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Hello all - 9/21/2011 3:54:21 PM

ICarefulOwner

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Hi, finally got bored of relationships where D/s games were just that, games to be played once in a while or as one offs. I want what I want, hoping this is a place that can help male that happen. Don't know the scene in the slightest, so hoping to meet some people who do, looking forward to finally letting myself do this.

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RE: Hello all - 9/21/2011 3:57:48 PM

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Welcome To CM

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RE: Hello all - 9/21/2011 4:02:10 PM

Endivius

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Welcome to CM. Here is some generic advice that may be of some value to you :

Read the forums, all of them. http://www.collarchat.com/m_1726118/tm.htm this is a list of reading material to get you started. Keep in mind anything you read is not a "one true way" and many of the authors will differ in thier views, but reading is no substitute for real life.

Get to some munches. Munches are just vanilla meetings in the ordinary world with like minded people to get to know the people in your area, and learn from thier experience. There is no kinky games, special protocol, or playing done at munches (generally). To find a munch, start by looking http://www.collarchat.com/forumid_17/tt.htm. If you cannot find anything there, google your city, state/province, and the word MUNCH. If you still cannot find anything, head over to fetlife.com and make an account, there are lots of events listed there as well.

Good Luck.

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RE: Hello all - 9/23/2011 6:53:35 AM

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You know this could all be a game, where if you don't like it you can just walk away! That's good for you, but for the rest of us it's slightly more than an obsession!

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