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kalikshama -> RE: how to find a master (10/5/2011 10:11:25 AM)
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Hi Wreckless,
Your profile says "under consideration and not seeking to meet" - did this happen since you posted yesterday or do you need to update your profile?
I'm a bit worried about you and suggest you read up about "sub frenzy." I'm not sure how likely some random guy you've just met from the internet will respect your no sex limit after you're tied up.
Best,
KK
http://www.albanypowerexchange.com/Lifestyle/sub_frenzies.htm
Fairly quickly the submissive may discover that 'getting their fix', becomes supremely important in their lives. It can leave them irrational, willing to make poor decisions, rash, impulsive and generally stupid. A submissive in a frenzied state is at their most vulnerable to succumbing to the ploys of those less than admirable. They may become easily enthralled, believe themselves 'in love', willing to give over anything (almost literally) in order to fill that enormous void in their life.
Contact with a Dominant, almost any kind will tend to rivet their attention. The very first gift that the submissive gives away here is their common sense. The sensations piggyback, by this I mean that the submissive upon discovering the community and all the excitement and feelings surrounding 'finding their home', may easily pile on their 'desire' for completion and pounce on the first candidate that comes along as being 'the one'. They invest everything, believe everything and leap at the opportunity. Too often they discover they have grabbed at a tin ring instead of a brass one, they have some sort of nasty or unpleasant experience and step back trying to discover what is wrong in their new world.
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