream. i have vanilla mint and chocolate flavour, there is also some strawberry now that i think about it. Now who wants ice cream?? Does Lady Pact want ice cream, i would happily give Her some kevin

LadyPact -> RE: The Financial Domination Thing (9/19/2011 10:04:12 AM)
I told you I wasn't into Roman showers.

CBTinDALLAS -> RE: The Financial Domination Thing (9/19/2011 10:42:50 AM)
It isn't extortion. If you don't want to pay a pro...DON'T. See how simple it is? No extortion at all, mate.

Hisprettybaby -> RE: The Financial Domination Thing (9/19/2011 10:46:38 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: JTreyL I have noticed a trend among many female dominants. Not ALL mind you, but a good portion, list financial domination as one of their favorite kinks and actively take steps to milk any potential and active playmates for cash and gifts. While I can certainly understand this, (Who doesn't want to make a buck doing something they enjoy and get spoiled in the process, especially when there are enough submissive men out there ready to throw empty their wallets), I can't help but question the authenticity of such dommes. They happen to like that kink. I've found several kinks on your profile that I am SO not into, yet I don't question YOUR authenticity as a sub because of it. I think the best thing to do is to just say "Your kink is not my kink, but your kink is okay...for YOU." I think as long as we each get our thrills out of our chosen kinks, why should we care what other people do as long as they don't bother us with it? As long as we are talking about Financial Domination, let's not forget that little segment of male Doms that requires their subs/slaves to turn over their entire paychecks to them. They do exist also. I know because, in the past, I've said "Oh HELL no!" to more than one and walked away.. quote: ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery Mate what 's really appalling is the amount the Pros charge , i mean i have no qualms about giving someone $30 for an hour or whatever but $200 come on that is just complete and utter extortion. my advice, stay away from the pros. they are just avaricious materialistic money minded exploitresses. they dont care about you they just want your money and to bleed you dry. Why else do they charge $200 an hour and some a lot more? Pure greed kevin In the FIRST place, this thread was NOT about Pros, it was about the kink of Financial Domination. Stop trying to hijack. Why do they charge so much? Let's see, have you checked the price lately on all of the fetish wear and the toys and accoutrements that they have to buy to entertain their clients in the fashion those clients desire? The cost of fetish wear and all the other accoutrements needed to maintain the customer's ultimate fantasy (which IS, after all, what they are paying for) is astronomical. I know, because I've compared prices online for such things to add to my personal wardrobe and toy bag. The prices they charge are not greed at all. Plus, you get what you pay for.... Just take your own advice and stay away from the Pros. quote: ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery What women pros should really do is lower their prices to a recession reasonable rate. With so many out of work, the kinky guy will not in all probability be able to afford $200 but he would be able to afford $25 or $30 for an hours kink. the place where the kinky stuff is bought needs to LOWER their prices too, to take into account the worst recession in living memory and the disastrous consequences of same. And yet the gas thing is pros moan about not being able to get a sub and that there are so many fakes, the only thing fake is them and their ludicrously high prices. Get real Ladies, drop Your prices kevin Kevin, IF you have a job, how would you like it if your employer lowered your wages to a recession reasonable rate because they were having problems paying you your regular pay rate? It's NOT gonna happen. If you don't like paying the price for your fantasy, then just don't go to the ProDommes. Oh, but that would mean you'd have to impress a non-Pro enough that she'd get involved with you.....[8\|] quote: ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery im with you mate. Why should Dommes be able to make a quick buck when so many are struggling to keep their heads above water, its just not right or fair kevin lover of Women but saddened at the exploitation by Pro Dommes of clients who without their assistance would put the Pro Domme out of business Exploitation!? No one is forcing these guys to go to ProDommes. It's purely and 100% consensual. Not exploitation at all. If anything, you want to exploit the Pros by paying them peanuts for your ultimate fantasy. ~Hisprettybaby~

GreedyTop -> RE: The Financial Domination Thing (9/19/2011 10:59:44 AM)
adores HPB

Hisprettybaby -> RE: The Financial Domination Thing (9/19/2011 11:01:48 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GreedyTop adores HPB Thanks. :)

xxblushesxx -> RE: The Financial Domination Thing (9/19/2011 12:54:25 PM)
This is something I wrote for my custies, (note the term monkey boy as a tribute to my favorite flying monkey...) (I have blocked out my name and where I work; this is to give you an idea of "why" some guys like this so much) Some, when looking into my eyes, and listening to my voice, become mesmerized, and regrettably for them, let down their guard. They tell me their darkest secrets, and their most humiliating fantasies, they share personal information, such as their names, social security and bank account numbers, as well as who they associate with. (wives, bosses, friends and other potential hazards) Of course I make note of all this seemingly innocuous (most of it) information, even when it appears I'm barely paying attention. When you listen to the sweet siren sound of my voice, your cock is in control of you, and I, of course, am in control of your cock. It sounds complicated, but it's really very simple. A bitch boy with a hard penis equals I get what I want. Every. Single. Thing. Every. Single. Time. Some people call what I do blackmail, and, from the outside, perhaps that's how it appears. But you and I both know differently, don't we bitch boy? You knew from the very first moment you learned of my existance (and possibly even before) that I would own you. You knew you'd give me everything, and that every time you do, your poor little cock just gets harder and harder. Just thinking about pleasing me makes your cock ache for release, but you know you're not allowed to even touch it until your Mistress is pleased. It's time you start making yourself useful. Time to prove what a good little monkey boy you can be. If you're nervous or scared (and you should be) Call me on (redacted)We can discuss every aspect of your submission to me. You can listen to my voice slowly draw you into the web of your own dark hidden desires

lobodomslavery -> RE: The Financial Domination Thing (9/19/2011 1:02:09 PM)
Well like i say there is a solution LOWER the God damn prices in the shops as prices are being lowered elsewhere. And secondly with so many taking pay cuts or being forced to take pay cuts because of the recession why should Pro Dommes be any different. But anyway just to show you im more than just kink. For $250,000 what is the answer to the following question What in Roman Numerals is 400 ? a) ab b) bc c) df D)cd Take your time. You DONT have to play this question. A right answer gains you $250,000 , a wrong answer and be aware that the drop is really steep, you lose $93,000. Let's play who wants to be a Millionaire. Four possible answers only one is the right answer. Lots of luck. Use your lifelines if you need them go 50/50 ask a friend or ask the audience BEST OF LUCK EVERYONE HAVE A GREAT NIGHT kevin

Hisprettybaby -> RE: The Financial Domination Thing (9/19/2011 5:34:08 PM)
Kevin, you're just whining because (1)you don't want to pay for a legitimate service and want something for nothing, and (2)you also don't seem to like women very much and blame them for all your problems, therefore you don't impress any enough to become a submissive to any one of them. I made conclusion #2 based on the content of your past threads. Everyone knows how you really feel no matter how hard you try to deny it. And, once AGAIN, stop trying to hijack the thread for crying out loud. ~Hisprettybaby~

rulemylife -> RE: The Financial Domination Thing (9/19/2011 10:25:15 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: JTreyL Well hello there there. Don't ask too many questions on these boards mostly do to the fact that I do not wish to upset or offend anyone with an utterly stupid question, but I figured a little clarification on this matter would help my knowledge in the community and help me to understand a little more. I have only recently joined the Collarme forums and community and while browsing through various profiles, I have noticed a trend among many female dominants. Not ALL mind you, but a good portion, list financial domination as one of their favorite kinks and actively take steps to milk any potential and active playmates for cash and gifts. While I can certainly understand this, (Who doesn't want to make a buck doing something they enjoy and get spoiled in the process, especially when there are enough submissive men out there ready to throw empty their wallets), I can't help but question the authenticity of such dommes. I can't help but feel it shows a domme is acting and is doing this MORE for money and privilege than from actual enjoyment. Same reason, and no offense to any of you ladies who are dominatrix's professionally, I could not ever bring myself to visit a dominatrix. There will always be that nagging thought in the back of my mind that ruins the experience for me, making me wonder, is this person TRULY enjoying this role, these actions, doing this to me, or is this just the best way they have discovered to make a buck. Than again though, I consider myself a true submissive but not an object or an ATM, I need my domme to care or atleast appreciate me atleast a quarter of the way I feel for them. I am sure I am wrong in my feelings, I just would like someone to spell it out to be, sincerely and help me to understand where you ladies are coming from. Thanks and much appreciation. It's not a kink. It is women out to exploit dumb asses.

xxblushesxx -> RE: The Financial Domination Thing (9/20/2011 5:34:22 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: rulemylife quote: ORIGINAL: JTreyL Well hello there there. Don't ask too many questions on these boards mostly do to the fact that I do not wish to upset or offend anyone with an utterly stupid question, but I figured a little clarification on this matter would help my knowledge in the community and help me to understand a little more. I have only recently joined the Collarme forums and community and while browsing through various profiles, I have noticed a trend among many female dominants. Not ALL mind you, but a good portion, list financial domination as one of their favorite kinks and actively take steps to milk any potential and active playmates for cash and gifts. While I can certainly understand this, (Who doesn't want to make a buck doing something they enjoy and get spoiled in the process, especially when there are enough submissive men out there ready to throw empty their wallets), I can't help but question the authenticity of such dommes. I can't help but feel it shows a domme is acting and is doing this MORE for money and privilege than from actual enjoyment. Same reason, and no offense to any of you ladies who are dominatrix's professionally, I could not ever bring myself to visit a dominatrix. There will always be that nagging thought in the back of my mind that ruins the experience for me, making me wonder, is this person TRULY enjoying this role, these actions, doing this to me, or is this just the best way they have discovered to make a buck. Than again though, I consider myself a true submissive but not an object or an ATM, I need my domme to care or atleast appreciate me atleast a quarter of the way I feel for them. I am sure I am wrong in my feelings, I just would like someone to spell it out to be, sincerely and help me to understand where you ladies are coming from. Thanks and much appreciation. It's not a kink. It is women out to exploit dumb asses. I know plenty of guys who literally (and I mean literally) get off on being treated as human atms, pay piggies, or whatever else you want to call them. So from what you've said, we can then infer that male doms "forcing" their female slaves to do things they wouldn't normally do (but which often secretly turn them on) is exploiting stupid women?

seekingreality -> RE: The Financial Domination Thing (9/20/2011 10:53:30 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus Just wondering... HOW MANY money dominants have we got on the forum side, that post regularly? Chrissy has some folks who give her monies, as part of her phone job, but that is PART of her job. The JOB where men call her and pay some service money for the privilege of talking to a fabuous hottie. Otherwise, I don't think there have been any regular findom posters in the time I have been here. Which is since 2005. The money dommes are, obviously, on this site for financial gain. I doubt coming to this forum and posting on this forum would help them gain clients, so it would not be a productive use of their time for the reasons they come to collarme.

justthat1234 -> RE: The Financial Domination Thing (9/22/2011 3:09:22 AM)
Financial "domination", and I will be charitable here, is a major turn-off. While I may make enough money to afford a prodomme or a findomme everyday for the rest of my life, an essential part of the headspace is misssing. Unless I know that a potential domme is lusting to certain things with/to me, it's just an act. I want something real.

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