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RE: Frustrated - 10/4/2011 9:16:05 AM

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OP, I read a statistic that said only about 10 % of the gay community is into wiitwd. Considering that homosexuality appears to run at a rate of 4% in males and only 2% in females according to the newest studies, of course this means you have a small pool to pick from. When you add in the other preferences you have, as we all have our preferences, the odds of finding your perfect partner lessen even more.

However, even for vanilla heterosexuals it takes years if not decades to find the right partner. So to be expecting to do that sight unseen through email in a week is unrealistic. Go date women in your local communities, gay and kink, and talk about what you're interested in. Make friends, even if one woman isn't a great match for you, it doesn't mean she won't know someone else who she thinks you would pair up better with.

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RE: Frustrated - 10/4/2011 9:45:14 AM

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I'm like shy hitting on girls, because every time I do - they seem to get freaked out

Hit on gay guys... that'll REALLY "freak" them out!!!

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RE: Frustrated - 10/4/2011 10:45:05 AM

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Oh we're out there, it's just that we're picky too. You're a vegetarian, so that's a no go for me.

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RE: Frustrated - 10/4/2011 2:09:17 PM

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I have always enjoyed the forums here. That said wasnt there just a thread about how many 23 year olds we flooding the site? the owners cant keep.out people w.multiple profiles? Come on people they love it.

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RE: Frustrated - 10/4/2011 2:22:59 PM

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just get cam confirmation right away. easy pee-zee. if someone isn't willing to get on cam just long enough to confirm who they are and what they look like, they're hiding SOMETHING, princess.

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Hello everyone,
This site frustrates me so much. Every single domme I've encountered is a guy lying to me. Or I feel like they're too old for me. I know I'm kind of picky, but I mean I didn't think it would be that hard to find someone. I'm seriously like giving up. For all you successful people in a lesbian domme/sub relationship- how long did it take you?

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RE: Frustrated - 10/4/2011 2:52:33 PM

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nvm

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RE: Frustrated - 10/4/2011 4:38:33 PM

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Hello everyone,
This site frustrates me so much. Every single domme I've encountered is a guy lying to me. (It's what we do...it's what we get paid 3 bucks an hour for) Or I feel like they're too old for me (How old is too old? I'm 73....My doctor has given me a full bill of health....I have a Jacupump....7 prescriptions for Viagra....and I have a picture of Pamela Anderson on 3 of my 6 main walls.....WTF else could you ask for gawwwdammit!!!???), . I know I'm kind of picky, but I mean I didn't think it would be that hard to find someone. I'm seriously like giving up. (I'm a full blooded American male, with full access to Medicare...and I've paid all my premiums for the next 30 days!!!....WTF else do you want gawwwwdammitt????) For all you successful people in a lesbian domme/sub relationship- how long did it take you?

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