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Hello Newbie - 9/21/2011 8:30:49 PM

SassyCatz

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Hi, I am just looking to see what my limits are and if this is the lifestyle for me. Looking for information and guidance.

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RE: Hello Newbie - 9/21/2011 8:44:33 PM

RexDarcy

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Welcome to CollarMe. The boards have several topics that may be useful. Also, get involved with local munches to meet local people in person.

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RE: Hello Newbie - 9/21/2011 8:47:47 PM

Endivius

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Welcome to CM. Here is some generic advice that may be of some value to you :

Read the forums, all of them. http://www.collarchat.com/m_1726118/tm.htm this is a list of reading material to get you started. Keep in mind anything you read is not a "one true way" and many of the authors will differ in thier views, but reading is no substitute for real life.

Get to some munches. Munches are just vanilla meetings in the ordinary world with like minded people to get to know the people in your area, and learn from thier experience. There is no kinky games, special protocol, or playing done at munches (generally). To find a munch, start by looking http://www.collarchat.com/forumid_17/tt.htm. If you cannot find anything there, google your city, state/province, and the word MUNCH. If you still cannot find anything, head over to fetlife.com and make an account, there are lots of events listed there as well.

Good Luck.

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RE: Hello Newbie - 9/21/2011 9:19:22 PM

Djducati

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Welcome to CM! Have fun!

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RE: Hello Newbie - 9/22/2011 5:17:35 AM

DarkSteven

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Hi there. You live in Florida, which has kinksters everywhere. Find a local munch (hint: use Google), and get a gradual introduction.

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RE: Hello Newbie - 9/22/2011 5:20:48 AM

OohAahMrs

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Welcome sass, you can only have fun, did i mention the pain and sex?

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RE: Hello Newbie - 9/22/2011 8:41:45 AM

ashjor911

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Welcome To CM

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