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myotherself -> RE: :( :( :( (10/4/2011 6:46:39 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Aileen1968




ha! Just changed my profile pic. The hamster's happy though.


I used to have a hamster called Basil (Fawlty Towers fans will understand this).

I loved that little fella :)

I swear he used to smile at me!




LaTigresse -> RE: :( :( :( (10/4/2011 7:06:11 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Hillwilliam

I still gotta get one of those chairs some day.


Me too........just for giggles. And when I want to play QueenoftheFuckinUniverse.[:D]




Iamsemisweet -> RE: :( :( :( (10/4/2011 7:41:57 AM)

Actually, my best friend was looking at profiles on the other side a couple of days ago, and she said it reminded her of the People of Walmart website.




MissImmortalPain -> RE: :( :( :( (10/4/2011 7:43:04 AM)

Have you stoped to think that a lot of people don't like cameras. They think to much about what they will end up looking like. And really on a site like this that can make some peope feel bad. I get a lot of comments about how I would look better if I smiled. But the truth is I know my picture is being taken and unless someone screams smile(which normally looks fake) I just don't feel the urge. Besides I'm a mean, pushy, controling bitch....honesty in advertizing don't you know.




Iamsemisweet -> RE: :( :( :( (10/4/2011 7:49:41 AM)

Your photo is nice, Miss, smile or not.
On the other side though, since it is a dating website, doesn't it make sense to have a flattering picture? That would be true on a vanilla website, I think it is equally true here. If your first thought on looking at a picture is " I wouldn't want to meet that guy in a dark alley", then you are probably not going to be interested in meeting the person. Especially if you are nervous about dating, let alone BDSM. No wonder so many people complain that they never meet anyone here.




Rochsub2009 -> RE: :( :( :( (10/4/2011 8:27:37 AM)

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ORIGINAL: BlackTigerDragon

Why do some people look so unhappy in their profile photos? After looking though profiles...I don't think I want to try this lifestyle any more...it looks boring and depressing.



You obviously haven't browsed any of the profiles of the 22 year old financial Dommes holding a fist full of cash.  They all look very happy.  [:D]

But seriously, there is an extreme variety of photos on this site.  Some people have cartoons for their avatars.  Others have animals.  Some (like yourself) only show one part of their body.  Others have photos that are not even of themselves.  So I wouldn't draw any conclusions based on the profile pictures.  Remember, the very nature of this site makes many people reluctant to post face shots.

Lastly, would you really give up on the lifestyle because peoples' pictures look depressing?  Really?  If you went to a sex website like AdultFriendFinder, and saw faces that didn't look happy, would you give up sex?  Or if you went to a culinary website and saw pictures that didn't look happy, would you give up eating?

Those may sound like extreme examples, but hopefully they help you see how silly your comment sounds.  Hopefully, you aren't really so easily swayed in your decisions.




LaTigresse -> RE: :( :( :( (10/4/2011 8:57:50 AM)

 
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ORIGINAL: Iamsemisweet

Actually, my best friend was looking at profiles on the other side a couple of days ago, and she said it reminded her of the People of Walmart website.


Sad but true!




DesFIP -> RE: :( :( :( (10/4/2011 9:09:41 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Hillwilliam
Holly's meat loaf? [8D]


Talk about a depressing dinner!

Seriously op, if you're feeling more depressed now than a few months ago, I would suggest you be evaluated for Seasonal Affectiveness Disorder. It sneaks up on us as the amount of sunlight dwindles.

Or just start taking one Vitamin D III pill (5,000 IU) daily and see if it helps.




Killerangel -> RE: :( :( :( (10/4/2011 10:06:41 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Hillwilliam

Holly's meat loaf? [8D]


You know, I was going to say that based on seeing that culinary delight referred to a few times in the forums, but didn't think I was well enough aquainted with the lady in question to errrr poke fun. So Mom's muffins it was!




Endivius -> RE: :( :( :( (10/4/2011 11:00:57 AM)

I smiled in my pic cause I had just gotten a kiss from a good les friend :)




NocturnalStalker -> RE: :( :( :( (10/4/2011 2:08:44 PM)

You don't deserve to see my smile.




HeatherMcLeather -> RE: :( :( :( (10/4/2011 2:44:45 PM)

I always wondered what was with all the Dommes with pictures of their feet.




BlackTigerDragon -> RE: :( :( :( (10/4/2011 7:47:50 PM)

Good discussion guys.
At least my feet look a lot happyier than some of these profiles have seen. I've been thinking of changing it actually after reading message after message of "OMG FEEEEEEEEEEEEEEETTTTT <entire message>".
Hmm...what should I put in it?









JanahX -> RE: :( :( :( (10/4/2011 7:56:01 PM)


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ORIGINAL: BlackTigerDragon

Ok, small stupid question:

Why do some people look so unhappy in their profile photos? After looking though profiles...I don't think I want to try this lifestyle any more...it looks boring and depressing. :(
...
in fact, all my experiences with it has been boring and depressing...



If they smiled .. it might reveal that they havent brushed or flossed their teeth in 10+ years.

[image]local://upfiles/1059980/0D206FC1034A4EAA8271BBAB2A20F973.jpg[/image]




WinsomeDefiance -> RE: :( :( :( (10/4/2011 8:03:02 PM)

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ORIGINAL: BlackTigerDragon

Ok, small stupid question:

Why do some people look so unhappy in their profile photos? After looking though profiles...I don't think I want to try this lifestyle any more...it looks boring and depressing. :(
...
in fact, all my experiences with it has been boring and depressing...



Hmm, that hasn't been my experience.  My experience has been more along the lines of:: 


[image]local://upfiles/470251/D0095DDB8A2046259B35B95D18C1E28A.jpg[/image]

ETA:  This is my friend Jim, taken after a Lord's of Leather Mardi Gras Ball.  I'm sure he would have been all frowning and menacing if he wasn't having so much fun.




SailingBum -> RE: :( :( :( (10/4/2011 9:32:29 PM)


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ORIGINAL: HeatherMcLeather

I always wondered what was with all the Dommes with pictures of their feet.


I hang with the I don't get it crowd. Feet are just Fugly.

BadOne




lazarus1983 -> RE: :( :( :( (10/4/2011 9:49:16 PM)

Hey, in my defense I suffer from Clint Eastwood Syndrome. My face is naturally set in a scowl. So when I smile, I basically get a flat line with my lips instead of a happy curve. I look...grim ?

But there are dozens of us worldwide that suffer from this terrible affliction, and we will not be ignored! Unite!




DeviantlyD -> RE: :( :( :( (10/4/2011 9:52:15 PM)


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ORIGINAL: SailingBum

Ehhh i suspect Kana is correct in his assessment of the situation. Or it could be the OP is nuttin but a whiny lil bitch. You decide!

BadOne


Your post reminded me of this!

[image]http://www.funnyden.com/funnypics/113/cartoon01.gif[/image]

:)




DeviantlyD -> RE: :( :( :( (10/4/2011 9:56:59 PM)


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ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance

This is my friend Jim, taken after a Lord's of Leather Mardi Gras Ball.  I'm sure he would have been all frowning and menacing if he wasn't having so much fun.


Not shy, your friend Jim. ;)




MissImmortalPain -> RE: :( :( :( (10/4/2011 10:52:32 PM)

I agree with you that it should be a flattering picture, sweetness. The issue would be deciding what is flattering and what isn't. As I said I get told I should smile a lot, but(think about this for a second) this isn't a normal dating site(vomits at the thought of "dating") I am domme, hear me roar...meow...guys talk to me because they want to know if I have an edge to me. I do so I figure it might as well show in my pictures. Besides this isn't high school and my parents aren't paying for my pictures. I'm not smiling just because some guy said I should*does a little dance*

*oh* and no one asked but who would rather see stalker cry than smile? My vote is for bawling baby boy.




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