rulemylife -> RE: Older men, much younger women. (9/21/2011 1:57:38 PM)
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ORIGINAL: Qlita I'm new here and so being the new girl I get a lot of mail. I was told by a friend here this would happen. A lot of mail is coming from much older men (I am 21), I was told this would happen too. I was advised to delete and ignore these messages. I didn't do this. Instead I have replied to about 25% of them and asked them what the hell is going through their minds. I sort of asked rhetorically because I assumed they all just wanted sex and in many cases, I was right. Some guys responded and said they didn't want sex but instead wanted to be dominated by a much younger woman because they were turned on by the humiliation of having someone so much younger than them (and less intelligent, wise, experienced, and finically secure, although they didn't actually say these things, it was the feeling I got reading between the lines of their messages) dominate them. One guy described the humiliation as the Valley Girl Barbie dominating the GI Joe doll. I wasn't sure if he was trying to compliment me, or insult me. I'd like to discuss this in the open. Your opinion, do you think older sub men on CM contact much younger dommes because they find it humiliating to submit to someone so young or do you think it's still all about sex and the guys are no different than the old men who message young women on regular dating site? Well, first of all humiliation is sexual, although I've seen a few women who try to deny it but their arousal is hard to mistake. Second, there are many young girls who are attracted to older guys. The fact you are not is your own issue, so why do you feel the need to whine about it? I'm actually involved with a 21 year old now, and it is not a sugardaddy relationship.
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