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guys first time strap on - 5/22/2006 4:08:58 PM

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if your male and its to be your first time taking a strapon from a girl what is the best lubrication to use

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RE: guys first time strap on - 5/22/2006 4:22:56 PM

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Astroglide

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RE: guys first time strap on - 5/22/2006 6:03:18 PM

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Astroglide is one of the best there is. Its what I use on my sub

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RE: guys first time strap on - 5/22/2006 7:03:22 PM

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Another great suggestion is mayonaise.

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RE: guys first time strap on - 5/22/2006 7:36:25 PM

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ORIGINAL: KarbonCopy

Another great suggestion is mayonaise.

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uck for sure. Astroglide is a great product. There are three things to remember about anal anything: lube, lube, and more lube. The anal area is very tender and the skin can crack open very easily if too much force is applied without proper lube. Course I've heard of Doms just lubing and ramming anything into a sub's bottom, but I don't recommend it. There are different sizes of strap ons as well as butt plugs that allows the person to adjust their mind and bottom to something entering. Relax also.

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RE: guys first time strap on - 5/22/2006 7:41:06 PM

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I agree with LadyAlexa.
Lots and lots of lube start out very small and take it very slow.

My sub really likes the Slippery Stuff Gel.

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RE: guys first time strap on - 5/23/2006 5:08:12 AM

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Also you might want to try one of those buttplug training sets with the harness if your not used to anal play. My sub has one and its helped him quite a bit in taking the strapon comfortably.

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RE: guys first time strap on - 5/23/2006 6:58:41 AM

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I LOVE KY-silk E.

Also, depending on the kind of toys being used, unscented lotion like Curell or Lubriderm can be great. (It's oil based, though, so be careful with toys that can't handle oil based stufff)

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RE: guys first time strap on - 5/23/2006 3:19:45 PM

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If you get a latex strapon always put a condom on it.

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