juliaoceania
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Joined: 4/19/2006 From: Somewhere Over the Rainbow Status: offline
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I am seeing someone I met on alt, and they gave me the link to CM. I know it is hard to believe anyone actually meets from alt and hits it off...lol. It is a new thing, but new things are soooooo damn delicious...lol. And so is he...smiles and blushes here. I do not know about pointers.. either you have met someone that lights you up or you haven't. I do have to say this, I did not actually have that much faith I would meet someone of much substance on alt, and I actually did meet someone well worth knowing. So the only advice i would have to those still looking is to keep an open mind, talk to many people, and do not be shy about letting everyone know you are keeping your options open until you think that a match has a lot of potential.... don't take yourself off the market too quickly in other words. The right one will understand that, and they will stick around until you get to know them well enough to want more. Taking it at a moderate pace does not mean it will not be there, it may help you see how worthy of trust the are (or they are not..smiles).
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