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Introduction - 9/20/2011 3:17:58 AM   
willowind


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Joined: 9/8/2011
Status: offline 		For many years now I have wanted to be collared by a dominant woman. My last two long term relationships have covered twenty five years but neither of them really understood or even seemed to care much about what I wanted. I on the other hand did my best to give them what they wanted.
Now I am single again and have decided that rather than leave it to chance I will come onto some specific websites and try to find a Mistress who will train and chastise me as she sees fit. I like the Idea of teasing and denial and being put into a chastity device, but having never been there I have no idea of my limits. So I need someone to test and push my limits.
I would hope to find someone living in south east England.
Yours
Willowind




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RE: Introduction - 9/20/2011 7:14:11 AM   
ashjor911


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From: balcony, having a Smoke
Status: offline 		Welcome To CM

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"operative" working undercover for the federal government of bangladesh.

my name is : bonsh ... jamesh bonsh.
code name : 009.5
licensed to give formla

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RE: Introduction - 9/20/2011 7:19:09 AM   
willowind


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Status: offline 		Thank you Ashjor911 I am pleased to be here. It looks like a good site.

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RE: Introduction - 9/20/2011 12:10:31 PM   
BurntKitty


Posts: 3340
Joined: 9/7/2010
From: Here To Eternity.
Status: offline 		Welcome to CM.

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RE: Introduction - 9/20/2011 12:51:21 PM   
ashjor911


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From: balcony, having a Smoke
Status: offline 		Enjoy your stay,
come .... relax.... have a beer

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"operative" working undercover for the federal government of bangladesh.

my name is : bonsh ... jamesh bonsh.
code name : 009.5
licensed to give formla

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RE: Introduction - 9/20/2011 5:58:24 PM   
tiggerspoohbear


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Status: offline 		Welcome to CM and the boards.  And thanks for the image that'll be giving me nightmares!  Please, put some clothes on, we don't need a close-up of your piercing.  Honest we don't.

O, good luck btw.


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RE: Introduction - 9/20/2011 6:07:04 PM   
willowind


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Status: offline 		Thanks tiggerspoohbear,

I thought the piercing was a good sign of a submissive male. So I posted it. I sort of had a nightmare when I got it done. I passed out and had to pick myself up of the floor of the piercing place. Just as well it wasn't a prince albert for both our sakes.

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RE: Introduction - 9/20/2011 7:12:43 PM   
tiggerspoohbear


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Status: offline 		Nope, the Prince Albert would be against TOS.  

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RE: Introduction - 9/20/2011 11:50:04 PM   
Djducati


Posts: 84
Joined: 9/15/2011
Status: offline 		Welcome to CM! Good luck!

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RE: Introduction - 9/21/2011 4:13:11 PM   
Endivius


Posts: 1238
Joined: 8/22/2011
Status: offline 		Welcome to CM. Here is some generic advice that may be of some value to you :

Read the forums, all of them. http://www.collarchat.com/m_1726118/tm.htm this is a list of reading material to get you started. Keep in mind anything you read is not a "one true way" and many of the authors will differ in thier views, but reading is no substitute for real life.

Get to some munches. Munches are just vanilla meetings in the ordinary world with like minded people to get to know the people in your area, and learn from thier experience. There is no kinky games, special protocol, or playing done at munches (generally). To find a munch, start by looking http://www.collarchat.com/forumid_17/tt.htm. If you cannot find anything there, google your city, state/province, and the word MUNCH. If you still cannot find anything, head over to fetlife.com and make an account, there are lots of events listed there as well.

Good Luck.



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RE: Introduction - 9/21/2011 7:19:27 PM   
willowind


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Status: offline 		Thanks Endivius,

I have already done that and may well go to a munch on friday. Trouble is I don't finish work till an hour before it finishes. I don't know what sort of dress code is. I guess I can find out easy enough.

Thanks again for you assistance.


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RE: Introduction - 9/21/2011 7:22:58 PM   
Endivius


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Status: offline 		casual dress, if the munch you have found is not to your likeing, you can allways go to a different one. There's not law that says you have to do x y z. Just go and attend one to get some perspective and meet some people. If you don't click with any of them move on. Good Luck.

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RE: Introduction - 9/23/2011 6:32:45 AM   
OohAahMrs


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Status: offline 		Welcome will, hope it works out for you, you never know you may just get lucky!

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