How did you meet your partner?

How did you meet your partner? (Full Version)

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[Poll]

Online

60% (26)

At a munch

0% (0)

At a BDSM national event

0% (0)

At a BDSM local event

6% (3)

We were partners already and discovered BDSM together

4% (2)

At a public play party

2% (1)

At a private play party

2% (1)

My partner brought me in after we were together

0% (0)

I brought my partner in after we were together

4% (2)

I am still looking for a partner/s

13% (6)

Through a friend into BDSM

4% (2)

Through a non alternative social event

0% (0)

One of our parents got us together

0% (0)

At work

0% (0)

Total Votes : 43

(last vote on : 5/30/2006 6:22:39 PM)
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BitaTruble -> How did you meet your partner? (5/23/2006 3:10:47 PM)
Give some hope or some advice to those still seeking! We've had so many threads on the subject lately, I thought it was time we polled the audience. How did you meet your partner/s? Celeste

LaTigresse -> RE: How did you meet your partner? (5/23/2006 3:20:17 PM)
Well, I currently do not have a partner persay..........but..in the past I have never had problems meeting one, usually they find me. That may sound contradictory or downright fatheaded but if you knew me, its not. I am totally cool being alone. I am of the mind that a really great relationship far outweighs several not so great ones.

bandit25 -> RE: How did you meet your partner? (5/23/2006 3:23:18 PM)
I met my partner here on CM.

siouxie -> RE: How did you meet your partner? (5/23/2006 3:29:12 PM)
my partner and i met last april (2005) as colleagues (well, i was her boss!) and instantly became best friends, after a fantastic summer, the friendship progressed into a relationship. as for bdsm - i've always had the tendencies / fantasies, and i slowly introduced her into it. she didn't think she would at first, but now she loves to dominate me (yaay!)

OhBeMyMind -> RE: How did you meet your partner? (5/23/2006 3:32:18 PM)
Just when I had almost given up on finding a dominant, I was in the process of dropping all of my BDSM and kink related accounts due to a relationship that kind of went bad, Sir messaged me, I was so frustrated that I almost deleted him, but curiosity killed the cat and I just had to see what he had to say and I am glad I did. Despite his lousy spelling....lol....he intrigued me, we started chatting, and did so for awhile on and off, then decided to meet and have lunch. We clicked. We decided to just become play partners, or as some say casual play, and it has developed into more than either of us expected. I completely adore this man! He continues to surprise and amaze me, and we have just barely scratched the surface. Everything is so new to me with him. Anyway, just when you are really ready to throw in the towel, you never know what might be waiting for you. I say to those that are frustrated and eager to find someone....relax, don't quit. I did actally quit the 'lifestyle' for awhile, a very dear friend told me...... "you can take the girl out of the lifestyle, but you cant take the lifestyle out of the girl" Those words had and still have such an impact on me. Wow....was she right! And here I am....lol. Tissues anyone? LOL!!!!!!

cuddleheart50 -> RE: How did you meet your partner? (5/23/2006 3:33:00 PM)
still waiting.[:D]

BitaTruble -> RE: How did you meet your partner? (5/23/2006 3:38:24 PM)
Great story, OhBeMyMind.. just the kind of thing I was hoping for. Thanks for sharing and Sioux.. that's exactly what I was talking about on a different thread.. relationships are 'built' not found so thank you, too! ::stolen from another thread to post here for LaTigresse:: Next May I will take my final exams and when I pass them I will earn the title of Maitre Chocolatier.. Master of Chocolate (winks at LaTigresse) which is the perfect title for the slave of a diabetic. ;) I added that tid bit in to show that hope springs eternal.. if you want to find the perfect mate LaT.. go to Chocolate School! ::laughs::

Kirei -> RE: How did you meet your partner? (5/23/2006 3:41:25 PM)
Well it will be interesting to see what comes of it. Seeing only mine and another make still looking at 2 votes at this time. By the votes maybe this site does do some good. Koneko

Evanesce -> RE: How did you meet your partner? (5/23/2006 3:47:56 PM)
I was still licking my wounds from a bad breakup several months prior, when a friend of mine told me I needed to meet this Kaptin Purple guy (who, as it turned out, I'd seen at a munch but had been too shy to approach). Two weeks later, in response to an ad I had up at that OTHER site (the only one available, I think, at the time), I received an email from a guy calling himself Kaptin Purple. My response was a single line: "OMG. Do you know John?" He IM'd me that night and said whatever John had told me MUST have been a lie. That was April, 2000. We met in person a month later, and have been happily driving each other crazy ever since.

LaTigresse -> RE: How did you meet your partner? (5/23/2006 3:57:34 PM)
OMG......ME!?!?!?..........at CHOCOLATE school?!?!?!?! danger danger!

angelface183 -> RE: How did you meet your partner? (5/23/2006 4:11:15 PM)
This is going to sound awful... I met this guy on CM and we played together once. He found out that I had not been 100% truthful about something and decided that if we were to continue seeing each other then I would have to be punished. One portion of my punishment was to include him seeing me service other men. I had to create a profile for this purpose. The first person that I contacted was SacredDom. I was very attracted to Him and I figured that if I had to service someone it might as well be someone that I would want to! I told him in the email what the story of my punishment and waited for a response. Meanwhile the wannabe Dom was contacting others on his own and making alterations to the profile that I had set up. I was feeling more and more uncomfortable with the idea of this "punishment", for while the idea of accomodating mulitple partners is a turnon, I did not think that my fantasy should be used against me as punishment. After wrestling with my concience and getting advice form a few people (Bita included), I told the wannabe to take a hike. I then sent an email from my regular account to SacredDom and explained the whole thing. His reaction was "YOU ARE WITH THE WRONG GUY!" We started emailing each other and made arrangements to speak briefly on the phone later that night. Three and a half hours later (gotta love those "brief "calls), His batteries for His phone were dead and I was hooked. We never ran out of things to say and had a great deal in common. I cancelled a date that I had with someone else for the next evening and made arrangements to meet SD; we have been together ever since. The minute he walked up to me and wrapped me in his arms I knew I was home. He stimulates me in so many different ways and makes me laugh great big belly laughs. Not only that, but he can turn me into a quivering whimpering convulsing mess as I move from one orgasm to the next. What more can a girl want? Now if I can just build up my stamina to withstand his "brief" training sessions! I love you, Sir and can't wait for you to get here!

acissej -> RE: How did you meet your partner? (5/23/2006 5:28:20 PM)
My husband and I met on a different bdsm site back in 1998. I had taken some time off school and was living in Italy. Because I'm a complete computer addict, even then, I was goofing off more than I should have online. He found my profile on the site and messaged me. Though he was completely wrong for me in soooo many ways, my curiosity got the better of me and I messaged him back. Emails turned into IMs which turned into long transatlantic phone calls and, six long months later, I came back to NJ and we met. Somewhere along the way I realized that even though he seemed completely wrong for me, he couldn't have been more right. And as soon as I confirmed that in person, we almost immediately took our play from online to real life. In 2004, we got married, and that's where we're at now.

BitaTruble -> RE: How did you meet your partner? (5/23/2006 6:27:07 PM)
quote: After wrestling with my concience and getting advice form a few people (Bita included), I told the wannabe to take a hike. Damn.. I 'knew' I gave good advice.. I'm feeling like a Yenta now! ::laughs:: Do you know how happy I am for you? Huh? Do ya? [8D]

angelface183 -> RE: How did you meet your partner? (5/23/2006 6:49:50 PM)
quote: Do you know how happy I am for you? Huh? Do ya? [8D] thank you sweetie! we are pretty happy too. (although I am not sure how happy he will be after reading that post!) We keep pinching ourselves because we can't believe it; the fact that he uses clamps is a whole other matter!

Littlepita -> RE: How did you meet your partner? (5/23/2006 7:22:55 PM)
I met my Dom on another message board when I posted needing help editing a story. He is a writer and offered to help. We started chatting and didn't get back to that story for several months. [:)] After 10 months of being online, he came to get me on my 40th birthday, and took me to the home he made for us. It's been 3 months of bliss and getting better everyday!

smilezz -> RE: How did you meet your partner? (5/23/2006 7:33:02 PM)
Thorns and i happened upon each other over 5 years ago in a chat room called Bondage A Go-Go:1 on yahoo. He lived in Germany at the time, i was still in Michigan. We met several months later, He ended up moving to the states to live in Arizona, a year after that, i moved to be with Him. On December 31, 2005 we were married. I serve Him proudly. ~smilezz~

twicehappy -> RE: How did you meet your partner? (5/24/2006 6:51:27 AM)
Right here on Collarme.

spectreandnectre -> RE: How did you meet your partner? (5/25/2006 6:14:31 PM)
He and i met online about two and a half years ago

Reflectivesoul -> RE: How did you meet your partner? (5/25/2006 8:20:02 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: spectreandnectre He and i met online about two and a half years ago Thats a funny story too cause I knew her and I knew Him, they were both telling me about this wonderful person they had each met.... I was telling Him to give her a try and telling her to give Him a try and low and behold it was eachother they were talking about.... 2 and a half years after the fact, this is one of the couples that I wouldnt have ever given up meeting. I have watched her grow so much in the last 2 years and its an amazing thing. giggles and its so fun helping her get in trouble lol Hell on occasion I even get the Thank you call from Him lol ( thats bad huh.... lol ) hugs nectre

ravn -> RE: How did you meet your partner? (5/25/2006 9:04:12 PM)
Master and i met on collarme....on the Polls and Other Random Stupidity board

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