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New fromm .. well.. NJ,NY,Boston MA In order of distance - 9/28/2011 3:41:32 AM

JohnHaxx

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Well.. I get around a lot. :) My names John. I currently live outside of Jersey city, and am in and out of NYC all the time. I moved here immediately after my tourin Afghanistan ended in August. annnnd before that I lived in Boston my whole life.

I'm a recently discovered dom. Never liked sex growing up.. I was an odd teenager. I finally figured out why I wasn't satisfied with it during my last relationship.We discovered BDSM on our own and loved every new thing we learned. Alas, I went to Afghanistan and the distance proved to be too much. It happens. But now I have this... new side of me I didn't know existed. This new world I know so little about.

I'm a raver, and I ride a motorcycle. Music and my bike are the two loves in my life right now. I hold music above everything except the little brother.

This site was recommended to me by a friend after voicing my frustrations about how hard it is to learn without a guiding hand. I'm straight, and know I'm a dom... Tried the switch thing... Didn't work out. I joined the site to find anyone willing to just talk about past experiences. Things you wish someone told you when you started out, I want to know everything I can so when I do find my sub I can be the best I can for her.

Male/female/tran/dom/sub/slave regardless of which kink you prefer I don't judge. I just want to meet interesting people both online and off, that understand me more than my vanilla world does.

OH And I'm 2 weeks away from taking off on an end of the season road trip. From Jersey to daytona, stops in Myrtle beach, Daytona, Tampa, NewOrleans, Hot Springs Arkansas, Nashville TN, And Deals Gap NC.. If you're along that route and want some friendly coffee or lunch, leave me a message here :)

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RE: New fromm .. well.. NJ,NY,Boston MA In order of dis... - 9/28/2011 5:07:48 AM

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Thanks for your service, and welcome to collarme.

Google "BDSM cityname" to find groups in the cities you'll be visiting (and living in). There are active communities in some of the places you listed.

Welcome again.

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RE: New fromm .. well.. NJ,NY,Boston MA In order of dis... - 9/28/2011 8:14:11 AM

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Welcome To CM

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RE: New fromm .. well.. NJ,NY,Boston MA In order of dis... - 9/28/2011 8:15:12 AM

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I'll echo what Steven said.. thanks for you service.. (and coming from NJ, Savannah is on the way.. just sayin ;) )

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RE: New fromm .. well.. NJ,NY,Boston MA In order of dis... - 9/28/2011 7:22:01 PM

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Welcome to CM and the boards. Echoing what was said, thank you for your service. Have a great road trip.

Greedy??.... bike hoor! oops can't forget to include ChickiePoo in there!! OK, me too, but I'm not on the route!

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RE: New fromm .. well.. NJ,NY,Boston MA In order of dis... - 9/28/2011 8:38:01 PM

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Welcome home John, thanks for all you've done and welcome to CM. Enjoy the journey!

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RE: New fromm .. well.. NJ,NY,Boston MA In order of dis... - 9/29/2011 4:18:48 AM

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Welcome & thank you John.

When you're in the Tampa area, you have to check out The Woodshed in Orlando.

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RE: New fromm .. well.. NJ,NY,Boston MA In order of dis... - 9/30/2011 5:56:42 AM

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Welcome John and welcome back, it's the duty of every citizen of CM to give you what you want! I've been to the wild paradise of AF' and was there before the Russians came along, i liked it, but some people like to ruin paradise!

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RE: New fromm .. well.. NJ,NY,Boston MA In order of dis... - 9/30/2011 10:53:41 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: tiggerspoohbear

Greedy??.... bike hoor! oops can't forget to include ChickiePoo in there!! OK, me too, but I'm not on the route!

HARDLY!!

well, kinda..

or maybe just a wee bit..

oh hell, who am I kidding.. a guy with a nice bike grabs my attention.. especially if I can get him to let me take it for a ride!! (the bike, ya perv...)

Seriously, John.. Savannah is on the way (unless you're doing the Tequila Dartboard method of plotting your trip), and assuming that my work schedule doesnt get in the way, it would be an honor to take you out for coffee, or to do a bit of sightseeing.. (there's a LOT of cool stuff in SAV!!)

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RE: New fromm .. well.. NJ,NY,Boston MA In order of dis... - 9/30/2011 2:22:02 PM

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Welcome to CM. Here is some generic advice that may be of some value to you :

Read the forums, all of them. http://www.collarchat.com/m_1726118/tm.htm this is a list of reading material to get you started. Keep in mind anything you read is not a "one true way" and many of the authors will differ in thier views, but reading is no substitute for real life.

Get to some munches. Munches are just vanilla meetings in the ordinary world with like minded people to get to know the people in your area, and learn from thier experience. There is no kinky games, special protocol, or playing done at munches (generally). To find a munch, start by looking http://www.collarchat.com/forumid_17/tt.htm. If you cannot find anything there, google your city, state/province, and the word MUNCH. If you still cannot find anything, head over to fetlife.com and make an account, there are lots of events listed there as well.

Good Luck.

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