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Tease And Denial of Female Orgasm - techniques? - 5/23/2006 3:10:10 AM   
hollyhotlips22


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Can anyone help me? I have been set a task by my master which is to write a 500 page essay on my thoughts and turn ons on 'Tease and denial of female orgasm'. He wants me to research on the net and talk about what turned me on - the techniques etc. 
Thing is...i cant find anything!!
Can anyone help me? I only have 24hours to do this and as it is my first real task i really want to please him!
 
Any tips on where i can find this info?
 
please please help!
 
thanks!
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RE: Tease And Denial of Female Orgasm - techniques? - 5/23/2006 3:12:16 AM   
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RE: Tease And Denial of Female Orgasm - techniques? - 5/23/2006 3:37:40 AM   
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RE: Tease And Denial of Female Orgasm - techniques? - 5/23/2006 3:55:47 AM   
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Status: offline 		A 500 page essay in 24 hours is only setting someone up for failure.  Good luck with that, and happy hunting for the next guy.



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RE: Tease And Denial of Female Orgasm - techniques? - 5/23/2006 3:57:52 AM   
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Status: offline 		I wonder if she meant 500 word?

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RE: Tease And Denial of Female Orgasm - techniques? - 5/23/2006 4:01:42 AM   
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RE: Tease And Denial of Female Orgasm - techniques? - 5/23/2006 4:11:10 AM   
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Status: offline 		You better go ask did he mean 500 word or not, 500 page means he is setting you up to fail.

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RE: Tease And Denial of Female Orgasm - techniques? - 5/23/2006 4:11:10 AM   
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I wonder if she meant 500 word?


Possibly.  I'd hope so in fact.  But chances are, the way things go these days, she probably meant 500 pages. *sighs*

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RE: Tease And Denial of Female Orgasm - techniques? - 5/23/2006 4:19:22 AM   
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Status: offline 		oh  see look what has happened - all this sweating and searching caused me to make a mistake!
Yes it wasa 500 WORD not page, im stooopid, sorry!

....and i still havent had much luck.
thanks for the posts tho

aaaa i gotta get on to it!!
xx

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RE: Tease And Denial of Female Orgasm - techniques? - 5/23/2006 5:18:16 AM   
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Try this one,  tantalism.org

Not sure if we can post URLs here or not, so sorry it's not an actual link.  Also, not sure how useful it will be, as I didn't go through the site, but I think it will give you very basic info at the very least.  I'll see what else pops up--lmao.

Peace and love,
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RE: Tease And Denial of Female Orgasm - techniques? - 5/23/2006 5:51:49 AM   
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Can anyone help me? I only have 24hours to do this and as it is my first real task i really want to please him!

Any tips on where i can find this info?


Format for standard 5 paragraph essay (which might be a problem if he doesn't want you to go much OVER 500 words):

1st paragraph- what is an orgasm and what has your experience of an orgasm been.  Give basic introductory statement of the points you will cover in your essay

2nd paragraph- 1st main point of discussion

3rd paragraph- 2nd main point of discussion

4th paragraph- 3rd main point of discussion

5th paragraph- wrap-up summation of points and conclusions drawn

Your hard part will be narrowing down to your three main points of discussion to the very key and relevant points around the topic.

Sigh this is why I hate dork doms giving out random "essay assignments" like candy that are ultimately just busy work that freak a sub out.  They don't take any time to actually teach them HOW to do it, or explain what they REALLY want.  And 500 words?  For a real thorough essay?  Hmph.

At last she didn't get "What is submission"

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RE: Tease And Denial of Female Orgasm - techniques? - 5/23/2006 6:01:07 AM   
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Oh dear did He give you a tough assignment, very hard to find much on female orgasm control and denial. I know these aren't much, but I hope they help in some way.

This one is not about technique, but might be good for the introductory paragraph as it's about the history of female orgasm. http://femaleorgasmsecrets.com/historyofthefemaleorgasm.html

some brief chastity history http://www.straightdope.com/classics/a1_072.html

Lil story about a hubby who makes his own makeshift chastity belt for his wife along with a nice lil shocker.

Scroll down to Chapter 2 of the story http://www.simonmeeuws.com/Stories/stor0014.htm

I'll see what else I can come up with, but figured you'd want these asap, so you can get reading on it.

Isis

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RE: Tease And Denial of Female Orgasm - techniques? - 5/23/2006 6:22:02 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

Sigh this is why I hate dork doms giving out random "essay assignments" like candy that are ultimately just busy work that freak a sub out.  They don't take any time to actually teach them HOW to do it, or explain what they REALLY want.  And 500 words?  For a real thorough essay?  Hmph.



I think this was totally uncalled for. How do you know that her dominant gives essays out 'like candy'? How can you assume that this isn't something which works within their relationship? Perhaps this is just his way of encouraging her to learn more and present her research. Perhaps he also takes the time to teach her a great many things and has decided that this time, researching and writing an essay would be a helpful teaching aid? How do you know this is 'busy work' or designed to 'freak her out'? Perhaps the plan is to sit and discuss this afterwards. Maybe he wants to see what approach she takes to the subject as a way to see what she thinks of the topic and how her mind works. Maybe he decided just 500 words to force her to prioritise her writing and decide what she thinks are the most important aspects. Perhaps he kept it short knowing it was unreasonable to expect more in 24hours.
I think you're being highly judgemental here.  A lot of people find essay writing beneficial as it helps them clarify and organise their thoughts more than discussion. If it's not for you that's fine, but no need to make nasty comments or use name-calling.

good luck with your essay Holly

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RE: Tease And Denial of Female Orgasm - techniques? - 5/23/2006 6:29:22 AM   
FloridaISIS


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This offers a little info, but it does have a few nice teasing ideas.
http://www.fetishexchange.org/genitorture1.shtml

I wish you well,
Isis

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RE: Tease And Denial of Female Orgasm - techniques? - 5/23/2006 6:30:54 AM   
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ORIGINAL: slaveofdarkhold

A lot of people find essay writing beneficial as it helps them clarify and organise their thoughts more than discussion.


Master and I discovered I am one of those.  I was thinking if this was her first, 500 words was designed to make it easy on her, to simply get her mind in the right place and to let her feel the discipline of having something due the next day.  I am often assigned an essay with a 24 hour turn around.  I'm not given word limits but they are typically 1500-2500 words, depending on how my thoughts are flowing.

To the OP:  As for the essay topic itself, Tease and Denial of Female Orgasm, and what turns you on about it, the first thing that comes to mind is to find some erotica sites and look for stories which incorporate orgasm denial.  Personally I find a lot of the free stories online to be a bit cheesy, but browse through what you can, and you may find things about orgasm denial that turn you on....or off, for that matter.

Try masturbating and not letting yourself cum, and think of your Dom while doing so.  When you reach the brink of an orgasm, practice riding that edge a bit and envision him standing over you, telling you to keep grinding but don't cum.  Visualize all sorts of lustful, yummy things he could be doing to you, and begging to cum but not being allowed to.  Does it make you squirm?  Does it turn you on?  Make you wild?  Explore these thoughts and get to writing, chickadee, you're running out of time! 


~edited to add, when I first saw 500 pages, I did the math (because I am dorky like that), and one would have to have the ability to type, on average, 11,458.33 words per minute in order to acheive such a goal within 24 hours!  Glad it's only a 500 word assignment or she'd be screwed!

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RE: Tease And Denial of Female Orgasm - techniques? - 5/23/2006 6:37:42 AM   
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you gave her some wonderful ideas. kudos

Isis

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RE: Tease And Denial of Female Orgasm - techniques? - 5/23/2006 9:43:49 AM   
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ORIGINAL: slaveofdarkhold
I think this was totally uncalled for. How do you know that her dominant gives essays out 'like candy'?

It was an educated guess.  Let's just say I wouldn't be surprised if this were a cyber based or very rarely visits relationship.

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 How can you assume that this isn't something which works within their relationship?

I never said anything about it not working.

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Perhaps this is just his way of encouraging her to learn more and present her research. Perhaps he also takes the time to teach her a great many things and has decided that this time, researching and writing an essay would be a helpful teaching aid?

Because it's her first assignment.  It's not unreasonable to think that this is setting the tone for his style and management.

The fact that he set a very first assignment as an essay, without explaining any sort of structure, or even making sure she knew how to write an essay isn't really a good sign for me of someone who is a good teacher.

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How do you know this is 'busy work' or designed to 'freak her out'?

I don't think it was designed to freak her out- but it did.  That fact right there says maybe this isn't the right way to go about it.

As far as the busy work, that's an educated guess again.  It's the ultimate assignment in which the dom can pluck a question from the air, pass it on, and forget about it.  The slave gets to feel all industrious while the dom gets to play solitaire.

Let's just say I've seen that happen far more often than I've seen doms actually USE essay writing as am effective tool.

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I think you're being highly judgemental here.

Of course I am.

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  A lot of people find essay writing beneficial as it helps them clarify and organise their thoughts more than discussion. If it's not for you that's fine, but no need to make nasty comments or use name-calling.

Of course essay writing CAN BE an effective tool.  It's an excellent way to research and organize thoughts.  It's a great way to explore and become a more logical and adaptable writer- an excellent tool if one wishes to engage in online discussions.

But why the 24 hour limit?  On a FIRST assignment?  Without giving any structure beforehand?  Without going over essay writing basics first?  These are all the hallmarks of giving an assignment that makes people feel domly and subly, without actually building strong skills and providing useful information.

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RE: Tease And Denial of Female Orgasm - techniques? - 5/23/2006 11:48:59 AM   
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RE: Tease And Denial of Female Orgasm - techniques? - 5/23/2006 9:21:33 PM   
hollyhotlips22


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Status: offline 		oh Isis.......xx thank you sooo much for your help, what a gem xx heres a big kiss for you.
And thank you everybody else for your comments and help - what a lovely bunch of people there are on this site!
And to slaveofdarkhold and Luckyalbatross - dont fight girlies, please. You are both equally entitled to your opinions and they are both as valuable as eachother xx thanks both of you for your support! geez im loved up today....must be because i wrote a good essay and im gonna get my reward soon!
 
bye from beautiful NZ

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RE: Tease And Denial of Female Orgasm - techniques? - 5/23/2006 9:32:35 PM   
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Status: offline 		One thing for sure, you won't be having any orgasms in the next 24 hours. I don't think a 500 word essay is too much if it is a subject you are into. Sounds like you did ok. 

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