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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus
I dunno. Thing is, cool and self aware as Kana is, all that shit would NOT HAPPPEN without the other half. If she did not trust him, if they didn't have the connection, there wouldn't be any gut punching hot cigar action.

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ORIGINAL: Kana

Then there are days where I genuinely enjoy the fact that she hates it, that it's an act of straight taking/inflicting. Those are the days I like to do shit that makes her howl like a beast, make her beg and crawl, do the humiliating things that she abhors, cry, while I keep coming back for moremoremore. Those are the days cigars and such come into play, that involve heavy aftercare, hard crashes on both sides. These are the scenes that scour the soul clean.But man, they are cathartic.

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ORIGINAL: sheisreeds

Also, I've always found that meeting the right people means being right with yourself. I found the one I thought for sure didn't exist, because I found what I needed within myself.

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ORIGINAL: delilahdelight

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ORIGINAL: Kana

Then there are days where I genuinely enjoy the fact that she hates it, that it's an act of straight taking/inflicting. Those are the days I like to do shit that makes her howl like a beast, make her beg and crawl, do the humiliating things that she abhors, cry, while I keep coming back for moremoremore. Those are the days cigars and such come into play, that involve heavy aftercare, hard crashes on both sides. These are the scenes that scour the soul clean.But man, they are cathartic.

Oh my. My, my, my...

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ORIGINAL: Kana

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus
I dunno. Thing is, cool and self aware as Kana is, all that shit would NOT HAPPPEN without the other half. If she did not trust him, if they didn't have the connection, there wouldn't be any gut punching hot cigar action.

Damn skippy right.
It takes two to tango, and I feed off the vibes she's putting out-the whole scene revolves around how I respond to how she's grooving.
I'm gonna quote from a mail I sent recently:

"When it's done right, a bdsm play is an elaborate elegant dance, with me playing her like a master guitarist, setting the bass but shifting to her counter rhythms, building rhyme and melody until the whole thing intertwines. It's like emotional surfing. With sex! She rolls and I respond, inner tides shifting as I stand, akimbo yet simultaneously completely and constantly in motion, every nerve aflare, tiny muscles acting to maintain balance, at once infinitely aware of exactly where I am and what I am doing while also looking for the next move, the next natural step as I chart my course across her body."

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ORIGINAL: Kana

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus
I dunno. Thing is, cool and self aware as Kana is, all that shit would NOT HAPPPEN without the other half. If she did not trust him, if they didn't have the connection, there wouldn't be any gut punching hot cigar action.

Damn skippy right.
It takes two to tango, and I feed off the vibes she's putting out-the whole scene revolves around how I respond to how she's grooving.
I'm gonna quote from a mail I sent recently:

"When it's done right, a bdsm play is an elaborate elegant dance, with me playing her like a master guitarist, setting the bass but shifting to her counter rhythms, building rhyme and melody until the whole thing intertwines. It's like emotional surfing. With sex! She rolls and I respond, inner tides shifting as I stand, akimbo yet simultaneously completely and constantly in motion, every nerve aflare, tiny muscles acting to maintain balance, at once infinitely aware of exactly where I am and what I am doing while also looking for the next move, the next natural step as I chart my course across her body."

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ORIGINAL: DeviantlyD
Do you prefer the person you play with to enjoy the pain or hate the pain? And please elaborate, if you are willing.

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ORIGINAL: yourMasterTerry

And it starts, here you go again getting away from the OP's topic... I answered the OP and you don't like what I say but I am enjoying the facts that you like to make everything all about me!
Do you really know what a Sadist is or is sociopath the only word you know? And WTF is a "cool" Sadist? Hurting people against their will is illegal. A small level of consent is necessary. Without consent is the act of a criminal sadist. Prisons and cemetaries are full of criminal sadists.