Iamsemisweet
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Joined: 4/9/2011 From: The Great Northwest, USA Status: offline
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well, I am the OP, and I don't think I said that. It also is not something I would ordinarily say to a woman who couldn't conceive. I might mention adoption, however. Back to the article. I have kids, I love my kids, but I could have been equally fulfilled if I had been childless. I never dreamed about being a mother when I was a kid, I dreamed about having a job. What's more, this article is right, it is really, really hard to build a career and raise kids, and I couldn't have done it without my ex. My ex husband was the best father I ever saw. I got really, really lucky. quote:
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ORIGINAL: HeatherMcLeather  Well, being gay, I'm either part of the problem or the part of the solution, depending on what the problem is. Let me know when you get that question sorted out and I'll either apologize or accept your thanks. [/ Re: the OP, Fertility issues are heartbreaking for many women. Telling them "We have enough kids already" is rather cold.
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