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zumala -> RE: Chaste or Slutty (5/23/2006 5:37:13 PM)

#1 all the way for this one.  I've only had one partner my entire life, and I'm keeping it that way.  The bond is so precious to me.
 
zuma




littleone35 -> RE: Chaste or Slutty (5/23/2006 6:11:31 PM)

Number 1 is my choice he is the only man i need and want ans since not being shared is one of my hard limits # 2 would not work  anyway Master does not share well with others  he said you WIll NOT BE SHARED.  As for #3 i could do it but i would lose my Master if i did and the idea of being with anyone other than him holds no appeal for me.  To state again it would be #1

Matt's littleone




TemptingNviceSub -> RE: Chaste or Slutty (5/23/2006 7:55:12 PM)

To the Op...#1...I would like to think that any Dominant that I develop a D/s relationship with would prefer for me to be his and only his...Of course I would be lying if I did not say that I havent had a fantasy or two or three..[:D] but realistically one is more desireable..Tempting




SweetSarijane -> RE: Chaste or Slutty (5/23/2006 8:03:33 PM)

#1 definitely for me.
Fantasies of more? Yes of course, but only in fantasy.
I'm monogamous and will be with one who is also monogamous and not willing to sexually share me.




texasbutterfly -> RE: Chaste or Slutty (5/23/2006 8:08:46 PM)

hi angel, maybe we can hook up at lokiwood and have some fun...lol. 




texasbutterfly -> RE: Chaste or Slutty (5/23/2006 8:11:04 PM)

does this mean i can quit looking for my stupid camera and sending the nude photos?




leakylee -> RE: Chaste or Slutty (5/23/2006 10:49:41 PM)

I think it would be #2. There is a huge seperation between love and sex. Love involves the entire being. While sex, well, bringing pleasure, delight, and a smile, is a pure joy. eeps and that kidnap fantasy.. ohh.. mmm..
well gonna go now.. hehe..

love and light
lee




keme -> RE: Chaste or Slutty (5/24/2006 1:28:58 AM)

I know for me since I have truely discovered who I am and what I want... I have chosen chastity until he finds me. After that the choice is his... a part of me has thought of being used by multiple partners but that could remain just a fantasy... if I am with one who loves me and who I love in return and he doesn't wish to share me... then YAY me... but I certainly couldn't pick a partner... *shakes my head* just not a part of who I am...




Bearlee -> RE: Chaste or Slutty (5/24/2006 3:28:49 PM)

benji!  Stop licking yourself!  Bad dog, bad!!!




aurora31 -> RE: Chaste or Slutty (5/24/2006 3:52:02 PM)

This is a hard one for me to answer as I want to say both 1 & 2. It is the whole "good girl" vs "bad girl" thing that I struggel with. Part of me (the "good girl") very much wants #1. the other part of me (the "bad girl") finds # 2 to be very hot. I am sure in the end alot of it will come down to the one I serve and to me learning to let go of societys standards of accetable behaviors of a womans sexuality.

aurora




OTKkindaGirl -> RE: Chaste or Slutty (5/24/2006 8:26:22 PM)

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ORIGINAL: aurora31

This is a hard one for me to answer as I want to say both 1 & 2. It is the whole "good girl" vs "bad girl" thing that I struggel with. Part of me (the "good girl") very much wants #1. the other part of me (the "bad girl") finds # 2 to be very hot. I am sure in the end alot of it will come down to the one I serve and to me learning to let go of societys standards of accetable behaviors of a womans sexuality.

aurora


i do understand this completely and must confess that it is a deep struggle within myeslf and yet i continue to be the "good girl" i have always tried to be.   part of the fear of even acknowledging option 2 as a desire, is the fear of being "judged" for being obedient, if my Master did it just to fulfill my desires rather than his own.  i don't want my fantasies to supersede those of my Master's desires when i am just as happy being his exclusively.   i don't want to be "easy".  i want it to be a challenge to get me.  putting the decision in my Master's hands is surely the best route to go and yet.........




sweetsubie -> RE: Chaste or Slutty (5/25/2006 2:36:05 AM)

im in two minds iv fantasized about option 2 but i also love being only for my Masters pleasure.
i think there could be complication but if its just play with an unknown Dom while your Master is there i dont think the risk of falling for the other Dom would be that high.




srllile7 -> RE: Chaste or Slutty (5/25/2006 10:01:15 AM)

Right now i'd have to say a solid one.  but Im new in Bdsm and have only been in contact with my Master 3 months now. But deep down the dirtly little me im just learning to listen to hehehehehe would say after im comfortable 110 % with my Master that yes id enjoy the heck out of option two however not on a regular basis just make a nice scene  or something along those lines. 




ArchangelMichael -> RE: Chaste or Slutty (5/25/2006 11:29:40 AM)

I'm gonna go with #1. I'd want to be a little slut for my Mistress, but not for anyone else. I'd prefer to be in chastity and have her use me when she wants to. Being in chastity and knowing that only she could allow me orgasms or sexual pleasure is what makes me feel completely owned.




babysburnin -> RE: Chaste or Slutty (5/27/2006 4:31:45 PM)

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ORIGINAL: OTKkindaGirl

quote:

ORIGINAL: babysburnin

#1 is my personal choice.  I have to admit, I've had a bad dream about #2 that, of course, I shared with my Dom.

#3 I hope He never wants that - it wouldn't be right for me. 




thank you for sharing baby.  is it safe to say that you might consider two even though you had a bad dream about it or is it completely out of the question too?



I will CONSIDER anything and everything.  I have submitted.  I'm not a prude - but worry about my emotions.  I trust HE will take good care of that.  I share with him my feelings.  (honestly, at this point, it would hurt me to share...he knows, so he will not ask now - but...I know he wants to see me with another fem in the future...and other scenarios). 




fastlane -> RE: Chaste or Slutty (5/28/2006 8:07:16 PM)

number one's are awesome..especially knowing you are meant to be "one"

but, number two's try harder...
Fastlane, mumbles and says...fuck Hertz...Avis will become number one...who wants to hop in the backseat with me?

Kevin




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