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nick51068 -> Are Women attracted to submisive men? (9/30/2011 12:39:37 PM)

I was reading a Mistress' blog a few weeks back and one of her statements was that most Women are not attracted to submisive guys.

So istarted to think back to my dating years and see that it is probably true. I was always very nice to my vanilla girlfreinds and still am very nice to my wife. Now other then my wife they would go out with me for a while (i guess they got board) and dump me, a few weeks later when the next guy treated them like shit they came back, i took them back and a few months later they would dump me again. This would happen 3-4 times before i would stop taking them back and i would move to the next girl that would basically do the same thing.

Now we always had fun and these girls always wanted to still be freinds. In fact they would call me after they dumped me to hang out. So it is not like they didn't like me as a person, they just didn't want to be my GFs.

Now this brings me to my question. Are the Dominant Women on CM attracted to submisive men when it comes to having just plain old sex, or would You prefer to have a non-submisive guy for that? And is that why cuckolding is popular with dominant Womwn and why Dommes often reserve the right to have other men then their subs. Non-sub men are for sex and sub man are for doing what you say, playing with, spanking and suffering for Your pleasure.

Would love to hear people's thoughts.



Lockit -> RE: Are Women attracted to submisive men? (9/30/2011 12:53:31 PM)

I thought for a couple minutes about answering your questions, then I read your profile and decided against it other than to say...

Your misconceptions based on reading and maybe wanking off to profiles... are huge.



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Are Women attracted to submisive men? (9/30/2011 12:55:37 PM)

Cuckolding is NOT popular with dominant women. It's a fetish, but not one that is hugely populated outside of male fantasy.

When I am interested in someone sexually, I don't care about their orientation. Same with those I love. People first, whatever second.



nick51068 -> RE: Are Women attracted to submisive men? (9/30/2011 12:58:11 PM)

If i lied about why i was here like half of CM, would you have responded then. I will get rid of that part of my profile if it makes you happy.



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Are Women attracted to submisive men? (9/30/2011 1:00:56 PM)

What are you on about?



nick51068 -> RE: Are Women attracted to submisive men? (9/30/2011 1:02:39 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

What are you on about?


Sorry just responding to Lockit's comment.



Lockit -> RE: Are Women attracted to submisive men? (9/30/2011 1:03:26 PM)

He is talking about that part of his profile that he says he is married, here to wank to the pretty pictures and talk to people... but he also says he is into online romance... therefore... that is a bit more than talk. So there goes that honesty part and he joins the rest of the liars on CM... in my opinion.

[;)]



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Are Women attracted to submisive men? (9/30/2011 1:07:11 PM)

Well at least he is honest to his readers, if not his spouse! [;)] Plenty of women out there cruising for on the side action, too.




Hillwilliam -> RE: Are Women attracted to submisive men? (9/30/2011 1:09:30 PM)

To the OP, I think you have submissive and milquetoast confused.

Some women like the former. I know of none who like the latter. (There has to be some, I just don't know any)



nick51068 -> RE: Are Women attracted to submisive men? (9/30/2011 1:13:44 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Hillwilliam

To the OP, I think you have submissive and milquetoast confused.

Some women like the former. I know of none who like the latter. (There has to be some, I just don't know any)


Don't really think i fall under the definition of milquetoast. And why is everyone so hostile against me?



nick51068 -> RE: Are Women attracted to submisive men? (9/30/2011 1:15:14 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Lockit

He is talking about that part of his profile that he says he is married, here to wank to the pretty pictures and talk to people... but he also says he is into online romance... therefore... that is a bit more than talk. So there goes that honesty part and he joins the rest of the liars on CM... in my opinion.

[;)]



There is anouther thread about women who are batshit crazy, you might want to check that out.



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Are Women attracted to submisive men? (9/30/2011 1:16:29 PM)

Probably because of your ill informed questions. We get a lot of that sort of thing, sweeping generallizations based on internet crap. And I havent read your profile, so really, if you're married and say so, BONUS, but we really are not friendly to cheaters in this neck of the boards.



Lockit -> RE: Are Women attracted to submisive men? (9/30/2011 1:20:58 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: nick51068


quote:

ORIGINAL: Lockit

He is talking about that part of his profile that he says he is married, here to wank to the pretty pictures and talk to people... but he also says he is into online romance... therefore... that is a bit more than talk. So there goes that honesty part and he joins the rest of the liars on CM... in my opinion.

[;)]



There is anouther thread about women who are batshit crazy, you might want to check that out.


ROFLMAO! Dude... bat shit crazy is being on a site like this, wanking to pretty pictures and asking women about their sexuality... when you have a wife that doesn't know what you are up to and could find out and take your ass in court not only for half the belongings but custody for those boys you love so much.

Let's talk about bat shit crazy.. shall we?



Hillwilliam -> RE: Are Women attracted to submisive men? (9/30/2011 1:22:59 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: nick51068


quote:

ORIGINAL: Hillwilliam

To the OP, I think you have submissive and milquetoast confused.

Some women like the former. I know of none who like the latter. (There has to be some, I just don't know any)


Don't really think i fall under the definition of milquetoast. And why is everyone so hostile against me?

I didn't say you were. I just said women don't like them whether they are Domme, sub or nilla.
Possibly they see that in you where you don't.

It's like a truly competent horseman (or woman). If given the choice between riding a gentle 16 year old gelding and a barely broken young stallion guess which they'll choose?

Oh, they'll ride the gelding when nothing else is available but they NEED that challenge to their skill.



ProlificNeeds -> RE: Are Women attracted to submisive men? (9/30/2011 1:39:19 PM)

OP:

I find submissive men as attractive as dominant men, but I do not find PASSIVE men attractive. Very different things.

Also it occures to me you're basing this question off the fact you were dumped repeatedly. Maybe you just sucked as a boyfriend in general, but were still a great person to be around as a friend?
I know lots of dominant women who have nothing to do with cuckolding or poly relationships or multiple partners ect... so that part of your question bears no real meaning as I see it.



Hisprettybaby -> RE: Are Women attracted to submisive men? (9/30/2011 3:03:23 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Lockit

He is talking about that part of his profile that he says he is married, here to wank to the pretty pictures and talk to people... but he also says he is into online romance... therefore... that is a bit more than talk. So there goes that honesty part and he joins the rest of the liars on CM... in my opinion.

[;)]


Hmm. He deleted the part of his profile that says he's married. So now he can mislead the readers like all the other cheaters who aren't honest.

As for milquetoast guys, no. Whether the guy is submissive or Dominant, I like my guys all-man and not passive. Passive is boring. Sorry. Re: cuckolding, well, if the guy wants it, I'll consider it. I don't go out of my way to do it though.

~Hisprettybaby~



Lockit -> RE: Are Women attracted to submisive men? (9/30/2011 3:15:41 PM)

So much for that honesty thing he was trying to pull off, sounding better than half the men on CM by stating he was married. That was why I said something. Nothing like saying two different things while claiming somehow to be better than the rest! [;)]





MissToYouRedux -> RE: Are Women attracted to submisive men? (9/30/2011 3:18:23 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: nick51068

I was reading a Mistress' blog a few weeks back and one of her statements was that most Women are not attracted to submisive guys.



Without getting into the rest of it.... I don't know about *most*; I only know about *me*. And personally, yes, I am attracted to submissive guys. [8D]



Hisprettybaby -> RE: Are Women attracted to submisive men? (9/30/2011 3:55:18 PM)

I'm not attracted to milquestoast guys on either side of the kneel but, yeah, I'm attracted to submissive guys...and Dominant ones too. I'm a switch. lol Whoever that Mistress was whose blog you were reading, she can only speak for herself and no one else.

~Hisprettybaby~



Tantriqu -> RE: Are Women attracted to submisive men? (9/30/2011 4:28:11 PM)

Same, I'm not interested in milquetoasts or gammas, 'super-alphas' or aggressive dominant males, in public or behind closed door. I like quiet confidence, and when I find a quietly confident good man who likes to be told what to do in the bedroom, *tingle*.
Not interested in bi- guys, so also am not interested in cuckolding which seems very popular with bi-curious guys and those not comfortable with their bi- feelings.
Threeways with two straight good men, absolutely!



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